Amanqaku athatyathwe kumntu odibeneyo yilezo iimpawu zendlela yokuziphatha komlingani enokuzibandakanya ngokungathandabuzekiyo okanye ngokubonisa ingqwalasela kunye nomdla. Kwindoda nabasetyhini, banokuhluka. Abasetyhini, ukudlala ngothando, babonisa iimpawu ezingabonakaliyo zengqalelo: bavame ukubetha i-eyelashes, ukuchukumisa iinwele zabo, badibanise imilomo yabo, babonise ukuguquka kwemizimba yabo. Kwakhona ngokuqhelekileyo, amantombazana athabatha into ezandleni zabo. Ukongezelela, umfazi uphendukela kumntu kunye nomzimba wonke, njengokungathi ubonisa ukuba uvulelekile ukutshatyalaliswa kwaye uyilungele.
Iimpawu zokunxibelelana zingabonakaliswa kwintsebenziswano yoshishino phakathi kwamaqabane amabini, kungekhona amadoda namabhinqa. Impawu zokuqala ziya kuba inkxaso kunye nokuncoma, inomdla onyanisekileyo kwimpumelelo okanye ukungaphumeleli komnxibelelwano. Akukho ndawo yokugqibela ethathwa kwaye idumise. Imiqondiso enjalo yokuqwalasela ibonisa intsebenziswano kunye nokukulungele ukuxhasa.
Izimpawu zokunakwa kwabantu
Amanqaku omntu athatyathwayo ahluke kakhulu kuloo miqondiso ibhinqa ibonisa. Makhe sijonge indlela umntu anika ngayo iimpawu zokuqwalasela. Okokuqala, uzama ukubonisa ngamandla akhe onke ukuba umntu odibanisa naye usebenzisana nendoda yindoda yangempela! Izimpawu ezingabonakaliyo zengqalelo yomntu ziquka ukubonakaliswa okulandelayo:
- umnxibelelwano ukhangelelana ngqo emehlweni, ezama "ukukhuphaza" umnxibelelwano;
- ixelisa umxolelane, uphinda umthambo kunye nesimo saso (umphumo we "isibuko");
- Uzama ukuthintela umnxibelelwano;
- ngokubonisa ukulungisa iingubo zakhe, ubeka umyalelo wokubonakala.
Izibonakaliso zempawu zengqalelo zingabonakalisa kwinto yokuba umntu uthetha okuninzi, uhlala esenza uncomelo oluninzi, ngokuphindaphindiweyo uphinda ngokuphinda igama le-interlocutor, unomdla kwimpumelelo kunye nempumelelo, ukudumisa kunye nokudumisa, uthetha ngezihloko ezithandekayo kubasetyhini.
Kutheni amadoda eyeka ukubonisa imiqondiso yokuqwalasela?
Ngoko, le ndoda ikwazi ukuphumelela, kwaye kwithuba elithile ngoku ujongwa njengombini. Unxibelelwano lwakho lunomdla kwaye lunomdla, kodwa ... umntu wakho uyeka ukunika imiqondiso yokuqwalasela. Oku kulula. Ngokwemvelo yabo, bonke abantu banqobileyo, ngoko ke ukuqwalaselwa kwamanqaku kuncinci kwixesha lobudlelwane. Xa umntu efezekisa oko akufunayo, uhlaziya ngokukhulu. Kule nto ayikho into ehlambulukileyo, oku kuyinto engokwemvelo.
Ukuba ufuna ukuqhubeka nokufumana iimpawu ezisuka kumadoda, ufuna ukuba anikele iintyatyambo, ukuncoma, kwaye uhlawule ingqalelo kwaye ubonise umdla, kuyafaneleka ukulandela imithetho emininzi yokunxibelelana.
- Mdumise ngenxa yantoni na. Ngaba wakunikela iintyatyambo? Bonisa ukubulela nokunyaniseka, mbonise ukuba uyona nto ibhetele, kwaye ungalokothi ukhankanye ukuba kutheni wachitheka okanye into enjalo.
- Ungacingi. Amadoda ayayiqondi iziphakamiso, zona
isikhokelo esithile sokwenza isenzo siyadingeka. Ungatsho ukuthi "andinayo ngokwaneleyo ingqalelo yakho", umcele into ethile, umzekelo, "masiye kwi-cinema / kwindawo yokutyela / ukuhamba", "ndinike i-tulips, kuba intwasahlobo isendaweni", njl njl. kunye nezinye. - Umdlalo! Ngaba ufuna ukunconywa - ukuhlangabezana nale nto, jonga ukuze ube nenento yokwenza ukuncoma. Ungabonakali phambi kwendoda yakho ngendlela eyiyo, ungatshitshiyo okanye ungahlanjululwa. Ndikholelwe, nangona engayiqapheli i-hairstyle yakho entsha, uya kubona inguquko yakho kwaye ukhanyise emehlweni akhe.
Emva kokuba ufunde iimpawu zengqalelo, kwaye ulandela imithetho ethile, uya kufinyelela lula ukuba indoda yakho iya kunika imiqondiso yenkxalabo kunye nokuncoma kuwe lonke ixesha!