Ubunxila obusetyhini buyisifo esibuhlungu esibangela ukutshatyalaliswa koxolo lwangaphakathi kunye nempilo. Ngenxa yoko, umntu ufumana nje phantsi, ukulahlekelwa ngabahlobo, ukusebenza kunye nezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo zobomi obonwabileyo. Ukujongana nengxaki ingaba, kodwa kubalulekile ukuphawula iimpawu zokuqala kotywala , ukukunceda umfazi ukuba aphume kwiwebhsayithi eyingozi. Ngokwezibalo zonyaka, le ngxaki iya kuba yincinci, kwaye abafazi basebenzisa utywala ngokukhawuleza kunamadoda. Kukho izizathu ezibalulekileyo zokuba kutheni ibhinqa lijongela kwibhotile kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo lidibaniswa nokuphazamiseka ngokomzwelo, ukudandatheka kunye nokuxinezeleka rhoqo. Ukongezelela, zonke izityholo zingabangela iingxaki zoluntu, kunye neengxaki zentsapho.
Imiqondiso yobunxila kwabasetyhini
"Uthando" ngenxa yokusela utywala luqala ngokusela utywala, olubhekiselele ekusebenziseni izidakayo rhoqo, kodwa akukho nxu luxhomekeke kwiziyobisi. Iimpawu eziphambili zokusela utywala lwasekhaya, ezahlula kumntu osisigxina, kukuba umfazi oselayo ngentando kwaye unokulawula umthamo. Uyakwazi ukuyeka utywala. Ukongezelela, xa usela utywala obuninzi, iimpawu zokuxhatshaza zenzeka.
Ngokubanzi, kukho izigaba ezimbini ekuphuhlisweni kokuxhomekeka, ezahlukileyo kungekhona nje kuphela ubunzima beengxaki, kodwa nakwizinto ezibonakalayo. Ininzi bafazi bazama ukufihla uthando lwabo kotywala kwabanye, ngoko banqwenela ukusela yodwa. Kule nqanaba, kukho ukuziva okukhohlisa ukuba utywala utywala kuzisa uxolo. Impawu zokuqala zangaphandle zokusela utywala kumfazi ungakwazi ukufihla ngempumelelo ngoncedo lwezonyango, kodwa emva kwexesha imeko iya kuba yimbi, kwaye isiseko asiyincede. Kukho ukuvuvukala kobuso, kukho iingxowa ezinkulu phantsi kwamehlo kunye namabala obomvu kwesikhumba, kunye nokunyuka kweemeko kunye nezipikili. Kukho ukuthuthumela kwezandla. Ibhinqa liyeka ukuzibukela, ngoko libukeka lingazi kakuhle. Izibonakaliso zengqondo zobunxila besibhambathiso esisekuqaleni ziquka ukubonakala kobuhlungu, ukukhubazeka kwememori kunye nomnqweno wokuhlala wodwa. Isangqa sakhe semfuno siyashintsha ngokukhawuleza.
Xa imeko iqhubekile, bathi malunga nokuxhomekeka kwimeko yesibini okanye emzimbeni, oko kukuthi, xa umzimba usuqhelisele utywala. Ibhinqa ekuhambeni kwentsholongwane ihlangabezana nezifo ezahlukahlukeneyo, ongayichitha ngokukhawuleza ngokusela umthamo omtsha. Izibonakaliso zangaphandle zokusela utywala, ezichazwe ngasentla, ziyancipha, kwaye ulusu lufumana umthunzi ophuzi, kwaye iimpawu zokuguga zibizwa ngakumbi. Isigaba sesibini sokuxhomekeka kotywala kukuchaphazela kakhulu izitho zangaphakathi nemisebenzi yomzimba. Ekubeni akukho mandla okulawula utywala obudliwayo, kukho rhoqo ukuxiliswa komzimba. Iphulo elikhulu liwela esibindi kwaye landisa umngcipheko wokuba i-hepatitis ne- cirrhosis . Imiphumo engebiyo yotywala kwimisebenzi yokuzala, imeko ye-cardiovascular system, kunye nesisu kunye namathumbu.
Ngoku malunga nesimo sengqondo sabasetyhini, xa utshatywala lukwinqanaba lesibini. Iisilini zengqondo zifumana umthwalo omkhulu, obangela i-necrosis. Ngenxa yoko, ibhinqa lijongene neengcamango, i-paranoia, kunye ne-dementia. Okungakumbi, kukho ukusilela kwimemori kwaye zonke izithethe ezivela kumntu oqhelekileyo zilahlekile. Kukho utywala obunxilisayo obonakalisa ubomi bomfazi, kwaye ufumanisa phantsi.
Ingcamango yokuba utywala obunxinxileyo awunakuphulukiswa yingqina, kwaye ukuze ulondoloze umntu onxhomekeke kutywala, kuyimfuneko ukufumana ingxaki ngexesha kwaye uqhagamshelane neziko elizodwa.