Ubomi bunemibala emininzi yembala. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha siyalibala malunga nale nto kwaye siyapendela ekuboneni kwethu inyaniso ejikelezayo kwiitoni ezimnyama. Ngezihlandlo ezinjalo kubonakala ngathi ihlabathi lonke livukele kuthi kwaye akukho sisisigxina sokulwa nenhlanhla. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umntu ufuna iingcebiso, unokufunda njani ukunandipha ubomi, ngoko unethemba lokuba yonke into ingaba yinto enhle!
Isingqungquthela sobomi sidinga abantu ukuba basantye, basenokukhawuleza ukucinga, bebandezelekile kwaye bexinzelelekile. Ngenxa yoko, unyaka wonke abantu abaninzi baninzi bafuna impendulo kumbuzo wendlela yokunqoba ukucindezeleka nokufunda ukuzonwabisa ubomi.
Iingcebiso zeengqondo, indlela yokufunda ukunandipha ubomi?
Yonke uphando kwintsimi yezengqondo malunga nendlela yokufunda ukunandipha ubomi kunokunciphisa kwisigqibo esiphambili: kubalulekile ukuzinikela ixesha kunye nokuqwalaselwa kwehlabathi elijikelezile.
Ekuphandeleni impumelelo, izinto eziphathekayo kunye nokuzama nje ukusinda, silahlekelwa ngumntu oyingqayizivele. Ngoko ke, iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokufunda ukunandipha ubomi imihla ngemihla ziquka ezi ngcebiso:
- Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba zeziphi izinto nezinto zokuzilibazisa ezazisa uvuyo ngaphambili, kwaye zama ukufumana ixesha kunye namathuba kubo. Abantu abaninzi abathi bangenaxesha kunye nemali yokufunda kwindawo yokuzivocavoca baqala ngeengcebiso zengqondo yengqondo apho, kwaye emva kwexesha baqaphele ukuba banamandla amaninzi kwiimeko, kwaye baqala ukuzenza ngokukhawuleza. Ukongeza, abantu abanomdla wokufunda bafunda ukusebenzisa ixesha labo ngokubanzi.
- Sifanele sifunde ukuvuyela into enayo. Ngenxa yoko kuyimfuneko ukuphawula ekupheleni kosuku ukuba uthini inhlanhla ngosuku oludlulileyo, kwaye ubhale phantsi kwidayari.
- Nika ubuncinane imizuzu eyi-10 ukuhlaziya nokuphulaphula intle. Unokuhamba ukuhamba epakini elithulileyo,
phu laphula umculo omnandi, jonga imifanekiso ngezilwanyana kunye nezilwanyana. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukudlulisa unyango luhle, olufundisa indlela yokufunda ukumomotheka nokuzonwabisa. - Xa kungalunganga kuthi, sihlala sijolise kuthi kunye namava ethu. Kule ngcebiso kunconywa ukuba ubhale yonke into onayo, kodwa abanye abantu abakwenzi. Ungakwazi nokubukela ividiyo malunga nabantwana abalambile e-Afrika, malunga nabantu abakhubazekileyo, i-oncologists-ngokubanzi, malunga nabo bonke banombuzo, indlela yokufunda ukuzonwabisa ubomi yonke imihla.
Kungcono ukuqala ukunceda abanye abantu ngexesha lokudandatheka. Oku kuphazamisa ingxaki yayo kwaye kunceda ukuqonda ukubaluleka kwayo kunye nenjongo yobomi kweli hlabathi.