Ukutshabalalisa

Ukutshatyalaliswa kwegama elifumaneka kwigama lesiLatin elithi destructio, ekuguquleleni lithetha ukutshatyalaliswa, ukuphulwa kwesakhiwo esiqhelekileyo sento ethile. Kwengqondo, eli gama lithetha isimo sengqondo somntu, esichazela izinto ezithile zangaphandle (ngaphandle), okanye, ngokuzithandela, kuye (ngaphakathi) kunye nokuziphatha okuhambelana nale mibono.

Ukutshatyalaliswa: jikelele

UDkt. Sigmund Freud ukholelwa ukuba ukutshabalalisa ipropati eqhelekileyo kwanoma yimuphi na umntu, kwaye ukholelwa ukuba umlinganiselo ophela wukuthi le nto ichazwa ngayo. U-Eric kusuka kwimisebenzi ethi "I-Anatomy of Destructive Human" iqinisekile ukuba ukubhujiswa okujoliswe ngaphandle kuwukubonakalisa nje oko kuthethwa ngaphakathi, kwaye ngoko kuvela ukuba xa ukubhujiswa komntu kungabhekiswa kuyo, oko akunako ukuqhubela kwabanye.

Ukutshatyalaliswa kwabantu kubangelwa kukuba loo mntu uvimba nje umbane wamandla atshabalalayo, ebona imithintelo eyahlukahlukeneyo endleleni yabo yokuphuhlisa nokuzibonakalisa. Kungenxa yokungaphumeleli kwimiba enzima yokuziqonda ukuba le nto ibonakalayo. Kuyathakazelisa, kodwa umntu akahlali esonwabile nangemva kokuphumelela kweenjongo.

Ukutshatyalaliswa kunye nokuqhelaniswa kwayo

Njengoko kuchaziwe ngentla, ukubhujiswa kunokubhekiswa ngaphandle nangaphakathi. Makhe siqwalasele imizekelo yezo zombini iintlobo.

Ukubonakaliswa kokuziphatha okutshabalalayo okujoliswe ngaphandle kuya kuqwalaselwa ngenyani elandelayo:

Imiphumo emibi kule meko iya kubachaphazela kakhulu into yangaphandle, kungekhona umntu ngokwakhe.

Ukubonakaliswa kokuziphatha okutshabalalayo okujoliswe ngaphakathi ngaphakathi, okanye ukukhutshwa kwempahla, kuquka:

Kukho imbonakalo emininzi kwaye yonke inokulimala, enye inkulu, enye ingaphantsi.

Ukubhubhisa nokuziphatha okubi

Ukuziphatha okutshabalalayo luhlobo lokuziphatha olubhubhisa umntu, olubhekiselele ekuphambukeni okukhulu kwimiqathango yengqondo yengqondo kunye neyonyango, ngenxa yoko umgangatho wobomi babantu bunzima kakhulu. Ubuntu buyeka ukuphonononga ngokugqithisileyo nokuvavanya ukuziphatha kwabo, kukho ukungaqondi kakuhle into eyenzekayo kunye nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo ngokubanzi. Ngenxa yoko, ukuzithemba kuthi kuncitshiswe, zonke iintlobo zokuphazamiseka kwengqondo zivela ikhokelela ekuhlambululeni intlalontle, nangobonakaliso obugqithiseleyo.

Ukutshatyalaliswa ngokwayo kubakho ngokupheleleyo kumntu wonke, kodwa kubonakala kuphela kunzima, kunzima, mhlawumbi, ixesha elibalulekileyo lobomi. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kwenzeka kwiintsholongwane, ngubani, ngaphezu kweengxaki ze-psyche ezihlobene neminyaka ubudala, zixinzeleleke ngemithwalo yokufunda kunye nobudlelwane obunzima kunye nesizukulwana esikhulileyo.

Kwezinye iimeko, utshintsho lomuntu olutshabalalisa lunokwenzeka, olubandakanya ukutshatyalaliswa kweso sakhiwo sobuntu okanye, njengendlela yokukhetha, ezithile zezinto zayo. Kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zezi zinto: ukulungiswa kweenjongo zokuziphatha, ukukhutshwa kwezidingo, utshintsho kwimiba kunye nokuziphatha, ukuphulwa kolawulo lwendlela yokuziphatha, ukuzithemba ngokwaneleyo kunye neengxaki ekukhulumisaneni nabanye.