Kungekudala, ootitshala baye baqala ukujamelana neengxaki zempilo yengqondo ehambelana nemisebenzi yobugcisa. Oku kubangelwa ukuba kumaziko emfundo inembopheleleko enkulu ekulawuleni, abazali kunye nolunye uluntu, ngenxa yoko, ukuphazamiseka kwe-neurotic. Ukutshiswa komoya kothisha kuyingozi kakhulu kwisifo sobugcisa, okukhokelela ekudandathekeni okungapheliyo.
Amanyathelo okutshatyalaliswa kwesifo sengqondo phakathi kootitshala
Ukutshatyalaliswa komoya ngokomzimba kubonakalisa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kuhamba ngamanqanaba amathathu okuphuhliswa, okuya kubangela ukungaphantsi:
- Isigaba sokuqala - utitshala akanakuvakalelwa nawuphi na umvakalelo, ubukhali beemvakalelo ziyahlanjululwa, iimvakalelo eziphazamisayo zinyamalale ngokupheleleyo, ukwethuka nokukhathazeka kubonakala.
- Isigaba sesibini - kukho ukungavumelani nabazali kunye nokuphathwa, phambi koxumi kukho ukwesaba nokugwenxa.
- Isigaba sesithathu - iingcamango malunga nokuxabisa ubomi ziguquka ngaphaya kwezinto ezibonakalayo, amehlo alahlekelwa ubuchule bawo.
Ukuthintela ukutshiswa komsindo
Abantu abaninzi baqala ukuzibuza ukuba yintoni ukuthintela ukutshatyalaliswa ngokomzwelo, indlela yokujongana nayo. Ukuthintela kumaziko emfundo jikelele kufuneka kwenziwe ngeendlela ezimbini:
- ukuqhutyelwa kobutyebi bomntu ngamnye;
- ukulungiswa kweemeko zokusebenza zokusebenza.
Siyabulela kule ndlela ilapha ngentla, unokufikelela kwiziphumo ezilungileyo kwaye ulahlekelwe ukuxinezeleka. Ukuze ootitshala babe ngabaxinzelelekanga ngakumbi, kubalulekile ukuba bafundise ubuchwephesha ukuze banqobe uxinzelelo kunye nokuxhatshazwa, kunye nezindlela zokuphucula - ziya kunceda ukubuyisela inkqubo yesantya.