Kubaluleke kakhulu ebomini bentsapho, nangona ishintsho sesibini kumcuphi emva komsebenzi kunye neengxaki ezininzi malunga nenhlalakahle yazo zonke iintsapho, kungekhona ukuzisa ubudlelwane babo kwinqanaba lokuba naluphi na umntu wesinye isizwe uya kubonakala enomdla ngakumbi kunomyeni wakhe.
Unokwenza njani ulwahlulo lwentsapho kunye novakalelo lwenu lwangaphakathi akukushiyi, kwaye iintlanganiso kunye noqhagamshelwano kunye nomnye zikhokelela ekumangeleni kunye nokwesaba?
Isisombululo esilula kulesi sihlandlo sinokufundwa kwincwadana yamaphephancwadi kunye neempapasho zabasetyhini ngesihloko esithi "Indlela yokudibanisa ulwalamano lwezesondo zentsapho," kwaye ke, zixhobile ngolwazi oluqhelekileyo kwaye zihlolisise amandla abo ngokubhekiselele kwisikhongo sokuqala okanye ibhuloho eneewele ezifanayo, enzima. Kodwa nangenxa yezilingo ezinjalo zenkalipho, umhlaba usadingeka ngendlela yobudlelwane obusondeleyo, obusondeleyo, obuthembekileyo nokuthembeka. Enyanisweni kule ngxaki ingaba yinto engabalulekanga, apho ingalo ekunene okanye umlenze wesobunxele okanye unyawo. Kodwa silwela le nto, akunjalo?
Ngoko, ngokwenene, unokwenza njani ulwalamano lwakho nolwalamane wakho othandekayo kwintsapho? Uthandwa ngumnye obaluleke kakhulu! Sichasene "nokuvuselela" kunye "nokuphindukuzalwa" kobudlelwane - kungekhona njalo kwaye ubambe inkompo ukuze isetyenziswe. Yintoni esinokuyithetha malunga nosapho?
Enyanisweni, kukho iindlela ezininzi eziphambili, imeko ephambili yempumelelo yokokuba bobabini bakulungele ukusebenza kubudlelwane. Ukulindela ukuba umntu wedwa oza kuthatha inxaxheba yongummangaliso-ukusilela okukufutshane! Apha kufuneka udale imeko yangaphakathi ekhethekileyo, apho nohambo oluqhelekileyo lunokuba yi-adventure, amava ahlangeneyo!
Sonke siyayiqonda into esichengeni, kodwa sisoloko sifuna izizathu zokuba kutheni kubonakala ngathi akunakwenzeka kwimpilo yangempela. Ngaphambi kokuba ufunde iindlela zokusasaza ulwalamano olusondeleyo kwinqanaba lokuphila okungapheliyo kwansuku zonke, kufuneka uqonde into ebaluleke kakhulu:
1. Unomdla ngakumbi kwaye uyityebi ubomi bakho, unomdla ngakumbi kwaye ukhanyisa uya kukhangela umyeni wakho. Ukuzonwabisa, ukunxibelelana nabanye abantu, ukuzimela-nantoni na, kodwa kufuneka ube nesithuba sakho somntu. Kwaye ke, ubuncinane, ngokuhlwa ebusuku ekhaya ukuze udle, uya kuba nento yokuthetha kunye nehlazo.
2. Kubalulekile ukuba nexesha elaneleyo lokuphumla, ukubuyiswa kwemikhosi kunye nencoko yezinga eliphezulu kwiintsapho. Njengomthetho, oku kunzima kakhulu kubafazi bethu: kungekhona indlela yokudibanisa ubudlelwane nomyeni wakhe, kodwa xa!
Ukuba uhlala ekhaya ukwenza okokuhlamba impahla, ukucoca kunye nokupheka, kwaye ngokuhlwa ngaphandle kwemilenze eyindilinga ulala embhedeni ucinga nje ubuthongo, ke wenza konke okungahambi kakuhle. Kukho iindlela ezimbini. Okanye uye wabhuqa intsapho yakho, ngaphandle kwakho, akukho mntu uhlala endlini, kwaye apha umphumo ubonakala. Okanye uyingcali yokuphelela, kwaye kufuneka ufune ngokukhawuleza ukucinga kwakhona ngemeko yakho yezemicimbi yasekhaya. Ngaba unayo i-vareniki emva komsebenzi emsebenzini? Buza umyeni wakho oko afuna ukukhetha: ukulahla okanye wena. Okanye, mhlawumbi unquma ukuba kuya kuba kuhle ukubenza ndawonye.
Ukuba le miqathango idibene kwaye ufunde ukuxhuma kwiingxaki, ngoko uya kukwazi ukuzalisekisa kuphela "iingcebiso" zobuncwane kwi-series, indlela ongayenza ngayo ulwalamano lobuhlobo nomyeni wakho othandekayo. Ukudala iindlela zakho zikhoyo
Khumbula - akufuneki ukuba nzima yonke into! Ngaphandle kokuhamba ngokuqhelekileyo kunye noxinzelelo lwangokomzwelo, ukudibanisa kwihlabathi lomnye nomnye, amahlaya angashukunyiswa ngakumbi kunokuba uhambo olubi kakhulu kwiiqithi. Nangona omnye akayi kulawula omnye.
Kwaye amanqaku afanayo okuthandana, umzekelo, kwiindawo ezingalindelekanga, ngokucwangcisiweyo ngokucwangciswa kwangaphambili? Cinga nje ukuba, kusasa emvula, emvula, uvula isitya se-sugar to sweeten coffee and rising early, kwaye kukho inqaku elivela kumthandeki wakho: "Mva, mnandi!" Okanye uya kuvula i-thermos kwindawo ethile ekulobeni kwasebusika, kwaye apho: "Woza, othandekayo, ngokukhawuleza, ndiya kukufudumala ngokukhawuleza! "Akuyimfuneko ukuba imiyalezo iqulethe intsingiselo ecacileyo okanye ikhanya ngethambo elihle. Iyakwazi kuphela amagama akho, amacebiso kunye namagama omnxeba anomdla - amagama alula aphuma ngokukhawuleza kwimpilo yakho yemihla ngemihla, angene emphefumlweni aze aqhubise ngokufudumala esifubeni sakho kunye nokumomotheka ebusweni bakho.