Nangona kunjalo, abazali abahlali basebenzisa eli thuba. Yingakho umbuzo uvela: indlela yokufunda indlela yokudada umntwana oneminyaka eli-12 ubudala. Masizame ukuyifumanisa.
Iyiphi indawo yokuqala yokufunda?
Okokuqala, kufuneka kuthiwa akunakwenzeka ukuba umntwana uya kufunda ukuba angashukuma nge-12 xa engafuni. Kwaye akukhuselekile ukumshiya yedwa emanzini, nangona ukuba, kubonakala ngathi, sele sele ekhulile.
Kungcono ukufundisa ukubhukuda ngamachibi avaliweyo okanye echibini, ngenxa yokuba kuzo akukho nakwekho ukuhamba, okunzima kakhulu kwinkqubo yokufunda. Abaqeqeshi abanolwazi bacebisa ukuba baqalise ukuqeqeshwa ngeenkqubo zokuphefumula. Ngako oko, cela umntwana ukuba athathe umoya ophefumlelweyo aze aguqe ngentloko yakhe, ephethe umoya wakhe, ngokukhawuleza. Kuphela emva koko kunokwenzeka ukuba uqale ukuzivocavoca.
Into ethandwa kakhulu phakathi kwabo yi "float" . Umntwana kufuneka athabathe umoya okhulu, imilenze iguqa ngamadolo aze adibanise phantsi kwakhe, ukubethelela ngezandla zakhe. Kule ndawo, kufuneka abe yinto ende.
Olunye usebenziso lwalo hlobo lungaba yi -asterisk . Inokuthi yenziwa kokubili nasemva nasesisu. Ukubamba umoya, umntwana ulala phantsi kwamanzi, ebeka izandla kunye neenyawo. Lo msebenzi uvumela ukuba ufunde ngokugqibeleleyo indlela ovakalelwa ngayo amanzi kwaye ungayesabi.
Emva kokuziqonda ezi zivivinyo, unako ukudibanisa izandla kunye neenyawo, uzibethe. Abantwana abakhawulezayo bafunda ukubhukuda emhlane wabo, kuba Oku kulula lula ngokwengqondo, kuba loo mntu akadibaniswanga ngamanzi kwaye akubonakali ukuba uya kuphazamisa.
Ingqalelo ekhethekileyo kufuneka ihlawulwe ngokuphefumula kakuhle. Iphutha eliphambili labantwana kukuba, ngelixa emanzini, zama ukuphefumula, njengesiqhelo, into engalunganga. Xa ubhukuda, ukuphefumla kuqhutyelwa, okubizwa ngokuba yi-jerks: xa uhlambalaza, umdada uyabamba inxalenye yomoya aze aphephe emva kokuba enze ukuhamba ngezandla zakhe. Oku kunceda ukuhlala emanzini.
Ziziphi iimpawu ekufuneka zicatshangelwe xa ufundisa ukubhukuda?
Ngaphambi kokuba ufundise umntwana kwiminyaka eyi-12 yokubhukuda, kufuneka uchaze kuye yonke imibala echazwe ngasentla. Kungcono ukuba umzali ngexesha loqeqesho kuqala ubonisa umsebenzi ngokwakhe, aze abuze umntwana ukuba amphindezele.
Ukongezelela, kuhlale kuyimfuneko ukukhumbula ukhuseleko lwamanzi. Njengokuba ungacingi ukuba unyana wakho eneminyaka eyi-12 unokufunda ukudada, ungashiyi emanzini wedwa. Unokugwinya amanzi ngokulula, emva koko uya kufuna uncedo lwezonyango.