Indlela yokukhululwa?

Ewe, ukuthozama kukuhlobisa le ntombazana. Kodwa kuzo zonke izinto kufuneka ukwazi umda. Kucacile ngakumbi ukuba uqaphele umehluko phakathi kokuthozama kunye ne-zazhatosti, ukuvalwa. Abantu badla ngokubanjelwa kulabo bantu abakhululiwe ekunxibelelaneni , abayikwesaba into entsha, ngokutsho, bayatshisa ngomlilo wobomi. Abantu abanjalo, njengomlilo, kufuphi nalapho unokufudumala khona. Unokuba njani umntu onjalo? Indlela yokukhululwa, ukuba ukuthozama kwakho okanye izibango zengqondo akuvumeli ukuba uhambe ngaphaya kwezikhokelo ezenziwe nguwe?

Indlela yokukhululwa kwintetho?

Ukuqala oko kuyimfuneko ukuthetha malunga nendlela yokukhululwa ngakumbi kwizinto eziqhelekileyo, ubomi bemihla ngemihla. Okokuqala, ekubeni bahlala behlangana neengubo, kubalulekile ukubeka iliso ukubonakala kwazo. Intombazana ekhululekile, enezithemba ayisoze yahamba ngee-baggy jeans kunye neT-shirt elula. Ukubonakala kufuneka kubonise isimo sangaphakathi nesimo sengqondo. Oku kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo xa ukhetha i-wardrobe yakho. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba zonke izithintelo entloko. Ukuba kukho ukwesaba uluntu, phambi kwengqwalasela yoluntu, kuyimfuneko ukulwa nale ntswelo. Njengoko uyazi, i-wedge ikhupha i-wedge. Kancinci, ukwesaba kuza kupheka kwaye ukukhululwa kuya kuvela. Into ephambili: ukuvumela ukuba uhambe ngaphesheya, ukufumana ukuchaneka okuncinane, ngelixa, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukugcina imida yokuziphatha.

Indlela yokukhulula ebhedini?

Akukho nto engabalulekanga kwaye iphuthumayo yamantombazana amaninzi ngumbuzo wendlela yokukhululwa ngesini. Ngokukodwa ngokuqhelekileyo kunye neengxaki zentloni okanye uhlobo oluthile lwe-zazhatosti ngexesha lesondo, loo ntombazana eqala ukuhlala ngesondo. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ithembela kumlingane wakho. Ukuba kunjalo, inxalenye yengonyama sele iyenziwe. Kule nto yonke into ixhomekeke ekubeni uyakwazi ukuphumla nokuzonwabisa. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba isondo ayikho into ehlazo okanye ephantsi-kukubonakalisa iimvakalelo, kwakunye nokuhanjiswa kunye nokwamkela ukuvakalelwa okulungileyo, ukuhlawula ngamandla.

Ukuze sikhululwe ngexesha lesini, kuyafuneka kwakhona ukuba sikwazi ukuqonda. Akudingeki ukuba ucinge ngendlala malunga nokokupheka kusasa kusasa okanye xa uhlala phantsi ukuze ubhale loo ngxelo. Zonke ezi ngxaki ziqhelekileyo zilinde ngokugqithiseleyo. Kubaluleke ngokufanayo ukuvumela ukuba uqikelele kwaye ungabesabi uvavanyo. Ukuzama into entsha, udibanisa ubomi bakho bobulili, kwaye ngokukhawuleza ulahlekise zonke zakho izakhiwo.