Ubuchwephesha obutsha buqaliswa ebomini bethu kwisantya sokukhanya, kwaye akukho mntu unako ukuyeka le nkqubo. Ngelishwa, ngaphandle kweenzuzo, zizisa ingozi enkulu kungengqongileyo kuphela, kodwa nakwimoya yabantu.
Ukuxhomekeka kwezemidlalo kwiimidlalo zekhompyutyana namhlanje kuyahambelana nokuxhatshazwa kweziyobisi kunye notywala. Yaye yonke imihla ingxaki ihamba kakhulu, ikhula kwaye ikhudlwana.
Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba ngokuxhomekeke koku kuxhomekeka kwabo kubantu abanokuzithoba kwabo kunye nabangakwaziyo ukwakha ubudlelwane nabantu bakwihlabathi lenene kwaye bazivumelanisa neqela.
Umntu onengxaki efana naye ufuna induduzo enyanisweni yenyani, apho unokukhupha ngokutsha utshaba aze ashiye ubunzima bokuphila kwihlabathi elingamqondiyo.
Ukunyangwa koxhomekeke kumdlalo kwimidlalo yekhompyutha
Kufuneka ukuba uqhubeke ngokuthe ngcembe kunye nenyameko. Amanyathelo amaninzi kunye nokuthintela akusombululi ingxaki! Ukunyangwa koxhomekeke kwimidlalo yekhompyutheni kufuneka kuqalwe kakuhle kwaye kungenakuqonda. Ukuba isigulane sibona ukufakela kwindlela yakhe epholileyo, ekhuselekile, ihlabathi, iziphumo ziyakhathaza.
Silungiselele umyalelo wesinyathelo-nge-nyathelo sokuphelisa ukuxhomekeka kwiimidlalo zekhompyutha kubantu abadala kunye nabantwana:
- Okokuqala kwaye, mhlawumbi, into ephambili ekufuneka yenziwe kukuba kuphendulwe kwiphilatherapist. Yonke intsapho iya kufuneka iphume ngengqondo ye-psychotherapy. I-Psychotherapy yentsapho iya kunceda umdlali ukuba atshintshe ukuvuselelwa lula, kwaye abo bajikelezile banokuqonda le nkqubo. Uzakufuna ukufumana izizathu ezininzi ezibangele umntu ukuba azifihle ngendlela eyiyo kwaye azame ukuzinqumla.
- Isinyathelo esilandelayo siya kuba ukuseka ubudlelwane kwintsapho kunye nokunciphisa uxinzelelo.
- Nika inkxaso isigulane, ngoku ufuna inkxaso kunye nokuqonda kunanini ngaphambili. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba yena, njengomntwana, ufunda ukwakha kwakhona ubudlelwane obufanelekileyo nehlabathi kunye nokulawula ixesha elingaphandle kwemidlalo. Ncedise ukulawula imvakalelo kwaye ivakalise kakuhle iimvakalelo.
- Indlela yokulahla ukuxhomekeka kwimidlalo yekhompyutheni - ungagxeki umntwana okanye umntu omdala oqhubayo
ixesha kwiikhompyutheni kwinkqubo yokonyango, ubusuku bungeke bakwazi ukuyicombulula ingxaki, kuba kwanokuba umlutha weziyobisi uncitshiswa ngokuthe ngcembe, khumbula oku.
Enyanisweni, ukuxothwa kokuxhomekeka kwesi sixeko akuyi kuba lula, kwaye zonke izigulane ezijikelezileyo ziya kufuna amandla amaninzi, amaxesha kunye nexesha. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba unceda umntu ongencaka aqonde ukuba into engcono kunehlabathi elithe tye, kwaye apha ulungele ukuwamkela njengoko kunjalo, kholwani mna, kuya kuvela ngaphandle kwehlabathi kunye nokukunika umvuzo ngothando lwakho nokunyamekela okufihlekile kwamehlo amade.