Umtshato ungenye yeziganeko ezibalulekileyo ebomini bomntu, ngoko akumangalisi ukuba kukho iindawo ezininzi kunye neenkolelo ezinxulumene nale holide. Impawu zomtshato zomtshakazi nomyeni zenzelwe ukucwangcisa ubomi obonwabileyo kwaye zikhusele ngamandla angenamandla. Nangona iinkolelo sele zingenalo ibalulekileyo ebomini babantu, abaninzi baqhubeka bebalandela.
Iimpawu zomtshato
Ekubeni umtshato uyisiqalo sesigaba esitsha ebomini, abaninzi bazama ukwenza yonke into ukuze uqale ukuphumelela. Konke oku kubangela ukuba iimpawu zisasaziwa.
Imiqondiso yomtshato kunye nezinkolelo zomtshakazi:
- Ukuze intsikelelo yobomi obonwabileyo, intombi e tshatiweyo ifanele ibeke iimacici zayo zomtshakazi kwaye zilungele zonke, ukuba ziyimpahla yakhe.
- Ukuba ngethuba lokubhalisa umtshato isandla sesandla sasekhohlo sidibene, ubomi bentsapho buya kukhuseleka.
- Imbi ebalulekileyo yomtshato ingenxa yokuba akunakwenzeka ukuba umtshakazi azibonele kwisithsaba somkhosi. Ukucima ukuchazwa okungekho nkolelo lweenkolelo, awukwazi ukugqoka isicathulo esinye.
- Ubomi bentsapho abuzange buhluke, umtshakazi unconywa ukuba akhethe ingubo enye. Kwaye kubalulekile ukuba uyigqoke ngaphandle kwekhanda.
- Umtshakazi kufuneka agqoke into engaqhelekanga, endala, entsha kunye nohlaza okwesibhakabhaka.
- Awunakugqoka iingubo ngeeparele, kuba umtshato awuyi kuvuya.
- Ekuseni, umama kufuneka anike intombi yakhe inzuzo ethile yentsapho, emele ihlale endlwini yayo ukuqinisekisa ukuzonwabisa.
- Ubude bengubo begwetywe ngobomi bentsapho.
Imiqondiso yomtshato yomyeni:
- Ukuba iqabane elizayo ngaphambi kokuba umtshato ungene kwi-puddle, kuthetha, emtshatweni uza kusela.
- Uphawu oludumileyo kukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba umyeni abone umtshakazi kwisambatho somtshato ngaphambi komkhosi.
- Kukholelwa ukuba xa umntu ekhubeka phambi komkhosi, ngoko akaqinisekanga ngokuchanekileyo kokukhetha kwakhe.
- Kwisihlangu esifanelekileyo kufuneka ubeke imali, efanekisela ubomi obuphumeleleyo nokuchuma.
- Ukukhusela iliso elibi kunye nezinye izinto ezimbi kwiingubo, fakela ipini kunye nentloko.
- Emva kokuba umyeni eshiye umtshakazi ukusuka kwikhaya lomzali, akafanele akhangele emva koko.
- Umyeni kufuneka ngokuqinisekileyo afake isithandwa sakhe ezandleni zakhe apho aceba ukuhlala khona, okuyinto ehamba phambili yokuphila.
- Ngexesha lokubhiyozela, uninazala kufuneka adlulise iwayini, ukuze ulwalamano lwakhe luhle.