Ukuziphindezela kumntu unokungafani, kodwa ungayenza njani, ukwazi kuphela inombolo yakhe yefowuni-umbuzo othi mhlawumbi ungabikho. Nangona kunjalo, nangona kuncinci, kodwa kukho ithuba lokuhambisa iingxaki ezithile kwicala eliphosakeleyo. Oko kuphela ukwenza ngokucophelela, kuba kukho njalo ukuba umphindiseli uya kubalwa yi-IP okanye inombolo yefowuni yakhe.
Indlela yokuziphindezela ngomntu owonayo, eyazi inombolo yakhe yefowuni?
I-Psychology yamadoda inomsebenzi othile-bayakuzonda ukuyeka, kwaye kuya kude ukugqibela ukufuna umphindezeli. Kungenxa yoko unako ukuphindezela ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwindoda enonono, kodwa ngokucophelela, ukuze ungabanjwa.
Isithende se-Achilles malunga nantoni na umntu imoto yakhe. Ngako oko, into yokuqala engenziwayo kukubeka iintengiso kuzo zonke izinto ezinokwenzeka malunga nokuthengiswa kwayo ngokuqhelekileyo kwi-pittance. I-fowuni "ayiyi kudilizwa" kuphela, ngoko ke into engeyiyo yomnini wemoto iya kuthathwa ngumonakalo omkhulu. Ngokungabikho kwe-auto "thengisa" kwiintengiso onokwenza nantoni na.
Ngentukuthelo yomntu oqhelekileyo uya kubakhokelela kwaye akrokre ngokungathinteli ngokwesondo. Yiyo kanye eyenzekayo, unokubeka iintengiso malunga nokufumana umhlobo kwizibonelelo ezifanelekileyo.
Iziza ezininzi ezithengiswayo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zokubambisana neentlobano zesini zicela abathengi ngenombolo yefowuni ukuqinisekisa ukuthenga. Emva kokuyalela ezininzi izinto ezinjalo kwifowuni yomenzi wecala, i-call of call iya kuwela kuye.
Yindlela ekhohlakeleyo yokuziphindezela - ukudlala indima ye-troll kwizinto ezithile, uze unike abachasayo abachasayo inombolo yefowuni yomxhaphazi.
Nazi ezinye iindlela ezimbalwa zokuthukuthela umoni:
- Ukuthunjiswa komntu onokungapheliyo umnxeba kunokwenzeka ngenkonzo yokubuyisela emuva;
- Ngethuba le-alarm clock, ixhoba linokuvuka imihla ngemihla, kungabikho ukukhanya, kungabikho mva;
- ngokusebenzisa isevisi yemilayezo yamahhala inokwenzeka ukuba ugcwalise umoni-mthetho ngesithuba se-SMS;
- kwifowuni kuya kuza ezininzi zogaxekile, ukuba udibanisa iindaba zeendaba kwiisayithi ezikhutshulwayo, izaphulelo, iimali-mboleko, njl.
Indlela yokuziphindezela kwinombolo yefowuni?
Ezinye iindlela ezijoliswe kumadoda, emva kokuba benze utshintsho, banako ukuphazamisa umfazi. Ngokomzekelo, unokubeka inani lenkosikazi kumthombo apho "abafundisi bobubele" banika iinkonzo zabo. Nangona kunjalo, xa iqela lokungaqondakali okanye ukwesabisa iifowuni kunye ne-SMS-spam, ibhinqa liyakwazi ukutshintsha ngokukhawuleza inombolo yocingo.
Ngokukwazi ukunyamezela nokulinda ukuphindiselela kwintombi inokuba yinkqutyana. Umzekelo, uchaza ummangali wemfihlo. Bambalwa abafazi baya kukhanyela ukuhlaselwa komntu onothando nomonde onokuzithemba, owathi, ngokukhwela okanye ngokukhwabanisa, unenani lomthandayo kwaye uyalala ngomsindo kunye nemilayezo engenangqiqo. Kwaye ungabonisa inkcazo yakho ebusweni kumyeni wakho, umhlobo okanye omaziyo oomama.
Indlela yokujezisa umntu owaziyo ifowuni yakhe, kwaye angena engxaki?
Xa ucinga ukuphindiselela, umntu kufuneka agcine engqondweni ukuba ezinye iindlela azikho nengozi. Ngokomthetho, awukwazi ukuphazamisa ubuthongo bokulala kwabantu, ubhuqe
Kwaye ukuba umxhaphazi akenzanga nantoni na enokuthi ivezwe kwiseshoni yenkundla, kukulungele ukungaziphindezeli. Khangela iingcambu ezingcolileyo zale mntu malunga nezenzo zomntu osondeleyo. Ukuphindezela, okuninzi, kuya kwenza ubomi ngokwabo. Emva koko, umntu uhlala efumana oko yena ngokwakhe akathumela njenge-boomerang.