Ulwaphulo luyimveliso yomona, ngenxa yoko, uninzi lwengcaciso engalunganga ithunyelwe kuwe, ukutshabalalisa i-aura nokukhupha amandla kuwe. Ulwaphulo-mthetho luhluke kakhulu - ngokuwa kwezemali, ukwehla kokudala, ukuqhawula umtshato, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo kwaye, ngoko kuthetha, umonakalo wokufa okanye ukuphela. Emva koko, ubomi obuhle kunye nobudlelwane obuyimpumelelo bangela ukuba abanye babe nomona.
Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuba unobungqina obubi kangakanani, ukuba uyakwazi ukuqonda ukuphanga kwaye uyichaze ngexesha, emva kokuzama, unokuphephelela kwimiphumo eyingozi kunye nokufa.
Uxhala
Masiqale ngeendlela zokubona ukuphazamiseka okanye isohlo elibi ngokulondeka. Okokuqala, uphawu lokungabikho kobudlelwane obude kunye nesini esahlukileyo ngexesha elithile. Kule meko, unqwenela ukuthanda kunye nosapho, kwaye amadoda angadana nawe, okanye ixesha elide ahlale ebomini. Kwaye, nangemva kobudlelwane obusondeleyo, bazama ukuguqula ikhaya lakho ngokukhawuleza.
Kukho nezinye iimpawu ezininzi, indlela yokuqonda ukuphazamiseka kwedwa. Nantsi ingundoqo:
- uphupha umtshato nabantwana, kodwa uyaqonda ukuba amaphupha akho awayi kuza kwenzeka;
- Uvakalelwa ukuba kukho into okanye umntu ohlala endlwini yakho, ingakumbi kwigumbi lokulala; ngaphezu koko, zonke iindwendwe zakho zithetha okufanayo;
- izilwanyana zikuphepha;
- Amadoda afuna ukuba ngabahlobo kunye nawe, abakhathalele ubuhlobo obusondeleyo;
- Unemibala yokulala, apho uhlala ufumana kwindawo engaziwayo.
Ulwaphulo-mthetho lokufa
Ukuphazamiseka ekufeni kukuyingozi kakhulu, xa umntu onomona efuna ukutshabalalisa ngokupheleleyo kunye nokusabalalisa ebusweni bomhlaba. Kodwa ukuba uqaphele, kwaye ukwazi izibonakaliso zokubona umonakalo wokufa, unokwenza amalungiselelo afike ngexesha.
Iimpawu zokuhlaselwa:
- udla ngokugula, kwaye oogqirha benza ukuxilongwa okungaqondakaliyo;
- emva kokonyango, unesifo esitsha, esinye emva kwesinye;
- awuthandi ukucinga kwakho kwisibuko;
- Ukukhathazeka kakubi kuni;
- Ukuba unomlingani osisigxina okanye umyeni, utshintsha kakhulu isimo sengqondo sakho;
- izilwanyana, ekuboneni, zibalekela, zihlasele;
- awukwazi ukufumana isiphambano sakho, okanye uhlushwa ngumnqweno wokuwususa, uye waba nzima kakhulu;
- Unengcamango ephosakeleyo, uhlushwa yizibilini;
- nayiphi na isenzo singaphumeleli;
- kumbundu unayo ngezizathu ezingenakucaciswa, zikhona iinaliti, izikhonkwane, izipikili, iintambo ngeenkizi;
- uziva unonwabo olungenakulinganiswa okuvela kwimvelaphi engaqondakaliyo.
Kwaye enye ngongoma ebalulekileyo: kufuneka uqaphele kunye nabathandekayo bakho. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukwazi indlela yokuqonda ukuba kukho umonakalo komnye umntu. Akunanto yinto abayithethayo ukusuka kwicala libonakala ngakumbi.
Iimpawu:
- Ukubonakala okubukhali kwenani elikhulu leentlobo ze-pigment;
- utshintsho kwisisindo - ukulahleka ngokukhawuleza kwindleko okanye ukufumana ubunzima;
- ukunganyamezelani kwamabandla, ukukhwabanisa ngexesha lokufunda umthandazo;
- impendulo enganeleyo kumazwi aqhelekileyo abantu.