Umcebisi omkhulu kumntu ngamnye lizwi langaphakathi, kunye neengcebiso malunga nendlela yokuva ilizwi lakho langaphakathi zibhekwa njengezona zifanelekileyo kwixesha lethu, ngexesha lokutshintsha ngokukhawuleza kwendawo yolwazi.
Abantu abaninzi bahlala, bengakhokelwa zizathu zabo, kodwa bahlala bephulaphule iingcebiso zabanye, kungekhona kwabo, bephendulela kubazali, ootitshala, abaxhasi, abaqhankqalazi. Kwaye aba bantu baqapheli ukuba bade kude nokuqonda kwabo kwehlabathi, iindlela, izigqibo kunye neenjongo zobomi babo, obangela iingxaki ezininzi.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba isandi sezwi langaphakathi liyakukuvumela ukuba ukwazi ukulawula imikhosi engavamile, eyona nto ibumba isiphephelo sethu. Xa kuthengwa kwezwi langaphakathi, umntu ufumana inzuzo enkulu ngaphezu kwabanye abantu kunoma yimuphi umba.
Ukuphulaphula ilizwi elingaphakathi?
Abantu abaninzi kumbuzo othi "Ndingayifunda njani ukuphulaphula ilizwi langaphakathi?" Abakwazi ukuphendula. Ngoko ke, ngenxa yoko? Ukuze sikhuthaze indlela efanelekileyo yokucinga ngolu hlobo, sincoma ukuba ubeke ingqalelo ezi ngcebiso ezilandelayo.
Into ephambili yokwenza kuqala kukuguqula ubomi bakho, kucima ingcinga yakho yeengcamango zobuxoki malunga nobuntu bakho. Ngezantsi zingezantsi iingcebiso ukwenzela ukuthetha kwisiphumo sokugqibela: "Ndiva ilizwi langaphakathi!"
Indlela yokufunda ukuphulaphula ilizwi elingaphakathi?
- Ixesha lakho. Kuthetha ukuba kubalulekile ukuba uhlale wedwa kunye nawe. Hlalani kwindawo enjalo, efana neyokucamngca, kwaye ke loo nxalenye yobuntu bakho iya kuvuleka ejongene nefantasy kunye ne-spontaneity, kwaye kungekhona "ukuchaneka" kobomi.
- Ukukhathalela wena. Konke okwaneleyo ukwenza oko ufuna. Fumana impendulo kumbuzo oyifunayo uze uyeke ukunyanelisa umnqweno wabanye abantu.
- Idayari yemoya . Chaza onke amava akho kwiphepha okanye kwincwadi yekhompyutha, ngoko
ukuqonda izizathu zezinto zonke zokuphila kunye nokuvumela ukuba uzivelele ngokwakho, kwiminqweno yakho kunye namava. - Ukutolika kwephupha lamaphupha akho. Indlela engcono yokutolika iphupha lakho nguwe, kuba akukho mntu omnye onokuyifumanisa imifanekiso yakho kunye nemiqondiso engcono.
- Ungalibali ukudumisa. Unokuzidumisa nayiphi na into: ukuphumelela, itiye ephuziweyo, ukuthenga ngokuphumelelayo, ngesibindi xa uya kwidokotela wamazinyo. Yona nje ibinzana elithi "Ndilungile" sinokuzithemba.
- Lahla ulwazi olungadingekile. Kwihlabathi lokuhamba ngokukhawuleza kolwazi, kunzima kakhulu ukuhlukanisa ulwazi oluyimfuneko ngokwakho. Khumbula nge-TV uze ususe ii-akhawunti kwiintanethi zentlalo.
Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - yiba nguwe. Indlela ibonakala phantsi kweenyawo zokuhamba. Yaye ufunda ukuthemba ithemba lakho kwaye uthathe isinyathelo sokuqala ngokwakho. Wena ungumphathi we nqanawa, umphathi wubomi bakho.