"Indoda idinga indoda." Nsuku zonke sifumana inani elikhulu labantu abahlukeneyo. Ubudala, uhlobo, imbono yombono, ukubonakala, umzimba, imilinganiselo - yonke into eyahlukileyo, iyafana, kodwa enye ayikho nje! Siyaqhelana kwaye sithetha, sihlobo kwaye sixabana. Uninzi lwethu unomdla, kodwa ungayifumana njani yakho, eyakho kunye nabasondeleyo? Kwenzeka ukuba sifumana umntu, siyifumanisa kakhulu kangangokuthi asikwazi ukucinga ngobomi bethu ngaphandle kwalo. Kodwa ke, emva kwexesha, ngelishwa, kwenzeka ngenxalenye yalo. Kwaye ke, ngenxa yezizathu esiziqondiyo, sizama kanzima, kodwa kungenasiphelo, ukufumanisa ngokuchasene nolunye uhlobo oluthile lomntu othi "umntu" oshiye ngasemva kwimemori ... Emva kwexesha elithile siza kuhlangana ngengozi lowo wayekade "wakhe", kwaye akayi kumbona ... Kubuhlungu.
Ngethamsanqa, ngokuphindaphindiweyo, asilahlekelwa ngabathandekayo, kuba siyabaxabisa! Imiphefumlo emibini yabomthonyama ayifuni ukulahlekelwa, kwaye ukulungelelanisa kunamandla kakhulu, kwaye amandla olwalamano lunamandla kakhulu.
Kwenzeka ntoni ukuba umntu osondeleyo usondele?
I-Physics ibonisa ukuba izichaso ziyakhangwa. Kodwa ukwenzela ukwakha nawuphi na ulwalamano, kubalulekile ukuba nento into efanayo, into enokudibanisa umdla. Kukwacaca ukuba okufanayo, abantu abafana ngokufanayo, abayi kukwazi ukunyamezela omnye ixesha elide. Cinga, ngaba uya kuhamba kunye nawe? Akunakwenzeka. Ngenxa yokuba ngamnye kuthi unomxholo ohluke ngokupheleleyo wepesenti zomntu othile. Yingakho kungokwesiko ukubeka indawo engathethi kunye nokuthetha ecaleni kwetafile ukuze kungabikho ukudibana kunye nexhala! Xa abantu abachasene kakhulu, babonakala bexhasana. Oko umntu wokuqala angenakho ebomini kuninzi kwinqanaba, kwaye ngokufanayo. Ekuqaleni, kunokuba kunzima ukufumana ukunyaniseka, kuba izimvo kunye neengcamango ziyahluka kakhulu. Kodwa xa wenza umgudu uze uzame ukuqonda nokuva umthandayo, le nto iya kuba yimpumelelo kakhulu, yaye isi sibini siza kuvuya! Emva kokuhlanganiswa okunjalo, ebomini baya kufuna omnye nomnye. Mhlawumbi yeso sizathu ukuba indoda okanye ibhinqa ibonakala ifana neyabo yangaphambili: nokuba ibonakala okanye impawu.
Umntu osondeleyo akayena mntu wesini esahlukileyo. Unokuba ngumama okanye utata, umzalwana okanye udade. Ekubeni aba bantu bahlala nathi, ngoko, ukuba asivaliwe, bayazi ngathi asinakho. Ngaphezu koko, kubantu abanjalo igazi elinye lihamba. Intsapho into eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba sinayo, into ebaluleke kakhulu ekufuneka siyikhusele! Simele sibabonge kubazali bethu ukuba basikhulisile.
Okumangalisayo kukuba, abantu abasondeleyo abanakunxulumaniswa nonke. Imiphefumlo yohlobo nje yadibana, kwaye ukuqonda kubudlelwane bulawula, njengokuba kungekho mntu. Loo mzekelo sihlala sibona ebusweni bomntu, xa umzalwana onyanisekileyo uthathwa njengomhlobo.
Kwaye akukho nto ayikwazi ukukhetha phakathi kwabathandekayo. Zama ukunika bonke abantu ithuba! Akulungile, ukhethe phakathi komama kunye nentombi, intombi kunye nomhlobo. Ukuba uqala ukubeka iimeko ezinjalo - khumbula ukuba umntu obiza kakhulu kuye, akayi kuhamba.
Yaye xa umntu osondeleyo esondele, siziva singakhathazeki kwaye sizolile, asifuni omnye umntu ...
Yintoni eyenza abantu bavale?
Akukho mntu unokunika impendulo engabonakaliyo kulo mbuzo. Emva koko, wonke umntu unamava kunye namabali abo. Kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo zonke iintlobano zakhiwa ngomhlaba omnye. Ukuqonda, ukuhlonipha, ukunyamekela kunye nokubulela kuyinyathelo lokuqala lokunyanzela ukuba abantu abasondeleyo basondele!
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ukwazi ukuqonda nokuxolela. Omnye kufuneka alumkele abantu abathandekayo entliziyweni, bangaze baphukise. Vala abantu bavelelane, ngoko musa ukungabaza! Yinyamekele ubuhlobo!