Iimpawu zengqondo yabasetyhini bezobudlelwane ziyaziwa kubo bonke: amantombazana athambe ukwakha ubudlelwane obude, obuqinileyo, ukususela ngosuku lokuqala lokuthandana ukucinga ngomfana njengendoda enokuthi, uyaphoswa, kodwa ungatsho nto. Makhe sizame ukuqonda iinkalo eziphambili zengqondo yezenzo zabasetyhini kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo ezinxulumene nolwalamano.
Ingqondo yengqondo yomfazi
Ngokwemvelo yendalo, ibhinqa lenziwe ukuba libe ngumama kwaye liqondwe ngokuqhelekileyo: umntu onokuthenjwa, ohlala ehlala esondeleyo, ongeke akhuphe okanye athengise, akayi kuyeka xa ekhulisa inzala. Kungenxa yendalo yalo, kwaye kungengenxa yokuhaha, ukuba abafazi banakekele abantu abaphumelelayo, abakhutheleyo. Emva kwakho konke, ubaba onjalo onokuthi akayi kunika umntwana ngakumbi, kodwa naye ubonakala njengenkosana yangempela kwihashe elimhlophe!
Abaninzi banomdla wokuthanda ukuthandaza kwabo, okuvame ukukholisa. Nangona inyaniso yokuba ngamnye umfazi othandanayo uziphatha ngendlela eyahlukileyo, ezi ziyimpawu eziqhelekileyo ezibekwa phantsi kwinqanaba lemvelo .
Ingqondo yekhwele lomfazi
Kungenxa yesifiso esele sibonakaliswe ngokuzinzileyo ukuba abafazi baqwalaselwa ngenyameko ukuba umntu akabaqhubeli ngeempumlo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha intonga igobile. Inzondo ingaba yinto engenangqiqo kwaye ilungile, kodwa kaninzi ukwesaba ukuba "indoda efanelekileyo" ayiyi kuphelela, kwaye ukuzinza kuya kuqhuma njengombhobho wesepha.
Ingqondo yesetyhini yokungcatsha
Ukuba ngaba abafazi baxabisa ubudlelwane, ngoko kutheni amaxesha athile atshintsha? Ngokuqhelekileyo ukukrexeza kwabasetyhini kwenzeka ngokuchasene nemvelaphi yokungahambelani ngokubanzi kunye nokungabikho kokuqwalasela ubudlelwane, ngamanye amaxesha ngenxa yokuba novelwano olunzulu ngomnye umntu, kwaye phantse akuzange kube njalo - ngenxa yelukuluko okanye i-adrenaline. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ibhinqa lizimisele ukugcina ubudlelwane, kwaye xa umntu ebonakalayo, le ntsimbi inzulu kakhulu.