Kuye kwaziwa ixesha elide ukuba ulwazi olungakumbi lunokufundwa kulwimi lwezandla lwabantu ngaphandle kwintetho eqhelekileyo. Imisitho iya kuphawuleza ivelise iimvakalelo zangempela, nangona umntu efihla. Ukwazi umzimba womzimba kunye nokuthathwa kwamadoda, awukwazi ukuqaphela nje ukuba uthini odibanisa naye, kodwa neenjongo zakhe ezithile. Yaye oku, kufuneka uvume, kuya kuba luncedo kunoma yiphina imeko. Ngoko, makhe sicinge ngeendlela ezininzi eziza kunceda nawuphi na umfazi ukuba acinge ngehambo lakhe elizayo:
Imisitho yabantwana, oku kuthetha ukuvelana
Ekubeni kwento enesihawu, umfana ulungisa izambatho zakhe, uguqa okanye unxibe iinwele zakhe, ngoko ke uyazama ukujonga bhetele. Ngeemvavanyo zakhe zokusondela, ukuhlasela kwakhe kwendawo yakho kunye nentloko ethe tye kwicala lakho kuthetha ngelixa uxoxa. Ukuphawula kukuthintela umdla wakhe.
Umqondiso wokuqonda ngokufanelekileyo kwabaxhamli be-interlocutors ukufana kweendlela kunye nesitayela soqhagamshelwano. Xa umntu ekopisha ukunyakaza kwakho - iindlela ezimbini, okanye ulungele ngamabomu kuwe okanye angenzi lutho. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, kulungile, uya kumnxeba.
Ukungabi nomdla kumntu onelwimi lwezandla
Ngamanye amaxesha emva komhla wokuqala intombazana ilahlekile ngombono, kutheni le ntombazana ingamthiyi. Kodwa ukuba wayesazi indlela yokuqonda impawu yomntu, wayenokuqonda ukuba wayengamthandi. Ngoko, ukuba umfana uyavutha, akayi kuvumelana nawe ngaphakathi, ingxoxo iya kuba ngumthwalo kuye, ucinga nje ngendlela yokuphuma ngokukhawuleza, uya kuphawula izinto ezinjalo: ukuchukumisa indlebe, ukugcina intsana ngesandla sayo, iisokisi zemilenze iya kuhanjiswa ekuphumeni . I-boredom ithetha kwakhona ngokubetha unyawo lwakhe phantsi, ukubetha ipeni lomthombo, ukudweba ngokucacileyo iphepheni kwaye ungabonakali. Ukubonakala kwakho, uwela iingalo zakhe okanye imilenze - awunalo ithuba, akaboni kuwe umfazi kunye nomlingani wesini.
Uxoki kwiLwimi lwezandla lamadoda
Ukwazi ukuba yintoni umqondiso womntu othethayo, unokukwazi ukubona ngokucacileyo xa uya kulala. Isandla sakhe silele emlonyeni wakhe okanye sichukumise impumlo yakhe, ngethuba le ncoko yakho, mhlawumbi akufanele uqiniseke okokutshoyo. Indoda ethetha into engeyinyaniso, ibheka kude, ngokukhawuleza ikhangele amehlo akho ukuqinisekisa ukuba uyakholelwa kuye. Umqambimanga ongenamava uya kumva, ukuguqulela ingxoxo kwenye yesihloko, ukukhupha izinto zangaphandle ezandleni zakhe. Umqambimanga onamava ukuba angaphuthelwa ukusabela kwakho, ngokuchaseneyo, uya kujonga ngamehlo. Kule meko, uya kuhlala ephosa okanye ephazamise.
Ukutolika ulwimi lwezandla zoluntu kufuneka luchaneke, kuba ezinye izenzo zineentsingiselo ezimbini. Ngokomzekelo, ukwesaba kunye nokukhangela ukubonakala kungabonakali ubuxoki - ukuziphatha okufanayo kuya kuba ngumntu onamahloni kunye onamahloni. Kuyinto engaqondakaliyo ukuqonda umntu ngokuhlalutya izenzo zakhe.
Ukuqonda impawu yabasetyhini, ngexesha labo lokuzigcina bajonga abantu ababajikelezile, bahlalutye izenzo zabo. Ngoko unako ukubona iipateni abantu abazisebenzisayo ngisho nangomzimba omncinci kunye nesimo sombuso. Ukuqeqesha ingqondo, ukusetyenziswa okulula kunokusetyenziswa. Vula iTV ngaphandle kwesandi kwaye ugxininise kwingxoxo kwinkrini. Qaphela ukulandelelana kunye nempawu yokuthintela abantu. Zama ukuqagela ukuba yintoni incoko, kwaye uyintoni na isikhundla sakho. Emva kwithuba elithile, ungavula isandi uze uvavanye. Ekuqaleni
Ukunikezela ukubonakaliswa kwindoda ebusweni bodwa bodwa okanye ibini yezinto ezihlukeneyo aziyi kuchaneka ngokupheleleyo. Kubalulekile ngokubanzi ukuqonda lonke ulwimi lomzimba kwaye ufikelele kwisigqibo malunga nawo onke amanqaku.