Wonke umntu unokuba nomnqweno wokutshintsha ixesha elidlulileyo. Mhlawumbi, ukuba ezinye iimeko zahluke, okanye ukuba sasiyinqanaba yesigqibo, sasingenza ukhetho oluhlukile, ngoko ubomi behluke ngokupheleleyo.
Ndiyakwazi ukutshintsha idlulileyo?
Sifuna ukutshintsha ezinye izenzo, okanye iziganeko ezizise iintlungu. Kunzima ukuqaphela ukuba idlulileyo ayinakuguqulwa. Kukhona ingqiqo , kodwa akuyiyo yonke into engathembekiyo. Yeka indlela engamangalisa ngayo kwaye engaqhelekanga ingavakala, kodwa ixesha elidlulileyo liphantsi kwethu.
Ungayitshintsha njani into edlulileyo?
Kubalulekile ukutshintsha isimo sakho sengqondo kwiziganeko ezenzeka ngaphambili. Ezi ziganeko ziya kufumana intsingiselo ehlukileyo ngokupheleleyo, kwaye ngenxa yoko, impembelelo yeziganeko kuthi iya kutshintsha. Ngokomgaqo, oku kukuthi sifuna ukutshintsha ixesha elidlulileyo, ngenxa yokuba imemori enzima kakhulu isithintela ukuba siphile ngokugcwele ngoku.
Kukho indlela yokutshintsha ixesha elidlulileyo ukunciphisa intlungu, ukususa ukuzisola nokudabuka, kunye nokunciphisa uxinzelelo. Kubalulekile ukutshintsha isimo sengqondo kwizinto ezenzekile. Ewe, iimeko aziyi kutshabalala kwixesha elidlulileyo, kodwa ziyakwazi ukuguqulwa zibe yinyani ephuma ebomini, kodwa engayi kubuhlungu kwaye ibangela intlungu.
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba asiyazi ukuba ubomi buyakuba njani, ukuba kwakungekho mcimbi kuyo ukuba sifuna ukutshintsha ngazo zonke iindlela. Mhlawumbi le nto yinto ethile esasifundisayo, okanye yanikela amandla ekuphuhliseni , ibe yinto yokuphila kwangempela. Yonke into eyenzekayo ineyona nto ithetha ngayo, kwaye ixesha elilodwa liyakunceda ukuba liyiqonde. Akumangalisi ukuba bathi: "Bekungayi kubakho uvuyo, kodwa uncedo lwanceda."
Ukuze uziqonde kwaye utshintshe isimo sakho sengqondo kwixesha elidlulileyo, kwaye ngenxa yoko, xa ukhululile, unako, ukuba uyayikhulula, kuba iyaziwa ukuba umntu ohlala esidlulileyo akanakuphila ubomi obuzeleyo kwixesha elizayo.