Amadoda ayisoloko ehlekisa umnqweno wamantombazana ukuba athole isikhulu, kodwa bona bafuna ukucinga ngokuphathelele iimpawu kunye nemithetho yowesifazane oyinyani, ukuphupha ukuba yinkosikazi enhle, umthandi onobuchule kunye nomama onomdla. Ewe, kulo mzekelo, ukuthetha malunga nokungaqiniseki kokufumana okulungileyo kumacala onke omfazi kuyanyanzeliswa.
Umfazi wenene, uyintoni na?
Ngubani na onelungelo eliphezulu kangaka: unina wabantwana abasixhenxe, ibhinqa eliyimpumelelo ye-shishini okanye umqhubi womncintiswano? Okanye mhlawumbi kule nto kufuneka ufezekise iziphumo ezibalaseleyo kwimidlalo, okanye ukhusele ugqirha kwi-physics ye-nyukliya? Ukuba uphulaphule umntu ngamnye, ngoko umfazi oyinyani makadibanise yonke le miqondiso. Enyanisweni, oku kunjalo, akunjalo, ngoko ke imigaqo kufuneka ihlaziywe, ngenxa yoko kukho iiparitha ezimbini ezibalulekileyo: i-borsch kunye nomfanekiso omhle.
Kwaye ekubeni abameleli besondo esomeleleyo abanako ukuthetha ngokucacileyo malunga nokuba ngumfazi wangempela, kufuneka ubeke imigaqo ngokuzimeleyo . Iimagazini zamabhinqa azihlali zikulungele ukutolika le ngqiqo engqiqo. Abanye babika ukuba owesifazane owenene uziphatha njengendlovukazi, ngoko ke amadoda mabini, kwaye onke ama-whims ayenziwa kwisicelo esisodwa sengqondo kwindalo yonke. Abanye bathetha ngefleur engenakulinganiswa yokutsalana, enoba ilula nje ingaba nayo.
Kubonakala ukuba iimpawu ezithile ukuba umfazi wokwenene kufuneka abe neyendalo, kwaye nawuphi na umntu onjalo unako ukugqoka isihloko eso, kodwa kuphela indoda yakhe ethandekayo ingamvuza. Ngenxa yokuba, kungakhathaliseki ukuba u-Emancipated Lady uhlala njani, wonke umntu ufuna ukufudumala. Kodwa ukuba uyifumane, kuya kufuneka uzame kunzima ukuba ube iqabane elifanelekileyo kumlingane wakho, wonke umntu ofuna ukumisela njengomzekelo. Kwaye kukho umbuzo ocacileyo malunga nokukhula komsebenzi. Ingqungquthela kukuba ukufumana imeko yowesifazane oyinyani, akunakulungelekile ukuba unqobe iindawo eziphakamileyo zeshishini loshishino. Apha abacebisi abasuka kumaphephancwadi amabhinqa abathetha ngesidingo sokucinga ngezidingo zabo. Kukhona umnqweno wokubandakanyeka kuphela kwintsapho, ube ngumfazi wokwenene kwaye udale ukucoceka, ungalibali ukuhlala unomdla (kungekhona nje emigameni yomzimba) kumyeni wakhe. Yaye ukuba ngaba ukuzibonela ngokubonakalayo kubonakala ngokusetyenziswa kobugqibelelo obufanelekileyo, ke ujonge ubuchule bokulinganisana phakathi kwentsapho kunye nomsebenzi, ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa yimpembelelo yobufazi bakho boqobo.