Okhokho bethu bakholelwa ukuba impilo kunye namandla kwiindawo ezininzi "bahlala" kumazinyo abo. Ngoko ke, izilwanyana zezilwanyana zisoloko zenza izipho. Yaye amazinyo ootatomkhulu nawo agcinwa njengento ekhethekileyo. Namhlanje, oogqirha abanokuqiniseka ngokuqinisekileyo bathi impilo yamazinyo ixhomekeke kwiimeko zangaphakathi zomzimba. Emva kwakho konke, amazinyo anamaqabane ayimvelaphi yezifo ezininzi ezonakalisa amandla omzimba. Kwaye izazi zengqondo ziqaphele ukuba isimo samazinyo sichaphazela umlingiswa womntu. Umzekelo, inani elikhulu lamazinyo angakhange aphendulwe okanye alahlekileyo aphinde akhulume ngesimo sengqondo esifanayo "ukungabi nantoni" komntu ngamnye: ubuthathaka bakhe, ukwesaba, ukungaziqondi. Iingcamango malunga nokulahlekelwa kwezinyo akunakuthatyathwa ngokungathandekiyo, kodwa akufanele zinyanzeliswe ngokupheleleyo. Nangona bengabangeli iimvakalelo eziphazamisayo kunye neemvakalelo. Kuyimfuneko nokuba kunjalo ukuzama ukuqonda, oko amazinyo aphelelwa ngaphandle kwegazi aphupha. Ukulahleka okungenasiphelo kwiphupha ngokwenene kunokuba yi-harbinger yeziganeko ezimnandi kakhulu. Kwaye kungcono ukulungele oku.
Kutheni iinto ziwela ngaphandle kwegazi?
Iingcamango malunga nokulahleka kwezinyo kufuneka zichazwe ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo kuxhomekeke kwiziphi iinkcukacha ezongezelelweyo ezikhoyo kuzo. Umzekelo, ukuba ibali lo mbono ebusuku lijongene nomthendeleko, ngexesha apho unayo inyoko engabonakaliyo kunye neentlungu ezingaphumi, oko kubonisa isidingo sokulumkela. Mhlawumbi, ingozi iza kuvela kumntu owayehleli kufuphi nawe ephupheni, mhlawumbi kufuneka ugweme ukutya, ubone kwiphupha, njl. Ukuba loo nto iphupha intombazana engatshatanga kwaye ubona etafileni lomtshato, ngoko umtshato wakhe ozayo uza kuba nzima, kwaye uya kufuneka asebenze nzima ukuze azalise ubudlelwane nezihlobo zakhe.
Abaninzi abaphuphayo bayavumelana ukuba ukulahlekelwa yinyosi ephupheni ngaphandle kwegazi akuthethi ukuba uya kulahla into ebalulekileyo ngokwenene. Ngokuphambene noko, ngokuqhelekileyo imibono enjalo ibonisa ukukhululwa kwizinto ezixhomekeke kuwe ngekrele lekrele: umkhuba omubi, ukungathandabuzeki okungadingekile, ukuzisola, amatyala, njl. Ukuba, ephupheni, umntu uyazisola ngenxa yelahleko yezinyo, ngoko ngokwenene kufuneka alungiselele iimvavanyo ezithile. Ukuba iphupha elinjalo liphupha lomntu, ngoko unokuza kuba neengxaki zobume obusondelene naye. Ukuba ukulahlekelwa yintlungu ephupha kwiphupha kubonwa ngumfazi otshatileyo, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukunyamekela ubudlelwane bamalungu endlu, kwaye ukulungiselela ukuvela kweengxabano ezincinci kwintsapho.
Kutheni uphupha ukuba izinyo ezibolile zawela ephupheni ngaphandle kwegazi?
Ukubona amazinyo akho aphunywe okanye abolile ephupha kuthetha ukuba umntu unezifo ezifihliweyo kunye neengxaki. Ukuba amazinyo anjalo aphupha ephupheni, umntu makabe nethemba kwisisombululo esiphumeleleyo kuzo zonke izinto zokuphila kunye nokuphucula okuphumelelayo. Kodwa ngenxa yolu, kuya kufuneka sicinge kwakhona ngezinto eziphambili kwaye sitshintshe indlela yethu yobomi, siqale ukunyamekela ngakumbi umzimba wethu.
Kutheni uphupha ukuba amazinyo aphume ngaphandle kwegazi lomnye umntu?
Ukuba ubone ukulahlekelwa ngamazinyo ngaphandle kwegazi kwisihlobo okanye owaziwayo ephupheni, ngoko ulwalamano luya kuphinda luphule. Iphupha elinjalo icebo lingaphinda litsho ukuba umthandayo ufuna ukukhuselwa kwaye ulindele uncedo oluvela kuwe. Ukuba, ephupheni, inyolo iphuma kumntu ongenalwazi-ngxaki, ngoko uya kuphumelela ngokunyanisekileyo. Ukubona iinyo ephupheni ngaphandle kwegazi kumntwana kuthetha ukuba ngokukhawuleza uza kufumana uhlobo oluthile lwenkathazo: buhlungu, yenza isenzo esibi okanye uqhagamshelane nenkampani embi. Abazali kufuneka baqale ukuphatha ngakumbi abantwana babo.