Ukuthetha ephupheni kunokuba nenani elikhulu lokutolika, kokubili okulungileyo nokubi. Yingakho ukuze ukwazi ukufumana ulwazi oluchanileyo, kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ezinye iinkcukacha: kunye nendibano eyenzeka kuyo, ngoluphi isihloko, kwimeko enjani, njl.
Kutheni sifuna ingxoxo?
Intsingiselo entliziyweni entliziyweni nomntu osondeleyo kuthetha ukuba kungekudala iingxaki ziya kuphelisa. Nangona iphupha elinjalo lingabonisa ithuba lokuphuhlisa isakhono esitsha. Ukuba ingxoxo yayingathandeki, ngoko kufuneka ulindele ingxaki. Kuba ibhinqa, ukuthetha nentombazana kuyisixwayiso malunga nokuvela kweengxaki ekujonganeni nomthandayo. Incoko kunye neentshaba ephupheni isilumkiso malunga neendlela ezinokubakho kwiintshaba. Ukuthetha ngemali kuthembisa iingxaki zemali.
Kutheni uphupha ngomnxeba wefowuni?
Kwiimeko ezininzi, iphupha elinjalo lithembisa ukufumana iindaba. Kanti oku kungabonisa ukungakwazi ukuqhagamshelana nomntu ngobomi bokwenene. Kubafazi, ukuthetha kwifowuni nentombazana kubonisa umnqweno wokubuya kwabanye abantu kwaye ube yedwa nawe.
Kutheni uphupha ingxoxo ngomntu ofileyo?
Ukuthetha nomntu ofileyo kuyisixwayiso malunga nokuvela kweengxaki zempilo. Kubantu boshishino, eli bali libonisa umthwalo wokusebenza ogqithiseleyo, ekugqibeleni ekukhokelela ekudakaleni okukhulu .
Kutheni uphupha ngomtshato?
Kubafazi abangabodwa, eli phupha liprofeta intlanganiso kunye nendoda elungileyo, ngubani na ozayo ukuba abe ngumyeni omhle. Ukuba loo mphupha ibonwa ngumntu, kufuneka ulindele ukuvela kweengxaki ezingenanto.
Kutheni ujonge malunga nokukhulelwa?
Kwintombazana encinci, eli phupha lisebenza njengombonakalo wokuba nesifiso esincinci sokudala intsapho epheleleyo.