Ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva, intombazana nganye ivale intetho evuyisayo ngomntu kwingxoxo yabasetyhini abadala: "Kufuneka afunde, uyindoda ehlakaniphile kakhulu." Kwaye kulo mzuzwana okokuqala ngqa ebomini bakhe ucinga ngendlela yokuba intombazana ekhaliphile. Kuthetha ntoni ukuba "umfazi ohlakaniphile nozilumko" uthetha, kwaye kukho ubuchule obuya kuxela indlela yokuba ngumfazi oyisilumko-makhe sixoxe ngale nqaku.
Iingcamango malunga nabasetyhini
Umxholo wengqondo yabasetyhini igcwele imilinganiselo yokuba ngamanye amaxesha aqala ukuphikisana. Inyaniso inokufunyanwa ngokubheka ngokukhawuleza kunye nokwenza isabelo senyaniso kuwo ngamnye.
I-Stereotypes yokuqala. Ukukrakra, yintoni isilumko-mhle, yintoni isilumko
Umfazi ohlakaniphile akayi kuphumelela kumadoda-yile ngcamango ephambili yale nqanaba. Akayena owonwabisayo, ubanda kwaye mhlawumbi unomthi. Uyinto ebingceliyo, eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, engonwabanga ebomini bakhe. Kwaye akukho mntu ufuna. Inqaku eligqityiweyo lokugqibela libonisa imvelaphi yolu hlobo lwesimo esivamile: ukusuka kwinqanaba labantu besilisa, abalinganisa ngokwabo ubuchule ngokuhambisana nesondo. Yaye ukuba okokugqibela akulungile - aba bhinqa abaqhayisayo bayaligxeka, bodwa bodwa, ewe.
Ngubani ozuzayo kulo mbono: amadoda angakhuselekanga anengqondo ephantsi.
Uhlobo lwesibini: ingqondo yabesifazane ayikho
Inani le-aphorisms kulo mbandela alipheli. Umgibe owaziwayo weengqondo - zama ukubonisa ukuba awuyiyo inqanawa yentlango. Uphononongo lubonise ukuba abafundi besifazane babhala iimvavanyo ngokulinganayo nabafundi abatsha. Kodwa kwimeko apho umfundisi ngaphambi kokusabalaliswa kwemisebenzi wazivumela ukuba uhlazo-ukungathandabuzeki kwintliziyo yabasetyhini - amantombazana abonisa iziphumo ezibi kakhulu. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, akuyi kuba nzima ukufumana ulwazi malunga nabesifazane abahlakanipheleyo abaye baphucula impucuko yabantu kwimbali.
Ngubani ozuza kulo mzekelo: amadoda anengqondo ephantsi.
Umzobo wesithathu: Ingqondo yowesifazane ubulumko bentombi
Ubulumko bentombi kukufihla ingqondo yakho, ukukholisa abantu. Ibhinqa elihlakaniphile kunye nelisilumko liya kuze livumele ukungathandabuzeki ukuba le ndoda ibaluleke kakhulu, iyicacile, uye wayigqiba yonke into kwaye yenze loo nto. Umfazi ohlakaniphile akayi kuze agxininise kwimpumelelo yakhe, ukufaneleka kwakhe - ukuba wena! Kuya kuba sisisithakazelo kakhulu, esiya kuzisola ngayo. Umfazi ohlakaniphile uyazibukela: kufuneka abe mnandi, athande, alungele kwaye atyale nayiphi na imini yosuku, aze acinezele. Intombazana enhle neyingqondi kuphela inokuphumelela-kuqala utshatile, uze ugcine intsapho.
Ngubani ozuzayo kule ngongoma: abantu abazingca nabanoma iyiphi inqanaba lobunzima.
Isiteti sesithathu sisekelwa ngabafazi ngokwabo ngaphezu kwamanye amabini. Kule nqanaba zikho iingcebiso ezivela kumama, oomama, oomakhulukazi-ukunika, ukunyamezela, ukuthatha ngaphezulu, nokufuna okungaphantsi. Akumangalisi - ngekhulu leminyaka ukuziphatha oku kuye kwavumela ukuba ibhinqa kunye ne-bat batayi kuba, kwaye ubuncinane isithuba esithile sentlalo sokuhlala.
Kuthetha ntoni umfazi okhaliphile?
Masibuyele kwintombazana encinane efuna impendulo kumbuzo othi "njani ukuba ngumfazi okhaliphile." Iingqungquthela, siphelile, ngoku sijonge ukukhangela izinto ezintle kwaye ziyingqiqo, kwaye ngokwenjenje bayavuya, bafazi. Kwaye
Ngoko indlela yokuba ngumfazi okhaliphile: ukuba uphile njengomntu ozelekileyo, okanye ukutsala isabelo sabasetyhini kwaye uhlangabezane nokulindela - ulindele ukuba oku kuya kuthiwa ngumfazi ohlakaniphile ngokwenene? Wonke umntu uyazikhethela yena.