Iimeko ezifanayo kunye nokuqikelelwa kwiimeko zobudlelwane bosapho ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva zazala wonke umntu. Nangona iimbini eziqinileyo zigqitywa nge-monotony, njengokuba omnye okanye bobabini baqala ukukhangela umthombo wentswelo entsha kwicala, okubangela ukuba bethengwe. Ngoko ke, ubomi bentsapho bufuna nje imibala eyahlukileyo, ukubonakala kwintsha.
Amadoda amaninzi athi abathanda abafazi abahloniphekileyo, abo bonke imini bayimise kwisitofu, baqhuba abantwana kunye nemisebenzi yasendlini. Nangona kunjalo, nganye "yindoda" ibheka ibhinqa elijongene nomfazi, otshaya zonke izithintelo endleleni ngenxa yokungaqhelekanga, ubuncedo kunye nokuhlukahluka kokuziphatha kwabo. Ngenxa yoko isigqibo-iindidi ngokubonakala, kumntu uya kukhangela umntu ngaphezu kweyodwa kunye neengubo ezifanayo zasekhaya kunye nokuthobela ukuthobela ebusweni.
Ubuninzi phakathi kobudlelwane bubalulekile nakweyiphi na iminyaka, oko kukuthi, imibhangqwana eselula kunye neentsapho "ngamava". Ubume buhlala kumntu isisiseko somkhosi kunye nomnqobi, kufuneka 'alwe' nesiqingatha sakhe, kodwa ungayidluli ngezinto ezintsha, njengoko ekugqibeleni izinto ezinokugqibela zifumana umntu ongenanto.
Indlela yokwenza iintlobo ezahlukeneyo kulwalamano?
Ukwahlukana kobudlelwane buhlala bumangaliswa. Lungiselela isidlo sokuthandana endaweni ye-borscht evamile. Khumbula ukuba indlela eya kuloo ndoda ilele esiswini, apha kwaye uqale ukwenza izinto ezintsha ngendlela. Ngehla kunye nama-dumplings kunye namazambane - gubungela itafile ngeJapan yokutya (ishiyi, imiqulu, ngenxa) okanye kwisitayela saseMexico (umxube weefuno kunye netamatato), ngokuzayo uzama i-pasta yase-Italy kunye ne-pizza. Ngokuqinisekileyo, musa "ukungena" kwiitya zeikhikhi enye ukuya kwenye, kungenjalo kubangele ukukhubazeka kwamathumbu emathumbu, kodwa ukwenza iintlobo ezahlukeneyo 1-2 ngeveki zifanelekileyo.
Kubalulekile ukwenza iindidi kwimbonakalo yangaphandle. Zama ukuzama umfanekiso, ngoko umyeni wakho uya kuhlala evakalelwa kukuba upapashwe kunye nentombi entsha. Qinisekisa ukuba uphinde uphinde uye ekhaya, unokudibana nomntu wakho kwisambatho sakusihlwa kunye nesidlo sangokuhlwa okanye
Ukwahlukana kobudlelwane boSondo
Ukwahlukahluka kule ndawo kukhulisa ubudlelwane bomtshato. Ukuchaphazela ngokuqinisekileyo umdlalo wokudlala umdlalo wesilisa kunye nowesifazane, namhlanje unokuba ngumkholosisi, kwaye ngomso ube ngumfana. Izixhobo ezahlukeneyo kunye neengubo ezinokungcola onokuzifumana lula kwivenkile yesondo. Zama ukuya kule venkile kunye kwaye ukhethe enye ingubo kunye nomyeni wakho kwaye uqaphelisise amehlo akhe. Ukuba umfana wakho uthathele ingqalelo nayiphi na imifanekiso, yifumane ngasese kumyeni kwaye uyamangala ngeli xesha elizayo.