Indlela yokuba ngcono?

Ukuba ubuza umbuzo: "Yintoni enokuyenza ukuze ube ngcono?", Kakade, uhamba ngendlela efanelekileyo! Oku kuthetha ukuba uzama okuthile ... uzame ukulungelelanisa nokuziphucula . Kodwa inyaniso kukuba ngamnye wethu unemibono eyahlukileyo.

Bangaphi abantu - ezininzi iingcamango

Xa umntu ecinga ngombuzo wendlela yokuba ngcono kunabanye, ufuna ukuba yinto engcono kakhulu, adlula omnye umntu aze abonise oko akwaziyo. Yaye xa ebonakalisa indlela yokuba ngcono kunobusuku, ukuba abe ngcono kunokuba wayezimele, ngoko ufuna ukukhula, ngelixa ezama ukulungela. Kwaye kuthetha ukuthini ukuba ube ngcono?

Nantoni na esiyenzayo, sikwenza ngenxa yokuba siyifuna. Abo bangavumelaniyo nale nto bayesaba ukutshintsha into ethile. Bathi akuhlali kuxhomekeke kuthi. Ewe, kunjalo, kodwa inyaniso yokuba izenzo zakho kuphela ozikhethelayo yinyaniso. "Ukuba awuhlali ujabule kwindawo ohlala kuyo, yitshintshe! Awunomthi. "

Ukuba ngcono kukukwenza ngcono ubomi bakho

Zonke iintshukumo zethu zenziwa ukwenzela ukuba sizibonele. Nangona umntu onobubele, onyanisekileyo nozinikezelayo ehlabathini wenza izinto ezibalulekileyo, ezilungileyo ukwenzela ukuba ekugqibeleni abe nemvakalelo emnandi emphefumlweni, kwakhona uzive njengomntu olungileyo - umntu onoyolo (kuye, inwaba kukukwenza abanye). Ukuqwashisa malunga nokuba wenza ntoni kowomnye, kubangela uvuyo.

"Sinako oko sinika ..."

Zonke izenzo ezilungileyo esizenzayo ngokuthanda kwethu nangentliziyo, zanelisa isidingo sokuba ngcono. Kwaye ke, yonke into esiyenzayo iyenzeka kuthi ngomnqweno wethu, ukuba sizibonele ngokwabo, ukuze sizihloniphe thina kwaye siziqhenyce ngokwethu. Khumbula, kungekhona ukubonakalisa umntu, kodwa ukuzingqina. Kungokuthi abantu banemibono eyahlukileyo malunga nendlela abafuna ukuzibona ngayo.

I-Puzzle - njani ukuba ngumhlobo ongcono?

Ukuba umntu ongenamntu onobuncwane obuncitshisi ufuna ukukhawuleza kwi-punctuation "Ndingcono kunoko," kwaye emva kokukubonisa oku, uya kuzincama aze ayeke, enelise umnqweno wakhe nomnqweno. Omnye, ubulumko, akayi kuyeka kwizinto eziye zaphunyezwa, jonga emva, ukhangela abanye, ufuna ukuba ngcono, uyazi ukuba akukho mntu ufanelekile. Abantu abanjalo abanalo njongo - "ukuba babe bhetele kunomntu othize" - banemodeli yabo yokuziphatha okungcono. Masisuke ekucingeni ukuba senze isenzo kwaye sifumane indlela yokuba yinto engcono kakhulu (eyona nto) kwaye sifumane impumelelo.

Iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokuphucula

1. Ungazixeleli: "Ndiza kulunge," kodwa: "Ndibe ngcono." Musa ukulibala ixesha elide elinde. Usele apha. UTHIXO!
2. Uthando.
3. Yenza kuphela ezo ntshukumo ozihlonipha zona.
4. Ukuzalisa amaphupha kunye neminqweno yakho.
5. Yenza into ukufezekisa iziphumo, yonke imihla.
6. Nika ingqalelo enkulu kwimfundo, funda.
7. Xoxa kuphela nalabo bantu abaholayo phambili.
8. Jonga umzimba wakho kunye nempilo.
9. Yonke imihla, silwa, ungadambisi ngezandla zakho, ngemikhwa emibi yakho.
10. Ungakhubekisi abantu.
11. Unakekele abathandekayo bakho.
12. Ungasebenzisi amagama ahlukumezayo.
13. Umsebenzi. Ennobles zabasebenzi.
14. Hlalani kwindawo ehlambulukileyo noluhlekileyo ohlala kuyo.
15. Bemihla ngemihla abanye benza into enhle.
16. Uhambo.
17. Phuhlisa.
18. Khangela umntu, mnike uthando kunye nethemba.
19. Funda into entsha, ufunde iincwadi ekuziphuculeni , ufunde ulwimi lwangaphandle, umzekelo.

Yenza into ebalulekileyo kuwe yintoni utshoyo, indlela oyenza ngayo kunye nento ocinga ngayo. Ngomntu konke kufanele kube kuhle: bobabini ubuso, kunye neengubo, nomphefumlo kunye neengcamango.