Inxalenye enkulu yoluntu imihla ngemihla ingena kubonxibelelwano nabanye abantu. Imfuno yokunxibelelana ivela kuwo wonke umntu, umntu unokuchitha ixesha elide exoxa naye, kunye nomntu nje amaxesha ambalwa ngosuku. Abantu bahlala befuna ukuthetha.
Makhe siqwalasele ukuba kufuneka njani imfuno yabantu kunye nokuba uluhlu lwayo.
Isidingo somntu sokunxibelelana sisinye sezidingo eziphambili zentlalo. Kuvela xa amava eqokelela ekusebenzisaneni nabanye abantu. Isiseko saso sinesidingo soqhagamshelwano lwamava, ukukhangela kunye nenkqubo ethile ukuwanelisa le mfuno. Ubonakalisa ngomnqweno womntu ukuba abe liqela, ukuba abe ilungu lalo, ukusebenzisana nalo, ukuncedisa uncedo kunye nokwamkela kuyo, ukuba kuyimfuneko. Ukuqulunqwa kwesidingo soqhagamshelwano kwenzeka kumnqweno wokuthatha inxaxheba nabanye abantu kuyo nayiphi na inxaxheba. Iyakhuthaza, inceda ukuxhasa nokulawula yonke imisebenzi yomntu ngamnye kwindlela yokunxibelelana nabanye abantu.
Kubantwana, unxibelelwano njengemfuno yentlalo akuyiyo imfanelo engakazalwa, kodwa yenziwe ngokusesikweni kwimisebenzi esebenzayo yabantu abadala, kaninzi, ibonakala kwiinyanga ezi-2. Iintsholongwane zikholelwa ukuba abanalo mfuneko nje, kodwa ngoku, banokubanxibelelana kangangoko bafuna. Kukho amaxesha apho babonisa iimpawu zokuqhankqalaza kubantu abadala, xa ezi zilandelayo zithintela ngandlela-thile imfuno yazo yokunxibelelana.
Ukuba sithetha ngeemfuno zabantu abadala ekunxibelelaneni, bathetha ngokuncinci kunokuba bafuna, ngokuphindaphindiweyo bangena kwi-negative. Ukuqonda imvelaphi yokwakhiwa kweemfuno zonxibelelwano, siya kuqwalasela iintlobo zonxibelelwano iimfuno.
- Ukulawula. Umntu uzama ukufaka impembelelo ethile kwiminqweno, ekuziphatheni, kwisitimela somnye umntu.
- IGosa. Abanye abantu abanxibelelwano banokubona ukuqonda kwamakhono abo, ukunyaniseka kumntu odibanisa naye.
- Khu seleko. Ukunciphisa uxinzelelo, iimvakalelo zokwesaba, abantu baqala ukukhangela unxibelelwano, ngamanye amaxesha nakubantu abangaziwayo.
- Ubuntu. Isidingo soqhagamshelwano ukuze sibonise abanye into eyenziwa ngumntu, indlela yokuqala ngayo
ubuntu. - Khuselo. Ukuba umntu unomnqweno wokubonisa ukukhathalela abanye, ufuna ukuwanelisa lo mnqweno.
- Cognition. Imfuno yokunxibelelana xa umdibaniselwano ufuna ukufundwa into entsha, into apho iqabane lakhe lingamxelela lona.
Ngoko ke, wonke umntu ufuna ukuthetha, kodwa ezinye azibonakali njengokuba abanye bebonisa. Kufanelekile ukukhumbula, ukuba umntu uzama ukunitshela into ethile, kufuneka uphulaphule, umvumele akhulume.