Ukuqinisekiswa kwabasetyhini

"Entsha indala ekhohliweyo." Ngokukhawuleza nje, ulwazi oludala lubonakala lulibalekile, olukhokho okhokho bethu, lubuyele ebomini. Olu lwazi luquka iingxelo ezilungileyo, ukuphindaphinda ngokuphindaphindiweyo okubangelwa kukunyamekela ukuqonda komntu. Ezi nkcazo ziyimpendulo, ukuphindaphinda rhoqo, kubafazi, kunceda ukuguqula ubomi babo kube ngcono ngokuzisa impumelelo kunye nokuvisisana ekhaya kunye nothando lwabahlobo.

Masiqwalasele ngenyameko ukuba zeziphi iingqinisiso kunye nokuba zingatshintsha njani ubomi ukuba zibe ngcono.

Ngoko, ukuqinisekiswa - eli binzana elifutshane eliqulethe umgaqo othile othi, ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ulungisa umfanekiso ofunwayo okanye ulungelelwano olufunwa ngabantu, ukukhuthaza utshintsho oluhle ebomini bomntu.

Ingqiqo ephezulu yokuqinisekiswa iyatshintsha iikholelwa zakho kubafazi abathile, umzekelo, abahlali bevuyiswa ngumfanekiso wabo okanye abanakufumana indoda ethandekayo, kubaluleke kakhulu

Ukusebenzisa iziqinisekiso

Iingxelo ezintle zingathethwa ngaye, zibhalwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo, zifunde ngokuvakalayo okanye zicule. Umzekelo, unokubeka ubungqina ekusebenziseni isiqulathi njengekhasi lasekhaya, elivula rhoqo phambi kwamehlo akho xa uqala, kwaye ukuqinisekiswa kuya kusebenza ngokuzenzekelayo.

Ubungakanani beeseshoni lunokuba yimaminithi engama-10 ngosuku. Ngenxa yokuphindaphinda ngokuphindaphindiweyo, izimo zengqondo ezilungileyo ziza kuba zigqithise ixesha elingaphezu kwezinto ezingafunekiyo ezifunyenwe kwiminyaka.

Ukuqinisekiswa kokulahlekelwa kwesisindo

Ukuqinisekiswa okulungileyo, mhlawumbi, kuyakuba yindlela efanelekileyo kakhulu kuwe, ngendlela ongayilombulula ngayo ingxaki ngokunyuka komzimba. Kunokwenzeka ukuba kungabonakala kungaqhelekanga kwaye kungaqhelekanga kuwe ukuba ukulahlekelwa kobunzima bakho akuxhomekeke kwiinkqubo ezahlukeneyo zokutya kunye nokutya okufanelekileyo. Qaphela ukuphumelela kwezi ziqinisekiso xa kuthelekiswa nokubona okunye. Ngokomzekelo, kukho abantu ababethuthuzela imihla ngemihla ngokutya kunye nokuzilolonga ukuze baxineke kwiimpawu zomoya, kodwa abazange bakwazi ukulahla iikhilogram ezizondayo. Kodwa kukho nabo bafezekisa impumelelo, besetyenziselwa isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo ngoncedo lwezimo zengqondo ezintle zokuziphatha.

Oko kukuthi, ukusebenzisa iziqinisekiso, wena, masithi, ukukhumbula kwakhona i-subconscious yakho, ugqugquzele indlela entsha yobomi, inkqubo entsha yobomi apho umzimba wakho unakho ukuvumelanisa nokuziphatha okuphambili.

Imizekelo yeziqinisekiso zokulahleka kwesisindo:

1. Ndiyonwabile kukuba ndinomlenze onqabileyo.
2. Ndiyamthanda kwaye ndiyamthanda umzimba wam omhle.
3. Umzimba wam unzima kwaye uncinci.
4. Ndiyincinci kwaye ndiba nesisindo esihle.

Ukuqinisekiswa kokutsala uthando

Ngombulelo kuphela ekuthandeni abantu ngokwenene banomdla wokwenene wobomi. Ndiyabulela kuye, ubomi bemihla ngemihla buzaliswa iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo. Umphefumlo uphazamisa ulutsha kuphela xa uthandwa kwaye uthandwa.

Abaninzi abameli abancinci nabanomdla babesifazana ababuthathaka bahluleka ukuhluleka, bezama ukuzisa ubomi babo bobuqu, ukuze bafumane intsapho. Kwaye, kwiimeko ezininzi, isizathu asifihlakele ngaphandle, kodwa ngezinye iinkcukacha, emva kokubandezeleka, intombazana iphinda iphinda ibuhlungu "Mhlawumbi, andifanele ukuvuya" okanye "Ndiyayifuna." Ngelo xesha, engaqapheli ngokupheleleyo ukuba iingxelo ezinjalo zivala ithuba lokuphumelela ukungena ebomini bakhe.

Nantsi, umzekelo, iziqinisekiso zokutsala uthando:

1. Ndiyamthanda.
2. Uthando luza kum ngaphandle kwimizamo kwaye kulula.
3. Ndiyamthanda kwaye ndiyamthanda.
4. Ndiyamthanda kwaye ndamkela ngokuphindaphindiweyo.

Ukuqinisekiswa kokuheha ulonwabo

Ukuphila ngokwenene kukuziva ulonwabo kwimihla ngemihla ephila. Kodwa ngoku, ngexesha leemali, isingqimba somphefumlo wobomi kunye kwinqanaba lokuxinezeleka, kungekhona onke amabhinqa anokuthi unomdla. Ngokuyimfuneko, uya kufumana loo ndawo ebomini bakhe, engonwabanga kwaye akuyivayo.

Ukuze ujabule, ujonge imihla ngemihla ebomini bakho, phendule le ngxelo yenjabulo:

1. Ndikhangela ulonwabo yonke imihla.
2. Ukungqinelana kunye nolonwabo luzalisa umphefumlo wam.
3. Ubomi bam buzisa nje uvuyo kunye novuyo.
4. Ndiyindoda enenhlanhla. Ubomi bam buzele uphumelelo kunye nolonwabo.