Kubazali balindele umntwana, eli xesha leenyanga ezilisithoba libonakala lide lide, kuba ufuna ukuthabatha umntwana ezandleni zakho, hamba naye ukuhamba kwaye uva ilizwi lakhe lokuqala. Kodwa eneneni, eqinisweni, ezi zinyanga zithoba zinyuka ngokukhawuleza - kwaye awuyi kuba nexesha lokubona. Ngoko ngaphambi kokuzalwa komntwana, umntu kufuneka asebenze okuninzi kwaye alungiselele ukuzalwa kwakhe. Okokuqala, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuxhatshazwa kokuthengwa kwezinto eziza kusana kusana. Abaninzi bathi kulungile ukuthenga izinto ngaphambi kokuzalwa komntwana, kodwa makhe sibone ukuba oku kunjalo ngokwenene.
Nini ukuqala ukuqokelela idowari ngokuchanekileyo?
Kukho uphawu lokuba ukuthenga izinto eziza kusana lubi. Bathi i-crib engenanto, ithathwe yimimoya emibi. Ngaba kunjalo? Kwisihlandlo sangaphambili, xa kwakungenakwenzeka ukugibela esitolo kwisitrato kunye nentaba yeengubo zentsana, i-dowry yayisoloko isilungiselelwe umntwana kusengaphambili, kuba iingubo kwakufuneka zikhwetshwe okanye ziboshwe, kwaye isikhalazo sokwakhiwa nokwakhiwa. Yaye ukuba uyayesaba lo mqondiso, faka idoli kwisikhwama esithengiweyo, kunye neenkiki apho ubeka khona izinto zezingane, qhubeka uvulekile, oku, ngokuqinisekileyo, kukuphawu lokubeletha lula.
Ngoko, ngentonga esiyifumene ngayo, kodwa nangona xa ufuna ukulungiselela i- dowry yintsana ? Ngokomgaqo, unokuthenga i-dowry inyanga eziliqela ngaphambi kokuzalwa. Wena ngokwenene kufuneka uthenge izinto ezininzi, kwaye uthengise yonke into nje ngeveki ngaphambi kokuzalwa komntwana kunokunyuka kakhulu kubhajethi yentsapho, ngoko kungcono ukwandisa ukuthengwa kwezinto ngeenyanga eziliqela. Kwaye ekugqibeleni sifunde ukuba yintoni kanye okufuneka uyithenge ngokujonga kwizona zinto zifunwa kakhulu kwiluhlu lokufumana.
- Umqhubi kunye nebhedi. Ukuhamba nokulala kubaluleke kakhulu.
- Izambatho. Ewe, umntwana uya kufuna iimpahla, kunye nevulophu yokukhutshwa esibhedlele.
- Ibhedi. Enyanisweni, kufuneka ubeke ilanga lokubheka, ubeke umqulo kuwo kwaye konke oko.
- I-Tableware. Ingane yakho iya kufuna ibhotile, kwaye kamva i-spoon-spoon.
- Indlela yokucoceka. Uya kuyidinga i-shampoo yesana, i-powder, ukhilimu womntwana.
- Amathoyizi. Ewe, ngaphandle kwamathoyizi, emva kwakho konke, akukho ndawo. Ngoko ukufunyanwa kwabo akwazi ukuma phambi kwalo mbandela kwaye kuyinyanzeliso.
Enyanisweni, le yonke uluhlu lwezinto ezifunyanisiweyo kubaluleke kakhulu, kodwa, ngokuqinisekileyo, uluhlu aluphelelanga kule nto, kuba kusekho amacebo amaninzi anceda ukunakekelwa kwengane, ikiti yokunceda yokuqala efuna ukuqokelelwa, yokuba iqukethe amayeza kuwo onke amaxesha. Kwaye nezinye izinto ezininzi. Emva kokuqwalasela umxholo woluhlu lwezinto ofuna ukuzithenga ukuze ulungele ukuzalwa komntwana, unokuphinde uqiniseke ukuba kufuneka uthenge konke oku kwangaphambili, ukuze ungadli kamva.
Ngoko siqikelele xa sithenga i-dowry yintsana. Kodwa, ke, ukhetho luhlala lenu.