Ukutshala umntwana phezu kwebhodlela okanye isitya kwiinyanga zokuqala zobomi kuyindlela yokuqeqesha umntwana ukucoceka, ukuqonda nokulawula umzimba. Kwakhona eli lihle elihle ukuba umama nomntwana bafunde ukuziva bahle.
Le ndlela yafika kuthi evela e-Afrika naseMzantsi Melika. Kuye kwaqhutyelwa khona ukususela ngexesha elidlulileyo, kuze kube namhlanje. Kuba abemi bala mazwe, ukutyala kuyinkqubo yendalo yemvelo, inxalenye ebalulekileyo yokunyamekela nokukhuliswa komntwana.
Ndiyakumhlalisa nini umntwana?
Kucetyiswa ukuba uqale ukutyala ukususela ekuzalweni kwana. Ekuqaleni uqala, ngokukhawuleza uya kuqonda iimpawu zomntwana wakho. Kwaye, ngoku, ngokukhawuleza uya kuziva iiminqweno.
Indlela yokutshala kakuhle umntwana?
Ukutyala, ade umntwana ahlale yedwa (iinyanga ezi-6-7), akanalo nantoni na ebhodweni. Isikhundla sokutyala sifanele sibe sikhululekile kangangoko kunokwenzeka kumama nomntwana. Indawo echanekileyo:
- Kwiindawo zokuhlala, thabatha umntwana kwaye uyibambe ngesandla esinye esifanayo kunye nomzimba wengane (ukuba isandla sokunene esichasayo, uze uxinezele wena, uthathe umlenze okunene womntwana uze udonsa emadolweni).
- Ngesibhoshi esesobunxele ubeke umlenze wesobunxele, uphinde uguqe ngamadolo.
- Ngesandla sakho sobunxele, ngokukhawuleza ukhathaza izitho zangasese zomntwana uze uthi "pss, pss" okanye "ah, ah."
- Ngaphambi kokutyala kukulungele ukunika umntwana isifuba okanye esinye isilwanyana (ukuba umntwana usekutsaleni ngokufanelekileyo).
- Ungakulibali ukubeka umsila phantsi kweenyawo zakho, yilapho ukukhutshwa kufuneka kwenzeke khona.
- Ukuba unendodana, unokuzicwangcisa ngokuzenzekelayo ulawulo lwe-jet.
Ubuncwane bokutyala
Kwiinyanga zokuqala zobomi, umntwana ufumana ubunzima xa ekhupha kwaye eziphatha ngokungahambiyo phambi kokuqala kwenkqubo. Umsebenzi wakho ukuwufakela kwisifuba sakho uze uyitshale, rhoqo xa uhlungu. Emva kancinci uya kuqonda ukuba le ndoda iziphatha njani ngaphambi kokuba i-defecation okanye urination.
Ukutyala kwangaphambili kukukhuthaza ukuqina komzimba, tk. Amaxesha amaninzi ngemini, umntwana ubonakaliswe kwinqanaba elingaphantsi kwesiqu.
Nini ukubeka umntwana ebhodweni?
Kwibhodweni, umntwana angatyalwa ngaphaya kweenyanga ezi-6-7, ade ade ukulungele ukulungiselela oku. Kuvumelekile ukutyala ibumbi xa unokwazi ukujamelana nale nkqubo. Kodwa omnye akufanele adibanise indlela yokutyala kakhulu kusasa kunye nokusetyenziswa kwangasese kwangaphambili kwebhodi ngumntwana omncinci. Kungenzeka ukuba, uyazibuza ngokuya endlini yangasese ngaphandle koluncedo lwakho, akanakwenzeka ngaphezu konyaka nesiqingatha. Kwaye kuphela kwiminyaka emibili le nto ayiyi kubangela iingxaki kuwe okanye kuye.