Umntu kufuneka abe yingqiqo-eli binzana liyakwazi ukuvakala, kodwa yimiko kuyimfuneko kwaye oko kuthetha ukuthini umntu onobuchule ngexesha lethu, kungekhona wonke umntu onokukuxelela.
Luhlobo luni lomntu onokuthiwa nguhlakaniphile?
Ukuba uqhuba uphononongo ngesihloko, luhlobo luni lomntu onokuthiwa olumkileyo, oko kuthetha ukuthini ukuba ngumntu onjalo, ngoko ke inkcazo ecacileyo yeengxelo ezingafaniyo ziya kuba nzima. Abaninzi bayavuma ukuba iimpawu eziphambili zomntu onobuchule ziyimfundo kunye nokuhlaziya. Enye inxalenye iya kuthi into ephambili ikhuliselwe, kuba umntu okhaliphile akaze athethe igama elibi emehlweni ebhinqa.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuba amaqela amabini aya kulungile kwaye angalunganga ngexesha elifanayo. Ingcaciso echanekileyo yenkcazelo yomntu okhaliphile yanikezwa nguD. Likhachev kwinqaku layo "Umntu kufuneka abe yingqiqo". Yathi imfundo kunye nokukhulisiswa kugxininisa ukuhlakanipha kwengqondo, kodwa umgangatho uyingqungquthela. Nangona umntu ongafundile, owakhuliswa kwintsapho yabasebenzi abanobunzima, unokuba ngumntu onengqondo. Ngenxa yokuba le mgangatho ayithethi ulwazi lweempawu zengqondo zoluntu, kodwa umnqweno wokuzifunda. Ubulumko bubonakaliswa ngokukwazi ukuqonda omnye umntu kwaye ungasebenzisi lamakhono ukulimaza abantu. Intetho yomntu onobuqili akayi kudlalwa ngamazwi ahlazo, kuba abantu abanjalo baziva bebuhle kwaye abanako ukuwuphulaphula ngamazwi okanye ngezenzo. Ukucaphula, singatsho ukuba umntu onengqondo ngumntu owaziyo ukunyamezela abantu kunye nehlabathi. Yingakho ungeke ube ngumdla (ezemidlalo, ezenkolo, ezopolitiko) kwaye uhlale uyingqondo.
Nangona, xa uzama ukuqonda ukuba kuthetha ukuthini umntu onengqiqo, unokuhamba ngendlela elula kwaye ukhangele kwisichazamazwi. Kulapho siya kubona inkcazo yengqondo, njengendoda efundiswayo, isenza umsebenzi wengqondo. Yiyiphi imigaqo efanelekileyo ehambelana nento umntu onobuqili omele ukuba yiyo, kufike kuwe.
Kutheni umntu kufuneka aqikelele?
Ukuba uvumelana nencazelo yokugqibela yomntu okhaliphile, ngoko akukho mfuneko ekhethekileyo yokuba ngumntu onjalo. Ngenxa yokuba kukho iindawo ezininzi zokusebenza ezingafunanga imfundo ephakamileyo. Kodwa ukuba ucinga ngeengxelo zikaLakchechev, imfuneko yokuba ngumntu onobuqili iya kubonakala. Ngubani okhetha ukuthetha naye kunye nomntu ongahloneliyo izimvo zabanye, ezama ukuhlazisa umntu ophulaphulayo okanye umntu ophulaphula nayiphi na imbono, ezama ukuqonda umchasi?
Indlela yokuba ngumntu okhaliphile?
Kodwa ekubeni sagqiba ekubeni ingqiqo iyinqobo yendalo, sinokuzihlakulela thina? Ewe, unokufunda ukuba ngumntu okhaliphile,