Enyanisweni, amazinyo avulekileyo ayilona nto imnandi. Abaprofetanga kuphela isifo, esele singathandeki ngokwalo, ngoko kufuneka baphathwe. Ngenxa yoko, kufuneka ulungiselele isamba esilungileyo.
Yintoni inokuphupha ngezinyo ezizenzekelayo?
Njengoko bekumele kulindeleke, akukho nto imnandi ngale phupha . Ngokuyisisiseko, izifo ezahlukileyo, ukulahleka, izingozi, ingxabano kunye nokuwa kwezinto zonke. Ngokwezinye iinguqulelo zamaphupha, eso sifo asiyi kwenzeka kubantu abaphuphayo iphupha, kodwa kumntu osuka kwizihlobo kunye nabahlobo. Yaye ukuba iinyo eliphupha liphambili, ngoko isihlobo sisondele, emva. Kwaye umgca wezinyoko ophuphayo uthetha ukuba lesi sifo sisongela lo wesifazane, ophezulu-kumntu. Ukuba amazinyo aphelile ephupheni, eli phupha lizisa iingxaki.
Nangona kunjalo, ezinye iincwadi zephupha zithi akusoloko kuyinto embi ukuyibona kwiphupha ukuba amazinyo aguquka njani kwaye aphume. Akunokuthi isifo, kodwa isigaba sokuphila esele siphele, kwaye entsha iqalisa, mhlawumbi, ingcono kuneyokudlulileyo. Iphupha elizenzekelayo le nto, lingathetha ngomnqweno wokutshintsha into ebomini bakho.
Abanye abaphengululi bakholelwa ukuba ukutyhutyha kwamazinyo kuthetha ukungabikho komntu wobomi bokulala, ukungathandabuzeki kwixesha elizayo, umnqweno wokutshintsha into kwaye ngexesha elifanayo ukungabi nantembelo.
Ukungazinzi, kubonakaliswe kumntu, kwizemali okanye kumsebenzi wezandla, kuhlushwa umntu, kwaye iphupha libonisa ukuba loo mntu uyazikhangela ukuba azilahle. Ngelo xesha, akukho ukungaqiniseki kwaye ukwesaba ukutshintsha into ethile.
Ayikho yonke into efana nale ncazelo. Ezinye iincwadi eziphuphayo zithembisa umntu kumbono womntu okhululekileyo, kodwa ungangenisi ukunyusa izinyo zentsapho okanye ukubonakala komhlobo omhle.
Bacinga ngoko, ukuba bekuyiphupha lezinyo likhululekile, ngoko le nto ingabonakaliyo kweso sihlandlo sokutyelela ugqirha wamazinyo. Ngaphandle koko, unokuzisa umlomo womlomo kwindawo enjalo ukuba amazinyo kuphela ephupheni angabonwa.
Iyintoni inyolo ephumayo enegazi eliphuphayo?
Igazi ephupheni li-harbinger yentlanganiso kunye nabathandekayo. Kodwa, ekubeni idibanisa into yokuba inyopho ephumayo ingathetha ngoloyiko lokulahlekelwa ngumthandayo, kulo mzekelo, iphupha lithetha ngokutyelela kweso sifo okanye ngumhlobo. Ukuba umntu uphupha ukuba uyaxubha amazinyo akhe, kwaye ayaxakaza kwaye xa ukuphalaza igazi kubonakala - izithembiso zokulala zinceda umntu obiza.