Iminyaka yobudala - iqala nini? Ukuqhubela phambili kwi-classified approximation classification, ngeli thuba singena kwi-23-25, kwaye kwiminyaka engama-55 ukuya kuma-55 ukuya kweyesihlanu siya kudlulela kwiminyaka yobudala. Kuyafaneleka ukuqonda iimpawu zengqondo zabantu abadala, kuba asikwazi ukuhlala ubomi obufanayo, kwaye ixesha lokutshintsha liza.
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Ixesha lokukhula lihlukaniswe ngezigaba ezintathu: ulutsha, ukuqhakaza, ukukhula kwangoko. Ngamnye wabo akazukufumana kuphela kunye namava, kodwa kunye nelahleko ezifunekayo ukuba zithathwe.
Abaninzi, ngokukodwa abasetyhini abaneminyaka yobudala, bakholelwa ukuba eli lixesha lokuphela. Akukho mfihlo yokuba imisebenzi yengqondo kunye yengqondo iyancipha, kodwa izakhono zonxibelelwano kunye nokulungelelanisa kuluntu zanda kakhulu. Ukongezelela, iimbono ezizinzile malunga neziqu ezivela kuwo wonke umntu nazo ziguquka.
Ukuphuhliswa kobuntu ekukhuleni kubangele ukuba umntu uhamba kwi-specialist eyaziwayo ngokugqithiseleyo kumqeshwa ongabonakali ngokukodwa kwimvelaphi yobutsha, bokudala nokusebenza kakuhle. Ukuba abantwana basemandulo babeyidinga ngenxa yobudala babo, ngoku sele bekhulile kwaye abayidingi ingcebiso (aba bafazi ekukhuleni bahlala bebuhlungu). Kungenxa yoko ukuba umntu osele ekhulile uqala ukuqonda ukuguga njengethuba elithile "lokusinda".
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Iimpawu zonyaka okhulileyo zidinga ukulungiswa kwenkqubo yonke yexabiso, kuba kubalulekile ukuqonda. Ukuba wayengenawo ixesha lokuba ngumntu oxabisekileyo, kodwa naye uhlala kwixesha elizayo. Ngaloo ndlela, abantu basindiswa ngokupheleleyo ngabo bonke iintlobo zokuzonwabisa nezenzo zokuzilibazisa. Ukuba unento eyintandokazi, ngoko awuyi kuva nje umntu onoyolo, kodwa uyigcine ixesha elide
Ukukhula kunye nokuguga ngokuqinisekileyo kunesikhalazo kwixesha elidlulileyo: ngeli xesha abantu bathambe ukukhumbula, kwaye bangenzi izicwangciso. Ukongezelela, ukuxhamla kwakhona kungena kweli xesha: izibophelelo zentlalo zilahlekile, yaye abantwana abahlali banalo ixesha lokuthetha ngokuqhelekileyo nabazali babo.
Ngexesha lokudala, kubaluleke kakhulu ukugcina isisiphumo sokuphumelela, esikuvumela ukuba uhlale unomntu oyedwa, onoyolo kwaye onomdla. Kulula ukubona ukuba ootitshala baseyunivesithi ukuya kwixesha elidala kakhulu balondoloza ukucaca nokubukhali kwengqondo, njengoko kusetyenziswa ukwenza uphando, ukusebenzela iziphumo. Ngoko, umsebenzi ohamba phambili wexesha elikhulileyo unokwenza ixesha elilandelayo lihle ngakumbi.