Ubume bentlalo apho ukubunjwa komntu kwenzeka khona ngokungathandabuzekiyo kunempembelelo enkulu kuyo yonke inkqubo yokubunjwa kwayo, nangona akuyona yodwa into ebalulekileyo ekuqaliseni ulwalathiso lwayo yophuhliso.
Ndixelele ukuba uvelaphi, kwaye ndiya kukuxelela ukuba ungubani
Ngokusemthethweni okanye akunjalo, nayiphi na indawo, nakumazwe aphumelele kakhulu, ihlukaniswe kwi-castes ngenye indlela, kwaye yintoni umgaqo woluntu kwimeko apho umntu akhuliswe khona, kwaye ngokuzayo, umntu ojikelezayo, ngokuyinxalenye ibonisa ukuziphatha, ukuziphatha nokuziphatha iimpawu zokuziphatha kwayo.
Kukholelwa ukuba ukufunyanwa kweempawu ezithile kunye nezakhono zobomi bomntu kwintlalo yoluntu, ekuqalekeni kuyo, le nto ibonakala yinto engokwemvelo ukuba bambalwa abaya kukulinganisa. Nangona kunjalo, akunjalo yonke into elula, kwaye akuyimfuneko ukuba umntwana osuka kwintsapho okanye ulwaphulo lweziyobisi ahambe ngendlela efanayo nabazali bakhe kwaye akanalo ithuba lokungena kubantu. Yonke into inokwenzeka ebomini, nje ukuba umntu akanalo inhlanhla kakhulu kwimeko yendalo, kuya kufuneka enze okungakumbi ukuphakama kwisigaba esiphezulu sezinga lentlalo kunabantu abanenhlanhla ukuba bazalwe baze baqokelele kwimpumelelo, ngokwemiqathango uluntu lwangoku, imeko.
Indlela yokubiza, ngoko uya kuphendula
Ukusebenzisana kwendawo yentlalo kunye nomntu yinkqubo edibeneyo kunye neyoxhomekeke kwimiba ebizwa ngokuba yi- boomerang . Ngamanye amazwi, indlela ophatha ngayo abantu, ngoko baya kukuphatha. Umgaqo-siseko oqhelekileyo uluntu ngokuqhelekileyo uvavanya amalungu ayo, ngokwenene, umlinganiselo wokuthotyelwa kwawo kwintlalo ethile, okokuqala oko kuquka ukugcinwa kwemimiselo yokuziphatha eyenziwe ngumbutho onikeziweyo (okanye iqela elithile lentlalo).