Akukho mntu othanda kwaye akafuni ukulimaza. Nangona kunjalo, ngokuchasene neminqweno yethu, ngezinye iimeko ngezinye iimeko azihlakuleli. Ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka ulale kwiibhedi ezingenakhathazeka, uzuze iindonga eziluhlaza zewadi yesibhedlele, yidle inyama, ikhalori ephantsi ephekwe kwindawo enye. Ngokumalunga nento ongayenza esibhedlele, ukuze ugweme ukunyamezela ukufunda.
Thatha nawe
Masiqale ngento ofuna ukuyikhusela impilo yakho. I-malaise encinane, engakhange ibaluleke kakhulu, ingakhokelela kwisifo esibi, esingathandekiyo. Ukunyamekela iimpawu zomzimba wakho. Ziqaphele wena kunye nabathandekayo kuwe. Ngaphandle koko, kuya kufuneka sichithe iintsuku eziliqela "ezinoyolo" esibhedlele. Ukuba oku kungenakuphetshwa, ke ungakhathazeki esibhedlele imisebenzi enjengale:
- u kufunda. Kudala kangakanani ukhetha incwadi enomdla? Le nto iya kunceda ukuqhawula iintsuku ezimbalwa, ukuza kuchitha esibhedlele. Funda i-psychology yobudlelwane, funda inzuzo enomdla ebusweni kunye nokunyamekela komzimba, mhlawumbi uya kuba ngumxholo onomsebenzi wokuba ngumzali. Kule meko, umcimbi okhethiweyo ngumcimbi wentetho;
- ukudibanisa. Ukukhupha okanye ukudibanisa inaliti - khetha oko kukulungele ngakumbi kwaye udale ngezandla zakho ezinye izinto ezinobulumko kunye nento enhle. Unokubhinqa ikrabhu, i-napkin ecebileyo kwietafile zokutya, umbhoxo obalala, okanye into enzima kakhulu. Imagazini eneengcamango zangaphambili kunye nemiyalelo yesinyathelo-ngeyinyathelo ingathengwa nakweliphi na i-bookstock okanye i-newsstand;
- ukukhahlela. Iikiti ezenziwe ngokulungelelanisa imitshini ziphefumlelwe yimidwebo enomdla kunye nemibala eqaqambileyo. Yongeza umbala kwiintsuku ezimnyama zokuhlala kwakho esibhedlele;
- imidlalo yebhodi. Ukuba kukho ubuncinane amabini ngaphezulu kwiwadi "yabahlobo kwintlekele", ngoko umdlalo onjalo njengokwenene kukuncedisa ukuba uzibhedlele esibhedlele. Vumela abo banokutyelela banakekele oku. Ukudlala amakhadi kuya kunceda ukudlula ixesha;
- kufunda iilwimi. Mhlawumbi uhlala kuyo
Iziko lonyango - esi sizathu esihle sokuphinda amagama angamazwi angaphandle, olwagrama kunye nokuqhubela phambili imfundo; - cinga ngekamva. Ngaba unalo iphupha? Ziziphi iinjongo zakho? Ngaba unelisekile ngobomi bakho? Ngaphezulu kwezi mibuzo uya kuba nexesha lokucinga. Yenza izicwangciso ngekamva, ekubeni ufuna ukutshintsha ubomi bakho bubhetele.
Ukuba ngokukhawuleza uya kuba lusizi esibhedlele, ukhathazekile kwaye ungenakuze ubekezeleleke, ucinge ngento yokuba le miqathango yesikhashana. Kungekudala uza kuba ekhaya. Yiba nomonde.