Ubhaptizo luyisakramente enkulu, enye yeendlela ezibaluleke kakhulu ebomini babo bonke amaKristu. Kakade, ukuze kuphele ngaphandle kokukhathazeka okungadingekile kunye neemeko ezingathandekiyo, kufuneka uzilungiselele kwangaphambili.
Kule nqaku siza kuthetha malunga nokulungiselela ubhaptizo, ngokukhethekileyo malunga nokukhethwa kwesicwangciso sokubhaptizwa komntwana, siza kuxela oko kubandakanywa kwisethi yokubhaptizwa, ziphi iiseti ezahlukeneyo zokubhaptizwa kwintombazana kunye nentombazana.
Indlela yokukhetha iisethi zokumisa abantwana zabantwana?
Xa ukhetha isethi yokubhaptizwa, okokuqala kufuneka ubeke ingqalelo kwixesha lomntu obhaptiziweyo. Kuba iintsana zithengiswa iisethi ezikhethekileyo ezilungiselelwe ukubhaptizwa, abantwana abadala bangakwazi ukuthabatha izinto eziyimfuneko, ngokuzihlanganisa.
Kwimihlaba emininzi, kukho isithethe sokugcina ubhaptizo esetyenziswe kuwo wonke umphefumlo womntu, kwaye kwezinye iindawo zidlulise iimpahla zokubhaptizwa njengelifa (umzekelo, oku kwenziwa kwintsapho yobukhosi neyesihlalo sobukhosi). Zonke izinto ezisetyenziselwe ukubhaptizwa kufuneka zenziwe ngezinto ezikhuselekileyo nezisezingeni eliphezulu, musa ukulimaza ulusu lolutsha kwaye ungabangeli ukucasula okanye ukuphendula. Ukwenza ukhetho phakathi kweendidi ezihlukeneyo zeesetti, ukhethe okukhethiweyo kwimveliso evela kwimveliso yemvelo yomenzi owaziwayo. Unokuyilungisa nokudala isetti somntu ngamnye wokubhaptizwa - oku, funda idilesi zamasifundisane kwisixeko sakho okanye uqhagamshelane kwaye uthethe nabaphathi ababonelela ngeenkonzo ezinjalo.
Nangona abaninzi abavelisi benza imida eyahlukileyo yokubhaptizwa kwabantwana kubafana kunye namantombazana, ngokuqhelekileyo, bahlala behluke kuphela kumbala wengubo eyintloko okanye ukugqiba - imibala ebomvu ekhethiweyo yamantombazana, kwaye abafana bavame ukuthengwa kwiiseti ze-blue shades. Ukuba unqwenela, ungathenga i-tuxedo emhlophe yenkwenkwe yenkwenkwana, kunye nentombazana-ingubo enhle kakhulu. Nangona iikethi ezinjalo zingekho kakuhle ecaweni - ukubhaptiza umntwana kubhetele kwi shirt elula emhlophe eyenziwe ngeflekisi okanye ikotoni. Izambatho ezinokuthi ungashiya ukubhiyozela intsapho - ziza kuba zilungile.
Qinisekisa ukuba uqaphele ukulungeleka kweekhati, iipinethi kunye ne-bonnet - konke oku ku fanele kube mnandi, ungagcini kwaye ususe kalula. Ubuninzi beeqhosha, izibophelelo okanye amaqela omnxeba omzimba awunqwenelekayo, kuba kuya kufuneka ugqokise kwaye ugqoke umntwana ebandleni ngokukhawuleza.
Yintoni ebandakanywe kwisethi yokubhaptizwa?
Into ebaluleke kakhulu kwisethi yokubhaptizwa kukuba, impela, umnqamlezo. Ngokuqhelekileyo ukhetho lwakhe kunye nokuthenga kwenziwa ngu-godfather. Kuye yinto yokuthenga iminqamlezo yegolide kunye nokunciphisa kakuhle umntwana, nangona kunjalo, kukho nawuphi na umphambano ongumKristu oya kuba ngumKristu. Ukuba awukwazi ukuzikhethela wena, uye kwivenkile yecawa uze ucele iingcebiso, ngokuqinisekileyo uza kuboniswa ukhetho oluninzi kwaye ukhethe okufanelekileyo kakhulu kuwe.
Into yesibili yesethi yilekhati ye-christening. Kumele kube mhlophe, okuwuphawu lokuhlanzeka nokungabi namacala. Ukugqitywa kuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka okanye kumnyama obomvu ngombala. I-Shirt - le nto iingubo zokuqala eziza kubanjwa ngumntwana emva kokuhlamba kwifomthi, ngoko kufuneka ihlanjwe kumgangatho okhuselekileyo, okhuselekileyo.
Ukongeza, itekiti yokubhaptizwa ibandakanya i-booties, i-kosyachka (okanye i-cap) kunye ne-diaper okanye ithawula (kryzhma).
Ukugqitywa kweentloko, iikhati kunye neepinethi kufuneka kube yinto enhle, iholide, i-lace enhle, i-satin kunye neentambo, iirebhoni ezintle, i-embroidery eyingqondi. Kodwa gwema ukugqithisa - ubuninzi bezinto eziphathekayo okanye ubuninzi obuninzi bezinto zokugqoka azifanelekanga, kuba ubhaptizo liholide yokuhlanzeka komoya nomzimba, umhla xa umntwana ekhululekile kuzo zonke izono.
Xa ukhetha isethi yokubhaptizwa, phawula ingqalelo ngexesha lexesha eliza kubanjwa. Ehlobo, ithawula elincinci lifanelekileyo, kwaye ubusika ungadinga ingubo efudumeleyo yokugubungela ekugqibeleni ekubhaptizweni. Kulo gumbi apho isithethe senziwa khona, kudla ngokufudumele, kwaye ukhathazeke malunga nokuba umntwana usenokubanda, kubalulekile.