Zingaphi izihlandlo ongazange uzibheke kwifriji kunye nantoni na ukuphuma kuyo, awuyi kukwazi ukusombulula ingxaki yakho ngale ndlela. Inyaniso kukuba ngokuqhelekileyo ubukho beengxaki lusenza sithembele ekudleni. Sizama "ukubamba" intlungu yethu, ukuzalisa ukungabi nalutho emphefumlweni, ukunqoba ukuxhalabisa. Kuphela le ndlela ayinakwenzeka, "ukwaneliseka ngobomi" bufutshane kakhulu, kwaye umphumo unzima kakhulu. Ukuxhomekeke kwimiqondo yengqondo akusikho isivakalisi, ungayikhupha lo buthathaka, into eyona nto kukuzi ukuba njani.
Siphatha isizathu, kungekhona sisifo
Ukuxhomekeka ekudleni, njengoko sele sichazile, kukungokwemvelo. Xa umphefumlo ungakhathazeki, sinoyika into ethile, asinakuyicombulula nayiphi na ingxaki, asinayo injabulo eyaneleyo, ngoko siza esiqandisini, sinethemba lokuba kuya kuba ngcono ngathi. Mhlawumbi, ukudliwa nge-ice cream kuza kusivuyisa, kukunceda ukulibala malunga neengxaki ngexesha elithile, kodwa ulonwabo aluyi kuhlala ixesha elide. Impilo yempilo kunye neengqondo zengqondo zihluke ngokupheleleyo. Ewe, omnye kuxhomekeke kwenye, kukho ubuhlobo obusondeleyo phakathi kwabo. Nangona kunjalo, impilo yengqondo inefuthe elikhulu kwimpilo yenyama. Ngamanye amagama, yiziphi iingcamango esizivakatheleyo-ezilungileyo okanye eziqhubekayo zokungahambi kakuhle nokunganakwa-umzimba wethu usemgangathweni ofanayo. Hayi, kodwa isisu esisisigxina asiyi kusenza sibe nethemba, le nto yodwa ayanele.
Indlela yokuphumelela, unogqirha wengqondo owaziyo unokukwazi ukunqoba ukuxhomekeka kwakhe kokutya. Iingcali zale phrofayili zifunda izizathu zentshukumo zengqondo. Utyando alusekelwe kumayeza, kodwa ngamazwi, kuhlalutyo lwengqondo lomntu. Ukufumana isizathu sokuba "ugula", ukunika ukuhlola okujoliswe kuyo (ukujonga kwangaphandle), ukubonelela ngezinye izisombululo kwingxaki - leyo yindlela efanelekileyo yokulahla ukuxhomekeke kokuxhomekeke kwingozi. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba uyayiqonda ingxaki yakho, jonga "utshaba ebusweni", qhubela kwisisombululo sakho, ngoko ke ukuza kwakho kwiikhikhini kuya kumisa. Ngandlela-thile, ukuxhomekeka kokutya kudinga unyango. Ukuba ufuna ukujamelana nawe, ngoko unokuzama oku okulandelayo:
- Xabisa ubomi bakho. Zibukele ngaphandle kwaye uhlaziye ubomi bakho. Uvuyiswa ngayo wena, umsebenzi wakho, ubomi bakho.
Konke oku kungcono ukubhala kwiphepha. - Bhala into ongathanda ukuyitshintsha ebomini bakho, yongeza, yibale. Bhala iinjongo zakho, iiminqweno.
- Phakamisa ukhetho lokuxazulula iingxaki zakho, ukuzalisa iinjongo kunye neminqweno, ukubhala imisebenzi.
- Beka ixesha elifanelekileyo lomsebenzi ngamnye uze uqale ukulandela isicwangciso sakho.
Akukaze kube mva ukutshintsha into ebomini bakho. Nangona kukho amandla kunye nomnqweno, ngelixa iimvumba zibetha igazi, umntu kufuneka aphile. Shintsha isimo sakho sengqondo ebomini, xabise into onayo kwaye uzame ukuphucula.