Umtshato wesini-wesibini - i-pros and cons

Imitshato yofana ngesini ibangela ukuhlaliswa kwabantu emphakathini wanamhlanje, eqinisweni, ibhekisela kumntu ongqingiliyo. Imitshato efana nesini esele ixhaphake eYurophu nakwi-US - ngabantu abaqhelekileyo kubangela ukukhusela nokukhula kwabantu . Ukuvuma kwezenkolo kubone ukusemthethweni kwemibutho yecala elifanayo njengesisongelo ngqo kwiziko lemveli lentsapho.

Umtshato wesini-nye uthetha ntoni?

Umtshato phakathi kwabantu abafana ngesini esinye okanye ngesini - ubizwa ngokuba ngumlingani wesini. Izikhundla zezenhlalakahle okanye iindima "zomyeni" kunye "nomfazi" kuloo mitshato iya kutshintshwa "ngumlingani 1" kunye "nomlingane 2". Iimanyano zesini ngokwabelana ngesondo zaqala ngokusemthethweni eNetherlands ngo-2001. Lo mtshato unomthwalo wonke wemithwalo yemithetho yendalo:

• ilungelo lokufumana ipropati edibeneyo;
• i-alimony kwimeko yokuqhawula (kulawo mazwe apho ukwamkelwa nokukhuliswa kwabantwana kuvunyelwe kunye nokusemthethweni komtshato);
• igama eliqhelekileyo labantu ababini;
• inshorensi yezokwelapha kunye nentlalo;
• unelungelo lokuba ngumphathiswa womlingane kumaziko ahlukeneyo karhulumente.

Iinkonzo kunye neengxaki zomtshato wesini

Nawuphi na umcimbi, nangona kunjalo unobungozi kunye nobuhlungu emphakathini, unemiba emihle kunye neyobubi - ukuqinisekiswa komtshato wesini, akukho nto. Kwakukho njalo abantu, abambalwa kubo, abo, ngenxa yeziganeko zabo ezingafaniyo, bahluke kakhulu kuninzi, kwaye bazingenakwenzeka kwaye bazalwa ngokwezesini ngokobulili babo. Amazwe apho imitshato eyahlukileyo yemibhangqwana ekhethekileyo yobulili yakhetha le ndlela. mhlawumbi ngenxa yezizathu ezilungileyo zabantu, ukunqoba ukungalingani kwezentlalo. Yintoni oku kuza kubangela uluntu-kukho imibuzo engaphezulu kuneempendulo.

Imitshato yobulili obufanayo, i-pluses (ecacileyo kubabodwa ngokwabo):

• abantu besini esifanayo baqondana kakuhle, umanyano oqinileyo ngokusekelwe ekuqondeni ngokusemthethweni kunokwenzeka;
• Umtshato osemthethweni unika ilungelo lokuqhathanisa isini esinikwa ngokwesini kunye nesini esithandana nabesilisa nabesifazana ukuba ilahle impahla edibeneyo, ukuqhuba ishishini;
• ukungabikho kocalucalulo olusekelwe ngokwesini, njengokuba kunjalo rhoqo kwiintsapho zesini;
• ukugcinwa kwinqwelo yokugqoka kunye nokutshintshana kweengubo.

Iimigodi zezinyunyana zobulili obufanayo:

1. Ukugxininiswa ngumntu ongqingiliyo, ngamanye amaxesha kubangelwa ubundlobongela kunye nokusetyenziswa kogonyamelo.
2. Ukungaphelelanga ekukhulisweni kwabantwana, ngubani oza kuhlakulela ukuzenzela ukuziphatha ngokwesini kunye nokuhleka usulu kwiintsapho ezizaliswe ngokupheleleyo, oku kuya kubangela ukukhathazeka kwengqondo, ukubunjwa kwezakhiwo kunye neurosis.

Kutheni kusemthethweni umtshato wesini?

Umthonyama wobuhlanga obunini-mthethweni ekumthethweni komtshato wesini obufanayo ubonakala ngokugwetywa kunye nokwesaba ikusasa leentlanga. Kutheni imibhangqwana engqingili, lo mbuzo urhulumente kunye nabantu belizwe ngalinye banombono walo, kodwa ngokubanzi, izizathu zilandelayo:

• ukuqaphela ukuba abantu abancinci bezesini bafanelwe amalungelo afanayo yomtshato ngokomthetho njengabo bonke abanye;
• ukulwa nokulwa kwabantu, ukubandlululwa kunye nokucalulwa .

Imitshatweni yobulili obufanayo kwi-Orthodoxy

Imitshato engabonakaliyo eBhayibhileni ibhekwa ingavumelekanga kwaye ubudlelwane phakathi kwabameli bobulili obufanayo bunesono kwaye bugwetyelwe. Imithetho kaMoses kwiLevitikus ibhekisela kwizenzo zobungqingili njengento "ekhohlakeleyo neyonyanya." UbuKristu bokwama-Orthodox banamhlanje, kutheni imibhangqwana yongqingili ivinjelwe? Kukho izizathu ezininzi zezi:

1. Isipho soMdali kwakukudala abantu abahlukeneyo ngokwesini: amadoda nabasetyhini.
2. Umanyano odibeneyo uququzelela umyalelo wokuqala woMdali: ukuqhubeka nokunyuswa kohlanga lwesintu (abafana bobulili obufanayo abanakwazi ukuqonda injongo kaThixo, ukukhulelwa).
3. Umanyano womntu kunye nomfazi akukhona nje ukuhluka komzimba, kodwa kunye nemifanekiso eyahlukileyo eyancedisanayo emtshatweni (kwimitshatweni yobulili obufana nanye ayikho intsebenziswano.

Imitshato efana nesini e-Islam

Imitshato ye-Unisex kunye necawa ayingqinelaniyo. Umtshato wendabuko ophakathi komntu nomfazi ungcwele kwaye uyamkholisa ku-Allah. Ubungqingili kunye nobundlobongela kwiSilamsi bahlawuliswa ngokusesikweni, ukuya kwisigwebo sokufa (umzekelo, ukuhla kwizakhiwo eziphakamileyo, ukuxutywa ngamatye), kumazwe afana ne:

• I-Iran;
• Afghanistan;
• ESudan;
• Saudi Arabia;
• ENigeria.

Ukuze ugweme ukusasazeka kwezesini zobungqingili, kukho imigaqo eqinile:

• Abantwana (amakhwenkwe namantombazana) ukususela kwiminyaka emashumi asixhenxe akufanele balele ebhedeni elifanayo;
• Amadoda akufanele akhange omnye kwisinye (izibambo zivunyelwe kwaye kumanga umntu omdala);
• akunakwenzeka ukuhlala endaweni enye kunye namadoda avuthiweyo anamadoda aselula asebenzileyo izityalo ebusweni bawo;
• abavunyelwe ukujonga iifilimu zezononografi nokufunda uncwadi lwezihloko zobungqingili.

Imitshato efana nesini ehlabathini

Xa imitshatweni yecala efana neyodwa ivumelekile - abantu abaninzi abavakalelwa ngokwahlukileyo nabafazi basini kunye nabo banomdla kulo mbandela. Uluhlu lwamanye amazwe apho ukunyaniswa kwemibutho yecala elifanayo kwanda kunyuka minyaka yonke. Abatshatileyo kwimitshato enjalo banelungelo kuzo zonke iinzuzo kunye namalungelo enkonzo, njengemanyano yemveli, yemveli. Ngamaphi amazwe avunyelwe umtshato wengqingili (phezulu-10):

• ENetherlands (2001);
• ENorway (2008);
• ESweden (2009);
• EMexico (2009);
• Argentina (2010);
• EBrazil (ngo-2011);
• Denmark (2012);
• EFransi (2013);
• I-United States (2015);
• EJamani (2017).

Imitshato engabonakaliyo yaseRashiya

Ngaba imitshato engqingili evunyelwe eRussia - impendulo ayikho into ecacileyo "akukho". IRashiya lizwe elinamasiko amakhulu kunye neziseko, apho iinjongo zentsapho aziguqukanga. Ubudlelwane beMatrimonial eRussian Federation bulawulwa ngumthetho, kwaye kusekelwe ekuvunyelaneni ngokuzithandela kwamadoda nabafazi abatshatileyo. Abanye abantu abaneziqhelo eziqhelekileyo bazame ukutshata kwintsimi yelizwe langaphandle, kwaye ukuba ngaba ngumanyano oqhelekileyo, oko kubonwa ngathi kusemthethweni, kodwa umtshato wesini omnye-awuyi kuba nomthetho.

Imitshato efana nesini e-US

Ukuba ukhumbule ukudlulela kwangaphambili kweMelika, ngoko ubudlelwane obungavunyelwanga nabo babeshushiswa ngamapolisa, kwaye malunga nemitshato yobulili obufanayo kunye nentetho ayikwazanga. Ubungqingili obanjwe kumaziko karhulumente nakwiihotele zahlwaywa ngokwesigwebo sobugwenxa kunye nokuthotywa kwabantu. Iinkcukacha zazisasazwa esidlangalaleni, abantu balahlekelwa idumela, umsebenzi, isimo sezentlalo kunye nenkxaso yeentsapho zabo. Kuphela ekupheleni kwekhulu lama-20. kuluntu, oko kuthiwa "ukusebenzisana kwasekhaya" kwakusungulwa - umtshato ongaqhelekanga. Ukuqinisekiswa komtshato wesini e-USA kugqityiwe ngokupheleleyo kuwo onke ama-50 ngoJuni 26, 2015.

Imitshato efanayo yesini eJapan

Kulo mbuzo, apho amazwe asemthethweni ngokutshatyalaliswa ngokwesini ngaphandle kweUnited States, unokwazi ukubiza iJapan ngokukhuselekileyo, mhlawumbi inkulu -Tokyo. Ukuvuyela kwama-gay aseJapan akuzange kubhenoze kwizombusazwe ezizimeleyo ezize zagqitywa ngento efana nezo zesini ezingafaniyo nemitshato. IJapan izama ukuhambisana ne-America kwaye isombulule kanye kunye nayo yonke imbambano yocalucalulo malunga nesondo-incinci ngokumisela iminyano enjalo kunye nemveli.

Imitshato efana ngesini eJamani

Ukusemthethweni kwemitshato yobulili obufanayo kwiJamani kuya kwenziwa ngo-Oktobha 2017. Ngethuba langoku, iimbambano zomntu omnye kunye neentsebenziswano ziyavunyelwa, imvume efunyenwe ngo-2001. Inani labantu baseJamani phakathi kwama-83% bavotela inkululeko ekukhetheni iqabane lalo nawuphi na isini kunye nokugqiba umtshato naye. Inqaku elithakazelisayo kukuba uKhansela Angela Merkel ixesha elide wayebhekiselele kwiindawo ze-LGBT kunye neentsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuba ivoti lamukelwe ngumthetho wenqatshelwe ukuxhasa le ntlawulo, ekhokelwa yinyaniso yokuba umanyano wendoda ngumntu kunye nomfazi.

Imitshato engabonakaliyo eFransi

Amazwe apho imibhangqwana engqingili evunyelwe ihlala izaliswa. IFransi yagqiba le ngxaki ngoMeyi 2013. UMongameli uFrancois Hollande ukhethe oku njengento ebalulekileyo ngokulinganayo kunye nokuphunyezwa kwezinye iinguqulelo zentlalo. Ngaphezu kwesigamu sabemi baxhasa ukuthotyelwa komthetho. Izibini zesini zesini zanikwa imvume yokwamkela nokukhulisa abantwana, ngokungafani namanye amazwe aseYurophu, apho kuqhutyelwa khona umtshato osemthethweni. Ukwamukelwa komthetho kwandisa ukunyamekela kobugwenxa kwiindawo zokuziphatha kwabantu abafazi, okwangoku kukhokelela kwipesenti enkulu yobundlobongela kubantu besini.

Imitshato efana nomntu ngabantu abadumileyo

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