Wonke umntu ebomini unemizuzu yokudumala, ukuwa, ukuxhalabisa ... Kodwa umele ahlale ekhumbula ukuba ubomi abugcini nje ngemivimbo emhlophe kunye emnyama, akukho nto engabonakaliyo ngayo. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, ubomi bufanele bathande. Kuphela ke kuya kudlala kunye nemibala eqaqambileyo kwaye ivulekele kuwe ukusuka kwelinye icala.
Iingxaki zentsapho, umsebenzi ongathandekiyo, uchungechunge lweengxaki ezingenakulinganiswa - konke oku kuphazamisa ubomi bethu, kwenza kube nzima, kunokukhokelela kwiintlobo ezahlukahlukeneyo zezifo zengqondo (umzekelo, ukudandatheka). Ngethuba lethu lokukhawuleza, ukudibanisa, ukulandela ngokusisigxina into entsha kunye neyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu ngokubambeka ngamaxesha ukuyeka nokuthetha nam - ndiyamthanda ubomi! Ungayithanda njani ubomi ukuba kukho isizathu esaneleyo sale nto?
Indlela yokufunda ukuthanda ubomi?
Ngoko, ukuze uthanda ubomi obunayo:
- Fumana isizathu sokungathandi kwakho ubomi. Mhlawumbi, kuzo zonke iingxaki zakho, akuyiyo into engahambelaniyo yeemeko ezisohlwayo, kodwa wena kunye nesimo sakho sengqondo kwizinto ezenzekayo. Zama ukuqwalasela indlela oziphatha ngayo, kwaye uchaze oko kubomi obudinga ukuba utshintshe ngokukhawuleza.
- Fumana ixesha elihle ebomini bakho kwaye unqume oko kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe. Zibuze: "Kutheni ndiyathanda ubomi, kuba ndihlala phi?" Kubalulekile ukuphila ngenxa yento ethile: ngenxa yezihlobo, abahlobo, abantwana, umsebenzi. Beka izinto eziphambili, musa ukuziyeka kwaye ufunde ukuqonda oko unakho.
- Soloko ucinga kakuhle. Awudingi ukuzilungelelanisa ukuba yonke into iya kuphazamiseka phantsi kweemeko. Kholelwa ekupheleni ekuphumeleleni kwempembelelo. Khumbula ukuba le ngcamango yinto ephathekayo, kwaye ukuze ukhange inhlanhla kwinqanaba lakho, akuyona into engathandabuzekiyo ukusebenzisa izicwangciso zempendulo ngokuzimela. Umzekelo, uchaza kwiphepha lephepha kwimeko echaphazelayo kunye nesiphumo sayo esihle, okanye ngokwengqondo ukudala umzekelo weemeko ezifanayo, ukuyibeka kwisigqibo sayo esifanelekileyo.
- Enye indlela eqinisekileyo yokuzilungelelanisa kwimodi efanelekileyo kukuba wenze "i-Collage of Desires". Oku akusebenzi nje kuphela, kodwa nomsebenzi othakazelisayo, onomdla. Ukwenza i-collage, uzakufuna iphepha, glue kwaye, uthathe kumaphephancwadi, iimpawu zeminqweno yakho. Glue kwiphepha yonke into ongathanda ukuyifumana kunye nento ongathanda ukuyifumana, kwaye uxhome iphosta ephumayo kwindawo evelele. "Ukuqokelela iminqweno" kuya kuba sisikhumbuzo esihle kakhulu ukuba ebomini akukho nto ifikeleleke.
- Khumbula ukuba ubomi sisipho esibalulekileyo. Zixelele ukuba uyayithanda ubomi ngenxa yokuba unayo yodwa, izele imizwa ecacileyo, inikwe abantu abasondeleyo, abo ngaphandle kwabo abangabonakali bakho ubukho. Cinga ngako, kodwa abantu abaninzi baphila kakubi kunakho! Umntwana akayithobeli? Kwaye umntu akanako ukuba nabantwana! Indlu encinane? Kwaye umntu akanakho konke! Kuyo yonke into uze uhlale ukhangelelanisa iziphumo.
- Ukubona ubunzima obujongene nayo endleleni njengezifundo ongenakuzenza ngaphandle kobomi.
Iingxaki, iingxaki, iingxaki ezixinzelelekileyo ziyanzima nje, zomelele kwaye zithe gqolo. Konke oku kwenzeka kumava. Njengengoma ye-Yuri Naumov- "Indlela yokuphuma ihlala ibuhlungu." Engazi intlungu, ngaphandle kokwazi ukubandezeleka kunye nobunzima, akunakwenzeka ukuqonda uvuyo nolonwabo lobomi.
Khangela! Ubomi abubi kangangoko ucinga ngako. Njalo khumbula ukuba wonke umntu uzalelwa ukuba uyavuya. Yiyo kuphela into oyifunayo kwaye zonke izithintelo endleleni ziya kutshabalala ngokukhawuleza uzixelele ngokuqinisekileyo: "Ndiyayithanda ngokwenene ubomi!"