Kutheni ungeke ubhaptize intombazana yokuqala?

Kwinkcubeko yethu ininzi impawu, apho abantu abaninzi bengazilandeleli. Ngokubhekiselele kubhaptizo, ngokukodwa, kukho ezininzi iinkolelo, abaninzi banokuzibuza ukuba kutheni ukuba akunakwenzeka ukubhaptiza intombazana yokuqala . Kubalulekile ukucacisa ukuba le nto ibonisa ukulala ngokwesini, oko kuthetha ukuba amadoda angayikhohlwa ngokukhuselekileyo. Nangona ubulili besilisa kwaye bunzima kakhulu kwiintlobo ezinenkolelo. Impendulo yombuzo othi kutheni umfazi engakwazi ukubhaptizwa intombazana yokuqala yinto yokuba u-Godparent utsho ukuba uthatha ikusasa kwimincili emtshatweni, kwaye, mhlawumbi, intombazana ayiyi kutshata.

Ngokwahlukileyo, kukho enye inkolelo yokuba, ngokokuqala ngqa, kuba nguThixo, umfazi ozayo uza kumfumana ulonwabo kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uya kukhokela intsapho yakhe.

Kukho omnye umqondiso ochaza isizathu sokuba akunakwenzeka ukuba ubhaptize intombazana yokuqala kwintombazana engatshatanga. Ukuba uyakholelwa, umntwana usenokufumana i-future godmother, oku kuthetha ukuba kuyafaneleka ukukhetha umfazi onoyobileyo nowatshatileyo kule nxaxheba.

Inkolelo okanye inyaniso?

Ziyinyani ngokwenene le miqondiso, ukugweba kuphela abo baholwa ngabo, kodwa kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba kwintsapho, ubuKristu, akukho migaqo yokubhaptizwa. Kodwa ukwenqaba ukumema abazali ukuba babe nguthixo, okokuqala, banokuzihlambalaza, kwaye okwesibini, ngamaxesha onke kwakubonwa njengento ehlazo.

Ukongeza kwinto esele yathethiwe, kwakukho uphawu oluthambileyo lwesiNgesi oluchaza isizathu sokuba intombazana ingakwazi ukubhaptiza intombazana yokuqala. ENgilani yasendulo yayikholelwa ukuba intombazana yokuqala ebhaptiziweyo ithatha kwinkwenkwe yesibini yonke imifuno yakhe, ilahla intshevu kunye nemilenze yamadevu. Ngoku inkolelo enjalo iya kubangcazela, kwaye ngaloo mihla abantu abancinci babebhekwa njengabakhonzi bakaMtyholi.

Njengoko ubona, naluphi na uphawu olubonakalayo kuphela ngexesha lawo, kwaye ngokubalulekayo, ukusuka ngaphandle lubukeka lukhohlakele kwaye lubuqili. Kodwa ukukholelwa okanye akunjalo - wonke umntu uyazikhethela.