Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukufunda izicwangciso malunga nendlela yokuzolalisa umntwana, phendula ngokwakho kumbuzo, kodwa kufuneka uhlalise phantsi? Ukukhala kuyinto enjengokuthetha, kuba umntwana akakwazi ukuthetha. Ngombulelo kwezi zandi, ukuvavanya inkqubo yeentlanzi zabazali kunye nabamelwane ngamanye amaxesha, umntwana uqala umphunga wakhe, ukwandisa umthamo wawo, uphucula igazi nge-oxygen. Iminxeba emihlanu-elishumi imizuzu kungekho sizathu siqhelekileyo. Ukongezelela, abazali abayiboni isizathu, kodwa umntwana unayo: umama uye waya kude, ufuna ukunikela, ulambile, lixesha lokutshintsha i-diaper, njl. Kodwa kukho imeko xa umntwana ehlambalaza ngokoqobo ukuba umama ulungele ukuya nayiphi na imvume, nje ukuzonwabisa ukuthula. Isifuba kulula ukuzinqabisa: izandla zomama kunye nezibeleko zenza izimanga. Kodwa abantwana abadala kakhulu kunzima kakhulu, kodwa kusekho isisombululo kwingxaki.
Siphazamisa, sithethe, sishukumise
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abazali bayamangalisa indlela yokuzolalisa umntwana ngaphambi kokulala, kuba abaninzi bahlaziyi bavele ngokufanelekileyo ngeli xesha. Ukuba umntwana ungengaphezulu kweminyaka engama-5-6 ubudala, ngoko unokumxelela ngento ethile ebalulekileyo, leyo, ngenxa yokukhala, akayi kuba nexesha lokuyenza. Ngokomzekelo, khumbuza ukuba uya kuphulaphula itekisi. "Masibe sikhala kamva kamva, kwaye ngoku ndiya kukufunda." Ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana bangaphantsi, kwaye bayakhohlwa "ukukhala". Enye indlela ukucela umntwana ukuba akhale encinane ukuze uyise angavuki okanye inja ayiyikiyo. Xa umntwana ethobela, ukukhala ngokwenene kuya kutshabalala, kwaye "ukusetyenziswa kwezwi" kuya kubakho. Iintsana zinokukhutshwa ngesixhobo sokukhala ngokukhawuleza ukugqiba. Ngokuqhelekileyo, indlela yokuqinisekisa umntwana okhalayo kwi-hysterics iya kubangela ukucinga. Into eyona nto ayiyikukhangela kwaye ayiyi kuhamba malunga nomncinci omncinane.
Ukunyamekela ngamanye amaxesha kuyindlela ephumelelayo, kodwa kulo mzekelo umntu kufuneka abe nokuqiniseka ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba i-caprice iyona nto ihambileyo, kungekhona isicelo sokuthatha inxaxheba kunye nokunyamekela.
Ngokuqhelekileyo unokuva ukuba abazali bacebisa njani ukuba umntwana "anike utshintsho" emthini, esesebe lakhe egxininiswe kuyo, waya kumgangatho awawa kuwo. Le ndlela isebenza ngokungenakuphikiswa - inkunzi iphazamisekile ngokubetha umthi okanye umgangatho, kodwa kungekhona nje "abanokukhubeka". Kwengqondo yomntwana, isimo sengqondo esinokumiselwa, apho abanye abantwana baya kubandezeleka kwixesha elizayo.
"Akukho ngegama elinye."
Xa amagama kunye nokunyengisa akusebenzi, unokuzama ukuphuza itiye kubantwana kwimifuno. Iziphumo ezilungileyo zinikezwa yi-chamomile kunye ne-linden, kodwa iingcambu zinganikwa umntwana ukususela kwiinyanga ezine. Ukuthotywa ngokukodwa kwenkqubo ye-nervous child-hyperactive kuncedwa ngamanzi okuhlambulula abantwana (njengendlela yokukhetha - nge-pine extract). Ukuba akukho nto yokungabikho komzimba, ngokokuhlamba ungongeza iioli ezicolileyo ezifanelekileyo kubantwana abaneminyaka eli-6. Ukukhuthaza ukuphumula nokususwa
Ukuba imeko zengcinezelo zihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala ziqhelekileyo. Musa ukuphulaphula iingcebiso kubahlobo malunga nokuncinci abantwana abakwaziyo kunye neyiphi imilinganiselo. Inkqubo yokukhathazeka engapheliyo kunye neyinkxalabo yomntwana yinkqubo eyinkimbinkimbi, ngoko ke, ugqirha kufuneka unike imithi. Amaxesha amancinci aphakanyiswayo ayanconywa dormykids, kwaye abantwana abaneminyaka engaphezu komnyaka banconywa ukunyuswa. Ama-Pharmacy abuye aqokelele ukuqokelela abantwana, enokunikezelwa kwiinyanga ezimbini ukuya kwethathu.
Khumbula, ukuphendula kwakho ekulileni kufanele kube ngokwaneleyo: ngokuba ukukhala kwakho kwikamva umntwana uya kuthatha xa usilumkisile namhlanje.