Iimpawu zabantu ziyimvelaphi yeenkolelo kunye namava. Mhlawumbi ookhokho, ukujonga ikhosi yeziganeko, benze izigqibo ezithile ezimele zi lumkise inzala yengozi, okanye ziveze ulonwabo. Kodwa ukususela emva kwexesha elininzi ixesha lidlulileyo ukuba impawu zigcinwe ngohlobo lwefowuni echithwe. Ngenxa yesi sizathu esilula, ukuzithemba okanye akunjalo yinto eyimfihlo kumntu wonke. Enyanisweni, ngesizathu esithile, xa sibhekene neziganeko ezichazwe kwiimpawu, sonke siba nenkolelo encinci.
Okufanayo kuya kwesibonakaliso esaziwayo sokulahlekelwa kwendoda. Ngelo xesha siya kugxininisa ukuba uphawu luye lucacisa intsingiselo yamadoda, amabhinqa kunye namantombazana.
Indoda ilahlekelwa ngendlebe
Namhlanje, nawuphi na umntu unokukwazi ukubeka ezindlebeni zakhe (kwaye kungekhona nje ezindlebeni). Nangona kunjalo, ngaphambili, ubukho bemihlobiso yathetha malunga nesimo sezenhlalakahle. Kuba oomkhumbi, babengumgcini, abalondoloza ubuncwane obuxabisekileyo. Kuba amajoni - uphawu lwempumelelo. I-Cossacks indlebe kwindlebe ifaka unyana oyedwa - ithemba lentsapho. Yintoni eyayiza kulahlekelwa yimvalo ngaloo mihla - zigwebe wena. Emva kwakho konke, oku kufana nokulahlekelwa yinto ebiza kakhulu enayo. Ngako oko uphawu lokuba indoda ilahlekelwa indlebe kwintlungu enkulu.
Intombazana ilahlekelwa yintsimbi
Kwintombazana, ngokuchaseneyo, ukulahlekelwa kwendoda kwenzelwa ulonwabo -umtshato osheshayo. Kwiidolophana bathi: "Ndilahlekelwe indlebe yam-uyakufumana u-Alyoshka." Yaye le mqondiso iyaqondakala. Okokuqala, "ukudideka" kwakufuneka ibe yinto yokududuza (kwaye yintoni enokuyonwaba ngakumbi ngentombazana kunokuba ingatshatanga). Okwesibini, isibonakaliso sasisoloko sifezekile, kuba loo nto intombazana yayitshatile ngokukhawuleza.
Umfazi ulahlekelwa indlebe yakhe
Kwaye kuthekani malunga nokuba kuthini ukulahlekelwa indlebe yowesifazane otshatileyo - iingcambu zale nkolelo zinokuvela kwiimpawu zangaphambili. Njengoko umfazi wayengenakucinga ngomtshato wesibini ngaloo mihla, ukulahlekelwa kwezinto zobungcweti zathembisa umthandi wakhe, okokuthi, ngokusemgangathweni, naye uyabavuyisa amaninzi amaninzikazi.
Olunye uhlangothi lwendondo
Kodwa izinto ezincinci bethu ookhokho abanelisekanga. Isibonakaliso sokulahlekelwa indlebe yegolide (kunye nezinye iingubo) kunokuthetha ukuba isiteleka esinamandla samandla senziwa kumntu. Amacici enqabileyo kunye
Ngokwezinto ezifunyenwe ngeengubo, ngoko ukuba ukholelwa kwipropati yangaphambilini, ukuba ube yintsika, ukuthabatha indlebe yokulahleka kwindlela ekuthathelwa kuyo into engeyiyo. Oku kuthetha ukuba kubuhlungu obunomntu lowo othunyelwe kuyo. Abantu abanolwazi bancoma ukuba badlulele isilingo sokuzondla ngokwabo.