Kwimpilo yabo bonke abafazi, kungekudala okanye kamva kukho umcimbi omkhulu-ukuzalwa komntwana. Kwabaninzi, indima yomama ayiqhelekanga, inoxanduva kwaye ithatha phantse sonke ixesha samahhala. Yaye ubomi abumiyo kwaye abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba kudlulayo. Unyaka okanye unyaka kunye nesiqingatha emva kokuzalwa komntwana, abafazi baqala ukucinga ngokuya emsebenzini. Kodwa uya kuphi na? Ngaba ndifanele ndibuyele kwindawo yam yangaphambili kunye nento endiyenzayo ukuba bekungekho imisebenzi kuyo yonke into? Enye ingxaki yandisa ukhathazeka. Ingaba ihlaya, ukuyeka ukuphuma ebomini iminyaka engama-2-3. Ukubuyela kwisigxina esivamile kuhlala kukuxinzelelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ayikho imeko enjalo apho bekungekho ndlela yokuphuma. Masizame ukubona indlela yokujamelana neemvakalelo kwaye sifumane umsebenzi ohloniphekileyo.
Isinyathelo sokuqala ukuphelisa uxhalaba nokungaqiniseki
Njengoko bathetha, indlela engcono yokujamelana noyiko kukujonga kum ubuso. Phakathi koomama abaninzi abancinci kukho uhlazo - luhlobo luni lomsebenzi, kwaye luhlobo luni lwe-diploma, ukuba kuphela iimbongo zezingane kunye nokukwazi ukupheka iphariji ehleli entloko? Enyanisweni, yonke into ayinjalo kwihlabathi jikelele. Ukuba ungathandabuzeki ubuchule bakho, abazithembi kuwe kwaye ungayazi into osebenza ngayo, zama ukukwenza umthambo omncinci omnye:
- Hlala phantsi kwaye uthabathe indawo ekhululekile. Vala amehlo akho kwaye ucinge ukuba uhleli entabeni ephakamileyo, apho ungabona khona iziqwenga zemithi, imifula kunye nendlela ende;
- Cinga ukuba le ndlela iphila bakho. Ukuqala komendo kukuzalwa kwakho, kwaye iqondo lakho lizayo;
- ekhangele phantsi ebomini bakho, qalisa ukukhumbula ixesha eliqaqambileyo. Ezi ziko xa ungazange uzive uphezulu, ekuphakameni kozuko kunye nokwaneliseka kuwe. Khumbula ukuba zeziphi ixesha, kwaye phantsi kweemeko zenzeke;
- ingalo yakho kunye nencwadi kunye ne penzo uze ubhale imizekelo eyi-10 xa uziva unoyolo, uthanda, uphumelele, njl. ;
- emva kokusetyenziswa, hlalutya iirekhodi zakho. Baza kunika impendulo kumbuzo wento ofuna kwaye unokuyenza kule bomi, ngubani onokuba nayo kunye nempumelelo yokufezekisa.
Kulo msebenzi, uza kuphinda ufumane ukholo kuwe nangamandla akho. Kufuneka uqaphele ukuba uyingqayizivele kwaye uqonde oko ungathanda ukukwenza kwaye oko kukunika unonwabo ngakumbi.
Ngaloo ndlela, xa uziqonda, kufuneka uhambe kwisigaba sesibini - ngqo ekukhangela umsebenzi.
Isinyathelo sesibini - umsebenzi kunye nokufunwa kuphakamisa iziphakamiso
Umgaqo obalulekileyo ukuba umfazi kufuneka amkele kukuba akufanele ukulinde ade akufumene kwaye akunike umsebenzi. Qala ukulungiselela ukukhangela ngokwakho. Ngokuqinisekileyo, mntwana, oku kukuxhamla, ngenxa yokuba kukho isiqinisekiso sokuthi kungekudala ungekho ngqo kumyalelo. Nangona kunjalo, ngakwinye icala, oomama abancinci abathandi abaqeshi. Kukho izizathu ezininzi:
- umgangatho wolwazi lwakho emva kokushiya umyalelo, njengomthetho, ushiya into enqwenelekayo;
- akukho namnye oye wamrhoxisa into enjalo njengoko umntwana elungelelanisa ne-kindergarten. Abaqeshi abayikuvuyela ukuba nomqeshwa ohlala ekhefu lokugula ngenxa yengane;
- Esinye isizathu esibalulekileyo siyiqiniseko. Emva komyalelo, kunzima ukuba umfazi ahlole amandla akhe njengomqeshwa. Nama-pounds ambalwa, ekhohlo emva kokuziswa, cinezela phantse wonke umntu. Yaye le nto ayiyi kubonwa.
Yintoni ongayenza, ubuza? Kubalulekile ukusebenza, kwaye ubomi buqhubeka. Kwaye umsebenzi wakho ukuphulukana nobomi kwaye uphathe zonke izithintelo endleleni yakho. Mamela nje ezinye iingcebiso:
- Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukukhangela umsebenzi, sebenzisa ukhetho olufunekayo lokunyamekela umntwana: ngubani oya kumqhubela kwi-kindergarten aze ahlale naye kwiluhlu lwabagulayo, qiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho usuvele ulungele ulawulo lwenkulisa kwaye, ngaphezu koko, uyaqonda ukuba unina uya shiya yonke imihla kude kube ngokuhlwa.
- Xa umbuzo wenhlangano yexesha lesana ugqityiweyo, zama ukuhamba eholide uze uphumule kancinane kwintsana kunye nolawulo lwangoku lwaloo mini. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba utshintshe imeko kwaye uphumule ngaphambi kokufumana umsebenzi. Ukunyamekela umfanekiso wakho, impilo, ikhabethe kunye nokubonakala. Biza uncedo abo abangazange baphelelwe ubomi babo iminyaka engama-2-3 baze baqonde iindlela zanamhlanje.
- Zenzele uphinde uphumelele. Ukuzivocavoca, oye wanconywa ekuqaleni, kuya kunceda ukucacisa ulwazi lwakho nesithunzi.
- Umncedisi oyintloko ekukhangela umsebenzi yi-intanethi. Namhlanje, oomama abancinci baninzi bafumana umsebenzi ekhaya (oko kuthiwa yi-freelance) okanye ekuphumeni kumyalelo, bafuna iinjinjini zokukhangela umsebenzi. Ndimele ndithi ngaphandle kwempumelelo.
- Naka ingqalelo kwiisayithi ezinika iinkonzo ukufumana umsebenzi. Unokushiya kwakhona i-resume yakho kwaye ufumane uludwe lwemihla ngemihla yezithuba ezikhethiweyo. Xa ufumene into enomdla, unokubiza umnqweno okanye umthumelele i-resume yakho ngokuqwalasela. Kwaye konke oku, ngaphandle kokushiya ekhaya! Kwakhona, unokubheka kwiiwebhusayithi ezinje ngokuzilungisa ngokufanelekileyo uhlaziyo kwaye ungeze kwizinto ezibhaliweyo ezibhaliweyo ngawe.
Inyathelo lesithathu - ukuya kwintathendlebe
Emva kokuba unikwe udliwano-ndlebe, khumbula imigaqo emibini ebalulekileyo ngaphambi kokuqala ingxoxo:
- Qaphela ukuba umntwana wakho usele enkulisa kunye nokuba uya kugula, uya kuba nomntu onokuhlala naye.
- Xelela inyaniso malunga neemeko ezilungileyo ebomini bakho. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba awuzange ube nomsebenzi wendawo unomphela, kodwa uhleli kwisimiselo, uhlala ulandela imigca emitsha yomsebenzi oyikhethile, njl njl. Into ebalulekileyo kukunxibelelana nolawulo olufanelekileyo lweelwimi kunye nokuzithemba.
- Nokuba unqatshelwe, ungakhathazeki. Ngoko oku akuwona umsebenzi owufunayo kwaye kukulungile ukuba umntu ongenakuboni ubuchule bakho akayi kuba ngumphathi wakho.
Khumbula into ephambili - kuyo nayiphi na ishishini, kuba ngumsebenzi wokukhangela, okanye ukuqonda ixesha elide, okokuqala ufuna ukuzithemba. Emva kokuba unokukholelwa kuwe njengengcali ekhethekileyo, abaqeshi abayi kuba nezinye iindlela zokuzikholelwa. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, wakwazi ukuzala waza wakhulisa umntwana, owenza umsebenzi obuqhawe, ofanelekileyo ukuzikhukhumeza. Gcina eli qhayiya kwaye uya kuphumelela!