Ubhaptizo luyingcwele, apho umntu ahlambulukileyo kwizono zakhe aze abe ngumkhonzi weNkosi. Emva kokufunda isakramente yobhaptizo, umntwana uzalwa ngokutsha-ngoku ngokomoya.
Ngexesha le-christening, umntwana unomnye obawo kunye noomama. Ngaphambili, ngokwezithethe zecawa, kwakukho omnye u-godfather, inkwenkwana-indoda, intombazana-ibhinqa. Kodwa kamva, xa izihlandlo zokungabi nalukholo kunye nokunyaniseka kweza, kwagqitywa ukuba kunzima kakhulu ukusindisa umphefumlo kunye nokholo lomntwana kumntu oyedwa owamkelayo (utata). Emva koko, imisebenzi ka-godfather nonina kakhulu.
Yintoni efunekayo ngu-godfather?
U-godfather ungumcebisi ngokomoya wengane. Imisebenzi yakhe iquka:
- imfundiso yokomoya ka-godson;
- ingxelo yeengqungquthela ezisisiseko, apho ibandla kunye neBhayi- bhile lishumayela, ingqalelo yomntwana;
- Ukudibana kunye nokuvuma kwengane ebandleni;
- ukunceda abazali ekunyamekeleni uyise okanye intombi;
- uxanduva lokukhulisa kunye nokuhlonipha ubomi bukaThixo xa kwenzeka ukufa kwabazali.
Kwakhona, ngokwemigaqo engaqinisekanga, iindwendwe ezizayo zizenzele umbutho we-christenings.
Yintoni umfazi onokuyenza?
Thenga isethi yokubhaptizwa:
- Ithawula ekhethekileyo emhlophe eneemfashini.
- Isithuthi sokubhaptizwa sisitya somhlophe kunye nekhonti, ngexesha lokubanda - i-panties emhlophe kunye ne-blouse. Izandla kunye neenyawo kufuneka zihlale zivulekile.
Yintoni efunekayo i-Godfather?
- Hlanganisa i-christenings ecaweni (thethwano kunye nombingeleli).
- Ukulungiselela umthendeleko.
- Thenga umnqamlezo kunye nomtya okanye uchungechunge.
Imisebenzi ye-Godfather xa ubhaptizwa
Ngaphambi kokuba ubhaptizwe, abazali abaza kuhlambuluka ngokomoya-bavuma, bafumane ukudibana. Uotata okanye umama kufuneka afunde umthandazo othi "Isibonakaliso Sokholo". Lo mthandazo uya kufuneka ufundwe ngexesha lokuzilungiselela. Kwakhona u-godfather kufuneka abe nomnqamlezo kunye nentambo. Uothixo ngaphandle komgaqo wokubhaptizwa unokunika unkulunkulukazi isiliva sesiliva.
Ndinokutshintsha i-godfather yam?
I-Godfather ingatshintshwa kuphela ngaphambi kokuba ubhaptizo lwenziwe. Ukuba ngesizathu esithile i-kum yakho ayisakwazi ukubona umntwana kwaye kukho umntu ofanelekileyo oya kumkhusela ngokomoya umntwana, uya kuba ngumcebisi kuye, kodwa kungekhona uyise. Unina unkulunkulu akanako utshintsho nokuba.
Ngubani ongeke abe ngu-godfather:
- Abatshati abanako ukubhaptiza umntwana ofanayo, kodwa banokubhaptiza abantwana abahlukeneyo kwintsapho efanayo;
- abazali bomntwana;
- abantu abangekho bobuOthodoki;
- abantu abagulayo ngengqondo.