U vavanyo lo vavanyo

Kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bomntu, izinga lokuzithemba kwakhe lingahle linciphise kwaye linciphise. Njengoko uyazi, ukuvavanya kuhlolisiso lweempawu zomntu ngamnye, ngokwazo, ezinobuchule obuhle kunye nezimbi, kunye nesalathisi sokuba umntu umele njani ukubaluleka kwakhe njengomntu ekudibanisaneni noluntu.

Uvavanyo lokuzithemba luza kunceda ukujonga ngokucacileyo umsebenzi womntu ongenamsebenzi, ukumxelela ukuba uyathemba njani nokuba uyazivuma yena. Ngombulelo kuloo vavanyo, umntu ngamnye, ukuba usebenzisa iziphakamiso zemibuzo, uya kukwazi ukuqonda indlela enokuzifihla ngayo.

Uvavanyo lokuzithoba

Cinga imizekelo emininzi yemvavanyo eyenzelwe ukukunceda uhlolisise wena, ubuchule bakho, ukuzithemba kwakho ngaphandle.

Kufuneka uhlolisise ngokwakho, ngokubhekiselele kwisilinganisi se-7 elinezinto (ubuhle, amandla, njl.). Ngoko, phambi kwakho uludwe lweempawu ezili-10. Ngokuxhomekeke kwimbono yakho ngawe, kufuneka ukhethe ibhola elifanelekileyo wena (khumbula ukuba kufuneka uhlalutye kwibanga ukusuka ku-1 ukuya ku-7).

Nasi umzekelo wokwenza uvavanyo lomnye wempawu zovavanyo.

Ukukhula. Uluhlu lovavanyo luvela kwinqanaba eli-1 (ukukhula okuphantsi) kunye no-7 (phezulu).

Cinga ukuba kule nqanaba, ngokukhula, bonke abantu, ukusuka kwi-lowest to the people, bekhona. Kufuneka, kuxhomekeke kwinto ozibona yona, zibeke okanye uzivelele kubantu abaphantsi, okanye phezulu, ngokubeka amanqaku afanayo. Ngoko, makhe sijonge inxalenye ephambili yovavanyo lokuzihlola.

1. Umgangatho wokuqala kukukhula. Isilinganisi sokulinganisa sisuka kwi-1 ukuya kwi-7 (ukusuka kwi-low to high).
2. Amandla. Amanqaku amancinci abhekisela kwiimpawu ezibuthathaka, ukuya kwizinga eliphezulu.
3. ZeMpilo. Ukusuka ku-1 ukuya ku-7-ukusuka kwi-sick ukuya enempilo.
4. Ubuhle. Ukususela kwinani elincinci lamaphuzu ukuya phezulu. Ukusuka kumbi ukuya kumhle.
5. U bubele. Ukususela kwiimpawu ezimbi ukuya kulungile.
6. Sifundo. Ukususela kumntu ongaphumeleli ukuya kumfundi obalaseleyo.
7. U lonwabo. Ndonwabile ndonwabile.
8. Uthando olufumana kwilizwe langaphandle, abantu. Ukusuka kubantu abangathandekiyo, ihlabathi kunye nabathandekayo bonke.
9. I sibindi. Otyhafile ngumntu onesibindi.
10. Ukuphila. Umntu ongaphumelelanga uze uphumelele.

Ukuze ufumane umphumo, kufuneka ubale inani elipheleleyo lazo zonke iimpawu oziphawuleyo, amanqaku. Uvavanyo lokuzivocavoca, kuxhomekeke kwisixa esifunyenweyo, sinokuthi:

• ukuba ufumene ixabiso elilinganayo namanqaku angama-40, ngoko unokuzithemba ngokwaneleyo. Ibonakalisa ekuziphatheni kwintlalo-ntlalontle, imisebenzi, intlalontle. Ukuphatha iimpazamo zakho ngokufanelekileyo.
• Amanqaku angama-46 ukuya ku-59 - ukutyekela ukuzithemba. Ukubonakaliswa kwayo kubonakala kukuzithemba. Ngokuqhelekileyo ungaziboni ukuba kuyimfuneko ukulungisa iimpazamo zakho.
• 60 - 70 liphezulu kakhulu. Ibonakala ngokuzikhukhumeza, ukuphazamiseka kwamandla ayo, ngokungacacanga. Iimpazamo zakho ocinga ukuba zibangelwa, okokuqala, ngeemeko ezijikelezayo, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo aziyizigqibo zakho.
• Amanqaku angama-20 - 10 - aphantsi. Ibonakalisa ukungabi nantlupheko, ekungaphantsi kwamandla akho, ukungabi nantoni. Uqwalasela ukubonakala kweephene ebomini bakho ngenxa.

Kwimibuzo engezantsi, kufuneka ukhethe enye yeenketho.

1. Uhlala ulungelelanisa iingcamango ezibonisa ukuba uthethile into okanye wenza into ethile.

   Impendulo: ngokuqhelekileyo (1 iphuzu) okanye ngamanye amaxesha (3).

2. Ngexesha lokuthetha nabantu abanobungqina, izenzo zakho:

   Impendulo: Uya kuzama ukugqithisa ubuqhetseba bakhe (5) okanye uzame ukususa ingqwalasela yakhe ngokukhawuleza (1).

3. Kufuneka ukhethe uluvo olufanelekileyo kakhulu kuwe:

   Impendulo yile: "Inqabile yimbangela yokusebenza kanzima" (5), "Impumelelo yimiqathango ecacileyo" (1) okanye "Umntu kuphela, kungekhona iimeko, unokuphucula imeko enzima" (3).

4. Uye waboniswa ngekhathuni, wena:

   Impendulo: Uya kuvuya ngesipho (3), ukucaphuka (1), ngexesha elizayo kumhlobo wakho unike into emnandi (4).

5. Ngaba uhlale unalo ixesha elaneleyo nantoni na?

   Impendulo: yebo (1), hayi, (5), andazi (3).

6. Ukukhetha isipho sesiphunga, wena:

Impendulo: Khetha into oyithandayo (5), into eyenziwa ngumntu wokuzalwa (3) okanye i-perfume advertised (1).

7. Umelela imeko apho uziphatha ngokungafaniyo nakweyona nyaniso:

   Impendulo: yebo (1), akukho (5), andazi (3).

Olu vavanyo lokuzivanya luneziphumo ezilandelayo:

• inani lamaphupha avela kuma-50 ukuya ku-38 lubonisa ukuba uyathemba, kodwa i-drawback yakho kukuba unzima kakhulu malunga nawe;
• 37 - 24 - uyakwazi ukuzithemba, uhlala ngokuvisisana nawe;
• 23-10 - ukuzisola, akusoloko unelisekile kuwe. Funda ukuzithanda.

Ngoko, ukulawula izinga lokuzithemba kwakho kulula kakhulu. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka ufune kuphela injongo yakho yokuqala yokuzithemba, kubalwe ngoncedo lweemvavanyo.