Ibinzana elithi "i-boomerang effect" lithetha iziganeko ezimbini ezihlukeneyo, enye yazo ingumxholo ovela kwintsimi yengqondo, kanti enye ibonakala kwimpilo yethu yemihla ngemihla. Siza kujonga kuzo zombini.
Impembelelo yeBomomang kwingqondo
Kwengqondo, umphumo we-boomerang ngumphumo wesiphumo somyalezo, okuchasene nalowo kulindeleke. Ukubeka nje, ukuba uxelelwa ukuba ungacingi ngerebhe ye-polar, zonke iingcinga zakho ziya kugxila kule silwanyana. Xa uzama ukucinga ngaye, ngakumbi uya kucinga. Le mpawu yaboniswa ngamanani amaninzi.
Ebomini, unenani elikhulu lezicelo, lichazwe kwibinzana elithandwayo "isiqhamo esinqatshelwe siphunga." Ukuba unqabela into ethile kumntwana, umane uvuselele iinqwenela zakhe, yoko kutheni iingqondo zeengqondo zicebise ukuba zingavumeli ukuthatha isenzo, kodwa ukuphazamisa ingqalelo kwenye into kwenye into. Nangona kunjalo, indlela efanayo isebenza nabantu abadala.
Impembelelo yeBomomang ebomini
Kwiingcamango zesininzi, imeko echazwe phantsi kweli binzana. Ukuba ubuza umntu ukuba umonakalo we-boomerang usebenza njani, uya kuthiwa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba le mpawu ichaza ukubuyela kumntu wezinto azenzayo. Ngamanye amagama, ukuba wenze isenzo esingavumelekanga, ngokuzayo umntu uza kwenza isenzo esingathandekiyo kuwe.
Cinga ngemibandela yobomi bendlela umonakalo we-boomerang ngayo ubudlelwane nothando kunokubonakalisa:
- Omnye intombazana encinci, ephikisana nodade wakhe omdala, wayihlambalaza ukuba wayekhulelwe eneminyaka eli-17 kwaye kwafuneka ukuba akhiphe isisu, ebiza amagama angamnandi. Xa wayeneminyaka engu-17, wafumana ukuba ukhulelwe, kwaye wakhupha isisu. Kamva, waba neengxaki, kwaye ukukwazi kwakhe ukuba nabantwana ngoku kungoku.
- Umfazi osebenza njengomongikazi ngomvuzo omncinci, wathatha ubusuku bobusuku ukuze athole okungakumbi. Nangona kunjalo, ngobusuku akafuni ukujongana nabagulayo, kunye nabantwana abalala ngaphandle kwabazali, watyula i-diphenhydramine ukuze balele kwaye abazange bamphazamise.
Kwiminyaka embalwa kamva, xa ebeletha, umntwana wakhe waphakamisa, wabuhlungu, akaphuli. Kule meko, umntu unokubona lula ukusebenza kwe-boomerang. - Intombazana yayithandana nendoda esatshatileyo, kwaye, nangona wayenomfazi nomntwana omncinci, waqalisa ubudlelwane naye. Xa waqhawula umtshato, inzala kuye yafa, waza waya kwelinye, kuba wayeshade emva kweminyaka emininzi. Ngoku ekubeni unomntwana omncinci ezandleni zakhe, umyeni wakhe wathatha inkosikazi encinci waza waqhawula umtshato. Kule meko, umphumo we-boomerang ucacile.
Nangona kunjalo, ukukholelwa kwimpembelelo ye-boomerang okanye akunjalo umcimbi ngamnye kumntu wonke. Wonke umntu unquma lo mbuzo ngokwakhe.