Kwakhona kuyimfuneko ukuqaphela nokuthatha amanyathelo afanelekileyo ngexesha, ukuba umntwana unenkathazo yokuthetha, ukunxibelelana noontanga, ukutya okanye impilo. Kule ngcamango, ukubonisana kwabazali abaqhutywe ezikolweni zangaphambili zezikolo kubaluleke kakhulu.
Iyintoni injongo yokubonisana nabazali bezingane zasesikolweni?
Ngokuqhelekileyo bonke abantwana abasusela kwiminyaka emi-3 kuya kwe-7 bachitha ixesha elininzi kwi-nursergarten. Kulapha ukuba ubunzima bokuqala baqala ukuwunqoba, abazali be-school-classer bangadinga ukubonisana neengcali (ingcali yomlomo, i-psychologist okanye utitshala). Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba iingcebiso kubazali abancinci nabaselula abasenkululweni bahluke ngokugqithisileyo, njengokuba iminyaka yobudala ineengxaki ezithile kunye nemibuzo enomdla.
Makhe sizame ukufumana ukuba kwaye zeziphi iimeko uncedo lwabaqeqeshi aluyi kuba lukhulu:
- Ngokuqhelekileyo ukuqhelana ne-kindergarten yabantwana abathile kunye nabazali babo bavavanya ngokwenene. Abantwana benqabile ukuba bahlukane nonina, nangona i-candy ehle kakhulu kwihlabathi, balungise ama-hysterics, musa ukudibanisa nomfundisi kunye nabanye abantwana. Kule meko, ukululekwa kwengqondo kubazali bezingane ezingenakunyango ezingenakunzima kuyimfuneko kakhulu. Ngethuba le ngxoxo, isazi senzululwazi siza kunceda umama nobaba ukuba bafumane indlela kumntwana, iindlela zokuthabatha umntwana kunye nokwenza ukuba i-adaptation period ibuhlungu kakhulu. Abazali akufanele nanqikaze ukudibanisa nengcali yeengqondo ukuze bafumane iingcebiso malunga nale ngxaki, kuba kubafundi abasesikolweni baxinzelelekileyo kwaye umsebenzi wabantu kukunceda ukunqoba ubunzima bokuqala buntwana.
- Ukuba inkulumo enganakunyaniseki kunye engenakulinganiswa yomntwana oneminyaka engama-2-3 ubudala ithathwa njengeyinto eqhelekileyo, ngoko ke abantwana abadala kufuneka bavelise ngokucacileyo izivakalisi, bhengeze zonke iileta kunye nezandi. Ngaphandle koko, ukuxazulula iingxaki ezivele zibonakalayo ngentetho yokufunda esikolweni , abazali baya kufuna ukubonisana kwengcali yomlomo.
- Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba abantwana bayasetyenziselwa ihlabathi elibajikelezile kwaye bafumana imilinganiselo yabazali babo. Ngelishwa, akuyiyo yonke intsapho inokuziqhayisa ngokutya okunempilo. Ngokunjalo, kunye nemigaqo engundoqo yokutya okunempilo, abazali bezingane zasenkulumeni bayabonisana nokubonisana ngokubambisana, apho iingcali eziqeqeshiwe ziyamenywa. Ngexesha le ngxoxo, oomama bayatshelwa malunga nemithetho yokusetyenziswa kunye neendlela zokupheka itafile yabantwana.
- Ngokuphathelele izifo zobuntwana kwixesha lokuqhelanisa, kwaye kufuneka ungathethi, le ngxaki yinto yonke. Ngako oko, ukubonisana kwabazali bezingane zasenkulisa kwi-issue of summer tempering kunye neminye imisebenzi yokuzonwabisa yinto efanelekileyo kunje.
- Ngaphambi kweeholide zasehlotyeni, ootitshala baqhuba iingxoxo nabantu abadala malunga nentlangano encedo, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu ukuzonwabisa ngokukhuselekileyo kubantwana. Ukubetha kwezinambuzane, imidlalo yamanzi , ukuhamba okude kunye nokuhamba kufuna ukuphawula okukhethekileyo kunye nokuqwalaselwa kwabazali.
Ingqwalasela ekhethekileyo iyafanelekela ukululekwa, nje ngaphambi kwesikolo. Banceda ukuba bafumane ukuba umntwana usekulungele isikolo, kwaye ziphi iingxaki ezinokuvela. Emva koko, isikolo sivivinyo olunzulu kubantwana, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni izinga lolwazi nezakhono sele zifunyenwe.
Namhlanje, abazali banokufumana iingcebiso kungekudala kuphela, kodwa nakwiziko elithile zokwesekwa kwengqondo. Apho iingcali ezifanelekileyo ziya kunceda ukuqonda izizathu zeso simo kwaye zifumane iindlela zokusombulula ingxaki.