Ukubambisana kuyinkcazo eyinkimbinkimbi yamacandelo amaninzi ebonisa ubungqina obungabonakali phakathi koomama nomntwana, oma ngaphezu kwamazwi, ingqiqo kunye nemvakalelo. Ukubambisana kukuqonda komntwana wakho, inkcazelo yeminqweno yakhe, iimfuno kunye nokungazinzi ngokubonakaliswa okungaqondakaliyo nokungaqondakaliyo, isenzo, izandi.
Ukubambisana - ukuqonda okunembile
Umzekelo ocacileyo wokubambisana wachazwa ngokuqwalaselwa kwamantombazana aseGuatemala. Baye bazalana iintsana ekuzalweni kwiibele zabo, bazilungisa ngeengubo zengubo, into efana nezindwangu. Ngethuba elifanayo, abasebenzisi i-diapers okanye i-diapers, kwaye bahlala besomile kwaye bahlambulukile. Kwaye xa umntwana efuna ukuya endlini yangasese, bamtshala nje phantsi kwehlathi eliseduze. Ngombuzo wendlela abajonga ngayo ixesha elifanelekileyo, badidekile - kwaye abantu baqonda njani ukuba bafuna ntoni kwindlu yangasese? Oko kukuthi, baziva iimfuno zabantwana kwinqanaba le-intuitive phambi kokuba umntwana usefunde ukucacisa ngokucacileyo.
Ngokuphathelele inzuzo ngokuthe ngqo kumntwana, ukudibanisa kunceda ukwenza iimpawu zomntu ezilungileyo kumntwana. Ngoko, umntwana okhulile othandweni uyakuthanda ihlabathi elikufutshane naye. Ukuba umama wayephulaphule ingqalelo iimvakalelo zakhe neemfuno zakhe, ebomini bokuba ngumntu omdala naye ulungele ukuva novelwano kunye nokukhathalela iimfuno kunye neminqweno yabanye. Ngamafutshane, ukudibanisa kubangele ekubunjweni komntu ophilileyo, opheleleyo.
Ukubambisana yinto efunyenweyo, kodwa ayikwazi ukufundwa ngenjongo. Yenziwe ngokuthe ngcembe kwimizuzu nje xa lo mfazi wayivakala ukuba utshintshe emzimbeni wakhe kwaye wabona ezimbini zokubamba uvavanyo.
Amanyathelo okuseka ukubopha
1. Ukukhulelwa isakramente yokuthwala ubomi obutsha, apho umfazi olungiselelwe ngokucokisekileyo ngendalo. Unemvakalelo emitsha, ukhetho kunye nezinto eziphambili. Akasakwazi ukusebenza ngokuzeleyo kwaye uhlala efuna ukuphumla. Ngokuthethileyo, ngokuqala kokukhulelwa, umfazi akasekho ilungu elipheleleyo loluntu, uba ngumama kunye nomsebenzi wakhe ophezulu kule nqanaba kukuzicwilisa kwinkqubo yokubambana, ukuziva uxhamle nomntwana ongakazalwa. Ngelishwa, iimeko zanamhlanje zithintela abafazi, kwaye kaninzi abanalo ithuba lokuzikhuphela ngokupheleleyo kunye nokukhulelwa kwabo, kuba ukuqala kokusungulwa kokubambisana kungaphula.
2. Ukuzalwa kungumvavanyo nje kuphela kumama, kodwa nakumntwana. Kubalulekile ukuba kwinkqubo umama ezolile, efanelekileyo kwaye engakhathazeki, ngaphandle koko iimvakalelo ezimbi ziya kudluliselwa kumntwana. Kubalulekile kunye nemizuzu yokuqala yobomi bentsana, kwimeko ekubalulekile ukuba umama, emva kokumbamba umntwana emva kokuxinwa kokuzalwa, uphinde ambuyisele ngokuthe ngqo imimiselo yexesha elinobuchule bokuphila. Kule nqanaba, xa kukho ukukhululwa okukhulu kwamahomoni egazini, unina useburhulumenteni obuntshintshiweyo, ecaleni kwesigxina. Igalelo ngqo ekumisweni kobambiswano - ngoku umama unako ukuqonda nokuva umntwana wakhe osana.
Kwilizwe lanamhlanje eliphucukileyo, akunqabile xa abasebenzi bexhaswa ngaphandle kwezokwelapha, ukungenelela kwemithi,
3. Ixesha lokuzalwa kwintsana . Kubaluleke kakhulu kweli nqanaba umntwana uhamba nomama. Ukuze uqeqesho lubekwe kwaye luqiniswe ngokusisigxina, uqhagamshelwano oluqhubekayo kunye noqhagamshelwano phakathi komama nomntwana kuyadingeka. Izibhedlele zokubeletha zanamhlanje, ngokusemandleni akho, zama ukufikelela kwiimeko eziyimfuneko ngokulungisa amacandelo okuhlala ngokubambisana nomama nomntwana. Ukuqiniswa okuqhubekayo koonxibelelwano kuququzelelwa ukulala ngokubambisana , ukubetha kunye nokuqhagamshelana rhoqo kunye nosana nonina.