Ukukhulelwa kunye nomama kuyonwaba kunye noxanduva olukhulu. Kwimizimba yowesifazane, ukukhulelwa kukuxinezeleka kwangempela kuhambelana nokulungiswa kwayo yonke imisebenzi yakhe, ukuguqula isimo sengqondo nokuhlaziywa kwemilinganiselo. Kwintsapho nasemsebenzini, kwaye ngokubanzi ngendlela eqhelekileyo yobomi, ukuphepha ukutshintsha akusayi kuphumelela. Kwaye yile nto, umbuzo omude olindele ixesha elide elixhalabisa abaninzi - xa uhamba ngekhefu lokubeleka, kwaye xa libekiwe.
Enyanisweni, ikhefu lokubeletha linamaholide amabini:
- ikhefu lokubeleka;
- ushiye ukunyamekela umntwana.
Xa ikhefu lokubeleka liqala nganye kula maxesha, kuya kufuneka siyihlole.
Phumla ... ukusuka emsebenzini
Ikhefu lokubeletha, ngokuqinisekileyo, uhlobo lokuphumla. Phumla emsebenzini, kodwa kungekhona kwiinkxalabo zasekhaya. Ukulungiselela umntwana ngumsebenzi omkhulu kakhulu. Kubalulekile ukulungelelanisa indlela yokuphila ngokufanelekileyo, ukufumana zonke izinto eziyimfuneko, ukudala zonke iimeko ukuze umntwana akhule kwaye aphuhlise. Ngoko ikhefu lokubeleka lingabizwa ngokuba ngumsebenzi wenguqu.
Ngoku masifunde xa sihamba ngekhefu lokubeleka xa sikhulelwe. Ukuba ukukhulelwa kuphelile, awukhathazi kwaye usebenze akusiyinyaniso kuwe, ngoko, njengoko kulindelwe, uya ku-myalelo ukusuka kwiveki yama-30 yokukhulelwa. Xa beshiya umyalelo, ikhefu lokubeletha likhutshwa. Ekubonisaneni, apho umi khona kwingxelo, kufuneka ukhuphe iphepha lokukhubazeka, elibonisa ubude bokukhulelwa kunye nomhla wokulindela wokuhanjiswa. Kufuneka unikezwe kwindawo yomsebenzi. Ungalibali ukufakela isatifiketi esichazela ukuba ubhalisiwe ngaphambi kweveki ye-12 yokukhulelwa, kunye nesitifiketi esiqhelekileyo. Uya kufuneka kwakhona ukuzalisa izicelo ezimbalwa, kodwa ezi zizenzekelayo ... kwaye ungakulibali ukuvula i-akhawunti kwaye ufumane ikhadi lezentlalo, apho uya kuthi uzuzwe ngamalungelo omntwana.
Kwimeko apho unikwe umsebenzi ngxaki, ngeveki yama-25 yokukhulelwa, unokuthatha ikhefu lomthetho wonyaka. Kwaye emva kokuphela kweli holide, ixesha liza kufika apho kuya kwenzeka ukuya kumyalelo. Gxininisa kwimpilo yakho, iya kukuxelela xa kungcono ukushiya umyalelo. Cinga ngempilo yakho kunye nempilo yengane yakho, le nto ibaluleke kakhulu.
Ubungakanani bekhefu lokuzalwa emva kokuzalwa luchazwe yimpawu zokuzalwa. Ukuba ukuzalwa kudlulile ngaphandle kweengxaki (ukubeletha ngokuqhelekileyo), emva kwazo kubalulekile ukuba uphumle emsebenzini wemihla yeekhalenda ezingama-70. Kwimeko yobunzima kunye neengxaki, ikhefu lokuhamba emva kweentsuku lihlala kwiintsuku eziyi-86. Qinisekisa ukuba ikhefu lokubeleka liphela ngolu hlobo lulandelayo: wongeza iintsuku ezingama-70 kumhla wokuzalwa komntwana kunye neentsuku ezisebenzisiweyo ngaphambi kokuzalwa. Iiveki ezingama-20 zekhefu lokubeleka ziyafumaneka.
Emva kwekhefu lokubeleka kwekhefu lokubeleka kuza kwekhefu lokunakekelwa kwabantwana, eliye lahlukana ngokwahlukileyo ngamaxesha amabini:
- ushiye ukunyamekela umntwana ade afinyelele unyaka kunye nesiqingatha;
- ushiye ukunyamekela umntwana ukusuka kwesinye kunye nesiqingatha ukuya kwiminyaka emithathu.
Xa umntwana efikelela kwiminyaka emithathu, kufuneka uye emsebenzini. Kwakhona, unelungelo lokubuyela emsebenzini xa umntwana eneminyaka eyi-18 ubudala. I-Kindergarten, nannies, ugogo nomkhulu-oku, kunjalo, akubi, kodwa khumbula ukuba umntwana ufuna kuphela uthando lomama nokunyamekela.
Ulindele ummangaliso ...
Nantoni na into ongayithethayo, ummiselo lixesha legolide. Ukulinda umntwana akuyi kuba nexhala. Ukuphumla emsebenzini, ujabulele uxolo kunye nokuthula, ukungabikho kweentlanzi ezingenanto ezingenanto. Ekugqibeleni, umphathi wakho akakwazi ukufikelela kwaye akanakukulayisha "ngeengcamango" ezilandelayo.
Ukuhlala wodwa, khumbula ukuba sele usuvele ubabini. Funda iincwadi ezinomdla, mamela umculo, ubone iifilimi ezinomusa, ezinomphefumlo. Hamba ngakumbi kwaye unganciphise.
Ummiselo awusisizathu sokulibala wena kunye nendoda yakho ethandekayo. Kuphosakeleyo ukucinga ukuba ngexesha lokukhulelwa unako
Ngokubhekiselele kwisondlo, indlela efanelekileyo yokulawula ukunyusa isisindo "idayari yokutya." Thatha incwadi eqhelekileyo kwaye urekhode kuyo ngexesha lokutya, kunye nento yonke oyidlayo ngosuku. Ndikholelwe, le ndlela iyala ngohlobo lwesondlo, into ephambili ukunyaniseka. Ngenye indlela, uya kuzikhohlisa uze uzenzele ngakumbi. Impilo kuwe kunye nexesha elivuyayo!