Kwaye kutheni? .. Umbuzo ongacacileyo? Umbuzo unjengombuzo. Kutheni ufuna ukuba umntu wakho ajabule? Hlala phantsi uze ucinge. Intombazana, yeka ukutshitshisa lakho "O, ndingenza njani umfana onoyole?" Hlala phantsi uze ucinge ngombuzo ofanayo. Kulungile - ngoxolo, ekubeni ulapha uninzi. Bonani abafazi babo iphupha lokwenza abayeni babo bavuye. Ndiyazibuza ukuba bayazibona bavuya? Okanye abazange batyelwe ukuba imfihlo eyintloko yabantu bonke abonwabileyo ngumfazi onoyolo? Kodwa ngakumbi kule kamva.
Ewe, ngoku ukuba wonke umntu ulungele kakuhle, makhe sixoxe ngezinto ezenza umntu onoyolo. Ukwabelana ngesondo. Umgca wokuqala, owokugqibela, kunye nomgca wokugqibela-nokuba nantoni na ongayithetha. Ibhinqa elalikwazi ukuyenza indoda eyonwabile ngokwesondo, iyayibopha kuye iminyaka emininzi. Ngaba oku kuthetha ukuba uyamtshata? Hayi, ayikho.
Kulabo abangenandaba nomba womtshato, siya kumbuzo olandelayo - indlela yokwenza umntu onoyolo embhedeni? Musa ukuthoba. Hayi, kungekhona loo nto. Musa u kudana. Ukuphendula ngokuzithandela nangokungazivumeli iimfuno zomlingane wakho. Namela ingqalelo yokuba ndasebenzisa igama elithi "likhululekile", kwaye "aliyi kudibana", kuba oku kubalulekile. Kuzo zombini iimeko uya kwenza umntu onwabe, kodwa ngowokuqala uza kugcina inhlonipho yakhe, kwaye okwesibini-mhlawumbi ayikho.
Kulo mandla yonke into ivumelekile, ngaphandle kokuba nifuna. Ibhedi yindawo yodwa apho umfazi angakwazi khona kwaye kufuneka athobele i-whims zomntu-ukuba ezi zibetho azimthobeli kwaye zenze intlungu yakhe. Mfazi othandekayo! Okokuqala, oku kusebenza kuwe. Kwenzeka njani? Kwaye nantsi. Ufuna ukwenza indoda yakho ijabule kwigumbi lakho lokulala - funda izivakalisi ezibini zokugqibela. Okanye ucinga ukuba amadoda ayesebenza ngokufihlakeleyo kwiindawo zabo eziphathekayo ngenxa yokuba loo miqolo ye-cutlets e-Kiev iyingcali?
Kutheni ndibhalela konke oku? Ngenxa yokuba ndicinga ukuba umbuzo wakho "Indlela yokwenza umntu onwabileyo?" (Okanye "Indlela yokwenza umntu ovuyayo?") Enyanisweni, kwindawo ethile kakhulu, umbuzo othi "Ndingamgcina njani kum?" Okanye andiyi kunene? Uyabona ...
Ndaqala ngokukhethekileyo ngombuzo wesondo, kuba ngaphandle kobudlelwane obubi besondo bangela indoda ibe nemihlali - hle! - akunakwenzeka ukuba usebenze. Ewe, kukho into engaqhelekanga. Umfazi unokuhlala esoloko egcina indoda yakhe isini esilungileyo. Nangona kunjalo, unkosikazi wesondo ongathandabuzekiyo wesondo awunakwenzeka ukuba unyanzele indoda ukuba yishiye intsapho. Kutheni?
Kungenxa yokuba isondo kuphela sisenza umntu ajabule. Ukuze ulonwabo, loo mntu ufuna ukuba nezinye izinto ezincinci. Yintoni? Ithebula elihle? Ewe, kuhamba ngaphandle. Akukho mntu wacinga ukulibala elidumileyo "Indlela eya entliziyweni yomntu ..." Kwakhona. Ngaba ihlambulukile kwaye i-ironed? Kufuneka. Uxolo? Ewe, ukususela ekumemeni ukwenza ulwalamano lwakho luvuyiswe, ngokuqinisekileyo, aluyi kusebenza: phantse akukho namnye onokumelana nezikhalazo. Ngaba konke oko?
Emva koko funda oku: "Amadoda athande ukuxhatshazwa. Emva koko, ukukhethwa kwe-nit ngamanye amaxesha ubungqina obuninzi bothando ... "UBalzac wayenomdla ngokumangalisayo ngomphefumlo womfazi. Kodwa akukho ngaphantsi kokuba wafunda imiphefumlo yabantu. Ibhinqa, ingenangqondo nengqondo, ngokungathi ngendleleni, inokwenza umntu abe nolonwabo ngakumbi kunomntu othobelayo nangamagama alandela kuye ngesithunzi. Kwaye buhlungu gqitha ukuba umnqweno wakhe wokwenza umhlobo othandekayo, umfazi usoloko eyika ukucinga ngezinto ezincinci ezincinci.
Zizenzele. Mamela oko intliziyo yakho ikubuza yona. Ewe, intombazana okanye ibhinqa, njengomthunywa wevangeli olungileyo, uzama ukwenza inkwenkwe okanye umntu ejabule ngokuzimela, inokumnika umvakalelo wokuzibulela kuye. Kodwa ngaba lo mbulelo, ngexesha elifanayo, lonwabo? Ndiyathandabuze.
Ekuqaleni, ndithe ndachaza apho kufuneke ukuba kufuneke ukukhangela i-keyic magic kwiimfihlelo zabantu bonke abonwabileyo. Ukuba ukhohliwe - ndiya kuphinda ndithi kwakhona: Amadoda ayayithanda abo bafazi abazithandayo. Ngoko-ke, cinga kuqala malunga nendlela onokuzenza ube nolonwabo - okulungileyo. Yaye le ndoda? Umntu onoyolo uya kuyenza ngokwakhe - nokuba awuzange ucinge ngako.