Khangela ngosuku lokuqala

Umhla wokuqala uhlala unomdla wokubambisana nabo bobabini. Iyanelisekisa ngokungaqiniseki kwayo kunye nokuxhamla. Kuphakanyiswa imibuzo eninzi entloko malunga nendlela yokukhetha uhlobo luni loqhumiso, yintoni isimbo seengubo zokukhetha, nokuba ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba uwanga ngosuku lokuqala.

Makhe sizame ukubona oko kubangelwa ngomhla wokuqala, nokuba ngaba kuyimfuneko ngokubanzi kunye nendlela yokuziphatha ngayo, ukuba iqabane lakho lingalindelanga ngokubanga kuqala.

Ukukhawula Ngomhla Wokuqala

Iibhande zihlala zihlala kwaye zihlala kwindawo ebalulekileyo ebomini bomntu. Siyabonga kubo, umntu uveza iimvakalelo zakhe, abonise iqabane lakhe yonke imizwa yakhe ngaye.

Ngoko, ukuba uyazibuza ukuba ukubanga kulungile kumhla wokuqala, sincoma ukuba uphulaphule la macebiso alandelayo.

1. Ukuba ungumhlobo wowesifazane - ohamba phambili, ohlala ekulungele ukukhawuleza kwi-whirlpool kunye nentloko ebubudlelwaneni, sele efuna iimvakalelo ezintsha kunye neemvakalelo. Emva koko uyazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ufuna ukubamba ngosuku lwakho lokuqala. Kuyinto engokwemvelo kuwe.
2. Ukuba uyaziphathisa ngendlela enokuthobeka yobuntu, ke ngoko uyanqabana ngokumkelekileyo kwintlanganiso yokuqala. Uyi-dilettante kwaye awuyi kutshintsha imigaqo yakho. Ukhangele iqabane elithembekileyo, ulindele ukunyaniseka kweemvakalelo zakhe, ubuhlobo bakho bufanele bude kwaye bunzulu.

Ngoko i-poll yecatshulwa ithi phantse i-75% yabaphendulayo ngomhla wokuqala ayengazanga nje ukuwanga, kodwa kunye nesondo lokuqala. I-40% yale nombolo yabandakanyeka kule ndawo kunye nabaqhelana nabo, ababophelelane nabo ubuhlobo babo kwi-intanethi, kunye ne-35% - kuphela ngala madoda ayebaziyo ngaphandle kwe-intanethi.

Akuyi kuba yinto enqabileyo ukuba uqaphele ukuba kufike kuwe ukuba uya kubanga ngosuku lwakho lokuqala okanye cha. Konke kuxhomekeke kwindawo yakho yokuphila, iinjongo, umdla, amandla kunye nokukwazi ukumelana nomsindo weqabane. Kodwa musa ukulibala ukuba akukho ndawo ukujonga umntu ofikeleleka lula ukuba umntu uyakuthanda kakhulu kwaye uceba ukuqhubeka kunye nesimo sengqondo okanye ulwalamano, umhlengikazi malunga nalo okanye izicwangciso zexesha elizayo elizayo. Ewe, ukuba ufuna ngokwenene kwaye uzwela indoda iphostile ingqondo yakho, bhince kwimpilo. Emva kwakho konke, njengokuba uyazi, ukubanga kunomphumo omuhle kwiimeko zempilo yabantu.

Kodwa khumbula ukuba akudingeki uwanga kumhlangano wokuqala. Ukwazi ukuthetha cha. Awunetyala nantoni na. Ngoko, ukumanga ngosuku lokuqala kuvumelekile xa uzigqiba ukuba banelungelo lokuzibonakalisa ngokwabo kwintlanganiso yokuqala kunye nomntu.