Ngomnyaka wokuqala wobomi umntwana wenza ukukhupha okuqinileyo ekuphuhliseni. Ukususela kumntwana ongenakunceda ngokumemeza ngesantya sokunyakaza okuphazamisayo kunye nokungaqondakali, uphendukela umntwana oqeqeshekileyo ohambayo kwaye othethayo. Esinye sezigaba ezisemgangathweni endleleni yokuqonda umntwana ngokuhamba siyikhono lokuguqula. Ukukwazi ukuguqula umntwana ecaleni, kwisisu nangemva yakhe, uthetha ngamandla esakhelo se-muscular kunye noxakeka.
Abantwana abazalwanga ngolwazi lokufunda indlela yokujika. Olu buchule lwakhiwa ngenxa yokuvela kwesidingo, umzekelo, ukufumana i-rattle, okanye kungcono ukuqwalasela into ethile. Ukukwazi ukujika kwintsana nganye ngeendlela ezininzi kuxhomekeke kwimpilo yakhe yomzimba. Kukho ubunzima bokuzilolonga okhethekileyo, enye yeendlela ongakufundisa ngayo ngokukhawuleza umntwana ukuba aqhube.
Ngaliphi ixesha umntwana aqala ukugqitha?
Njengoko sele sele khankanywe ngasentla, ixesha xa umntwana osanda kuzalwa eqala ukuguquka lizimisele ngokukodwa ngamandla akhe. Kukholelwa ukuba iminyaka eyi-3-4 inyanga lixesha lokuba umntwana unako ukuqala ukujika. Iinyanga ezi-4-5 - ixesha apho umntwana engakwazi ukulawula umzimba wakhe kwaye aqale ukujika kwisisu nasemva. Ezi zifaki zihambelana, kwaye ke ngoko nganye imeko ethile iya kuba yinto efanayo. Ngoko, ngokomzekelo, kwimeko yabantwana abade kunye nabakhulu, ixesha elidlulileyo kwisisu lingazilibaziseka kwiinyanga ezi-5-6, kuba kunzima kubo ukuba baqoke iqela.
Ukuba umntwana o fi kelele kwiinyanga ezi-6 akakwazi ukuzimela ngokuzimeleyo isikhundla sakhe, ke le sizathu esibalulekileyo sokucinga malunga nendlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba aphendule.
Kutheni umntwana engaphenduki?
Abanye umama baqala ukuxhalaba malunga nokuba kutheni umntwana engaphenduki, ngelixa abantwana bakhe abaselula bezama ukukhwela. Izizathu zolu hlobo ziphatha:
- Iingxaki ze-neurological , ezibonakalisa ithoni ye-muscle engalinganiyo. Oku kungenza umntwana aphendule enye indlela. Ukubhukuda, ukubhukuda, i-gymnastics ekhethekileyo yabantwana kuya kunceda ukuxazulula ezi ngxaki. Amatyala amaninzi angadinga i-neurologist ukuba imisele iyeza.
- Ummiselo womntwana. Abantwana be-choleric, kunye ne-sanguine, banomdla kakhulu, kodwa kuba baqala ukuzama ukuqonda indawo kunye nokuhamba. Umntwana onesistim se-nervous freelance angaba nomdla wokucinga kwaye "nje ube novila."
- Akukho mfuneko. Umntwana akafuni ukujika xa engenaso isisiseko esihle salo. Ngoko, ngokomzekelo, kwintsapho apho umama noba banelisekile iimfuno zomntwana nangaphambi kokuba aziqonde, akunakwenzeka ukuba umntwana uya kuthatha inyathelo lokufunda ikhono elitsha.
Yintoni endiyenzayo ukuba ndenze umntwana aphenduke?
Kumntwana uphendukele, kufuneka wenze i- gymnastics ekhethekileyo kwiintsana ezisanda kuzalwa , ukuzivocavoca kunye nokuxilisa ukuqinisa imisipha yomva, isisu kunye nemida. Ukuphumelela kunye nokonwabisayo zezifundo kunye nezingane kwi-fitball.
Ukuvuselela umnqweno womntwana ukuba aguqulwe, uthathe esinye isikhundla, kucetyiswa ukuba uyilungise ngamathoyizi aqhakazileyo kunye nomculo. "Ukunyameka" kufuneka kufakwe kwindawo yokubonakala, kodwa ekude, ukuze akwazi ukuzifumana ngokukhawuleza, kwaye uzame ukwenza imizamo kule nto.
Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba agqitywe?
Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba avule esiswini sakho kwaye abuyele ngeendlela ezilandelayo:
- Izibonda zomntwana zidlulile esifubeni kwaye zifakwe emacaleni. I-stereotype yemoto, efunyenwe nalo msebenzi, iya kunceda xa uphahla ukusuka emva ukuya kwisisu, xa umntu ophetheyo kufuneka acinezele kwisifuba, kunye nomnye ukuzinceda.
- Umlenze wesobunxele uphonswa phezu komlenze wokunene, uholele emntwaneni apho ulele khona umntwana. Olu ntshukumo lufanele lubangele umntwana ukuba aqede ukuqhuba, ukukhupha kwisisu. Kwelinye icala ngokufanayo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo emva kokufunda umntwana ngekhono lokukhupha kwisisu emva kweveki ezimbalwa ziqala ukuqonda ukujika emva.