Sisona isono ukufihla, sonke sihlala ngamaxesha onke, umntu ngokuphindaphindiweyo, umntu uzama ukungabhekiseli kulo, kodwa akuyi kubakho ukufumana abafuna inyaniso. Unokucinga ukuba ukuhlala kwihlabathi elixoki kuyingozi. Kodwa ngokuthe ngandlela-thile sinokulawula ukukho, mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba inkohliso ihlukile. Kukho into enjengokuthi "uxoke usindiso," le ndlela yayisetyenziswe ngumntu kanye ngexesha lokuphila. Enyanisweni, kungekhona wonke umntu owamkelekileyo, abanye bayakhohliswa, kwaye bahlushwa bonke ubomi babo, ukuba abazange basitshele ngento eyiyo yezinto, kodwa umntu sele akakwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kwayo. Masiqwalasele ngokuthe ngqo kwiimpawu ezintle nezimbi zale nkohliso .
Ukukholelwa ekusindisweni: iingxoxo "ngokuba"
Makhe sibone ukuba kukuphi ubuxoki obunjalo obuza kuzisa, kodwa okokuqala kufuneka ukwahlule kwiimeko eziqhelekileyo zobuxoki kunye nobuxoki. Ngoko, ukuzithoba kukuthi ukuncoma ngomsebenzi, umzekelo, ukubeka iimfesane ezithandwayo, nokuba ngaba bengabathandanga okanye, xa beya kumkhwekazi wabo wokuzalwa, buchazela uvuyo lwendibano, nangona lo mfazi engabangela ukuba ube nemvakalelo efudumeleyo.
Ngobuxoki konke kulula, oku kuquka naluphi na ukuphazamiseka kwenyaniso ukukholisa wena. Ngokomzekelo, isifungo samagosa ukuba imali eyabelwe kwibhajethi yokwakhiwa kwezibhedlele, yaya khona ngokwenene, kuphela iikontraki ziphindwe kabini ixabiso - kukuzama ukuzigcina, oku kuthetha ukuxoka. Ukulinda usindiso akusayi kucinga ngokuzithandela, kodwa ngokusesikweni ngokuqhelekileyo ukwahlukana ngumnqweno owenene wokukhusela umntu okhohlisa. Ngoku, kunye neengcamango ezisisiseko, ungathetha malunga neentetho zeendawo zokusindiswa.
- Ukukhuselwa kwiintlungu . Kukho imizekelo emininzi yamanga, uninzi olungenasiphelo ukufihla ixabiso lokuthenga. Ngokuqhelekileyo ukwenza izipho kwiintsapho zabo ezisebekhulile, siva ngeempendulo "kodwa kubaluleke kangakanani, kubiza kakhulu, mhlawumbi." Abantu abaninzi banqweneli ukungabibizi ixabiso, kodwa ukukrazula izizathu zokuzilahla okanye ukubiza ixabiso eliphantsi. Kwaye kwenzeka njani, abantu abalulekayo banokungafuni isipho okanye ngaphezulu, baya kuqala beziva benetyala, bekholelwa ukuba baphanga abantwana babo.
- Ithemba . Ngokudabukisayo, akukho mntu ukhuselekile kwingozi kunye nokugula. Kule meko, kubalulekile ukuthetha malunga nemiphumo emibi ngokuthe ngqo, kwaye apha siza kubakhokelela ngokuqinisekileyo. Kodwa ngokwenza oku, sinokumnika umntu ithemba kunye namandla okuhlala kuyo, nokuba yintoni eyokwenzeka ngeenkcazo ezinzima nezomileyo phambi kweqiniso. Ngokuqinisekileyo, oku akunakwenziwa nakumntu wonke, abanye abantu bathatha inyaniso enenzondelelo, ukubethelwa kwexesha elizayo kukubangela ukuba bahambe, kodwa akukho zininzi zazo, kwaye ezininzi zazo kufuneka zinyamekele.
- Stimulus . Kude sonke sizalwe ngamandla amangalisayo, kodwa abaninzi bafuna ukukhula, bezama ngokwabo into entsha. Kucacile ukuba imizamo yokuqala ayinakuphumelela i-100%
kwaye ngoku kuthethwa ukuba kuxoxwa amanga ambalwa kubagxeki. Ukuba uthetha umntu ukuba akanalwazi, unokumnciphisa ngokupheleleyo ukuba ahambe kwaye mhlawumbi, aphume ebomini bomntu onetalente.
Ukulwela usindiso: iingxabano "ngokumelene"
Ngokuqhelekileyo, kukho umzuzu owodwa nje ongeyonto enjalo yokukhohlisa: ukuphazamiseka kwenyaniso. Ukuba uthabatheka, unako ukucwina umntu kwilizwe eliyindalo elingenakuncinci nakwenyaniso. Kwaye ukugqithisa ukukhwabanisa okuhle kumnandi kunzima kwaye kuyabuhlungu. Ngoko ke, ukusebenzisa ubuxoki ekusindisweni, soloko ukwenza oku ngokulandelelana, uhlale ucinga ngemiphumo yakho ekukhohliseni. Emva kokudukisa umntu, uthatha uxanduva kuyo yonke into ayenzayo ngenxa yobuxoki bakho.